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What does dating you looks like?

It’s fun but it’s very intense so be ready for a lot of deep conversations. I will get all the surface level things out the way when we first started talking, I will learn everything there is to know about you! I am very ocd when it comes to details and routines! So I will pay attention to everything and I will make sure that I stay consistent in everything. I am very nurturing I will always make sure you have what you need, whether it is food, attention or affection. 

The communication will not decrease as we get to know each other a little more, unless you need space then I will back off. I will also back off because absence makes the heart grow fonder, I will make sure that you miss me first ! Even if I will also miss you a lot but we will need space to think about each other. 

I will also back off if I need space but if I like you a lot I will tell you why I need space and when we can start talking again if it’s possible ( I hate wasting people’s time) 

I will need space when: I’m mad, going through something traumatic, tired or really sad. I will only ask for space because I don’t want to hurt you or because I won’t be a great companion at that moment but once I sort it out which could be in a few days we will get back to being super close, if that bothers you don’t worry I am willing to compromise. 

Fun fact I love touching the person I love, if you don’t like me touching you a lot I will learn not to because when something looks good to me I have to touch it lol. And I will know what you don’t like already when I first started to get to know you so this won’t be issue I will know the exact time to touch or not to touch you.  I am not annoying about it don’t worry, I don’t know if I like public display of affection yet! But if you hold my hand I won’t mind. I won’t touch you if you’re hungry, annoyed I will only do it when you give me that look and the ____ coming off (it’s a Nicki Minaj song lol!)  we will be able to talk about anything! I don’t judge ! We can talk about finances, food or anything you want. 

There will be a lot of cooking dates, movie dates, watching football dates don’t worry I will make it fun for you. Play dates with my cats but only when I trust you because I don’t bring just anyone around my cats, I need to see if we are compatible in that aspect.

A lot of dates by the beach, or in the park. Going to concerts, going to football games, traveling together as a friend group of course. It will be fun! But at times I will get sad but don’t worry I will tell you everything and you won’t be left in the dark I will give you the opportunity to cheer me up. 

A lot of gym dates where we go work out together we don’t have to be together the whole time but knowing that you are working out is amazing!. It shows me that you want to look good for me just as much I want to look good for you ;)

We will do everything together ! We will be best friends as well as lovers because I think friendship is the strongest bond there is when in an intimate relationship.

Oh and don’t forget nap dates! Not on the bed tho lol unless we’re married 

We will pray together, do family worship weekly, prepare meetings as much as we can we don’t have to do it all the time I just need to know that you prepare the meeting and anytime you want to do it with me I am more than ready. Hopefully it’s vice Versa.

There will be a lot of jokes! A lot of hugs ! A lot of laughter! I am a big kid and you will notice that in the relationship and you will be surprised of how full of life I am because at first  I look sad and shy! but really I am sad that I am alone so finding you will save me! 

To my future lover and best friend ;) get ready for a wild ride! I mean it !