A weird date

Last month I went on a date, it was very laid back we were basically catching up because we've known each other for a while and this was our third date. We went to a bar where you can also eat, we sat in front of the bartender who was a girl.

She came with our drinks but before we get to that let me just say how hard it was for me to pick a drink! I didn't know what to drink! last time I had an alcohol drink was at a pool party in august I think and it was just a beer. I don't drink alcohol anymore because of my addicting personality, I am addicted to dopamine rush which is a feel good hormone and that explain why I am so addicted to working out which is a good addiction to have. I used to drink a lot especially in 2020 I would buy any types of strong alcohol drink! and drink the whole bottle in less than 2 days! one day after I was sick and I am sure I had alcohol poisoning but I didn't go to the Doctor to confirm. I woke up and threw out about like 5 bottles of hard liquor down the drain and ever since then I stopped drinking I would have a half of glass of wine once in a blue moon. But I did stop drinking for a good 2 years. A glass of wine can last me 2 weeks now and I only drink 2 months out of the year actually barely... I might buy 2 bottle of wines a year. Before it used to be 2 bottles every 2 days!. I can't be around people who drink a lot I feel uncomfortable and I don't want to relapse...

So I had my date pick out my drink (I didn't tell him about my problem I just acted cute and dumb and said with a cute face" pick a drink for me, I am so overwhelmed" lol if only he knew!) I am not in too deep with him so talking about my alcohol problem is wayyy too much lol. People who've known me my whole life don't know much about it imagine someone I've known less than 3 years lol.

anyway back to the date: the guy I went on the date with is a gym head just like me and we were comparing how much we squat and deadlift and hold and behold, here comes the girl butting in the conversation to brag about how much she deadlift! geez is this your date or mine? she then proceeded to pull out her phone and show us videos of her pulling a car... ok we get it you're strong. But that was so unprofessional and she kept looking at him and only talking to him! personally if I see a couple out I don't pay attention to the guy I talk to the girl because I don't want her to think I want her man. I am not exclusive with this guy but we're on a date, she kept talking to him she then proceeded to touch his bicep! at that point I was fed up. I looked at him and say" this needs to stop, either you keep talking to her and I'll leave or you ignore her and continue our date." he was actually still paying attention to me while talking to her but I wanted all the attention! lol that's not too much to ask I just wanted him to be all about me! sure he did feed me and only kept his eyes on on me after I told him that. But It's the principle if you see a couple out on a date you simply don't interrupt them.

I am jealous, if that was my man I would tell her " don't touch my man" and when she left us alone I would have kissed him right in front of her to show her that's mine.