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"when I was alone you didn't see me,
don't look for me now that I am not.
why is it that we become more desirable when someone else want us?"
2021-08-30T18:40:43+02:00
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2021-08-30T18:27:38+02:00
Publié depuis Eklablog
"You cannot love and doubt simultaneously,
Love has no room for doubt.
What you feel is far from love but a mere representation of what you think love is without realizing that you have no idea what love is.”
2021-08-30T18:10:46+02:00
Publié depuis Eklablog
"The storm will wash away all the beautiful lies,
and will reveal the deceitful ones who hid with the stealth of a cat on the prowl."
2021-08-30T17:59:59+02:00
Publié depuis Eklablog
A new relationship
will not save you from loving another.
But will instead make you feel worse for allowing someone else to step into a spot that has already been filled.
Someone new will not erase the memories,
but will enhance them instead to make you see just how much you wish it wasn't them.
2021-08-30T17:06:31+02:00
Publié depuis Eklablog
she is poetry
with intriguing eyes that can stare into the deepest parts of your soul.
she is timeless,
no time will ever take away from her charm.
unexplainable,
yet so profound.
2021-08-30T15:55:00+02:00
mental health.
"No one is entitled to anything and life isn't fair."
one thing that we all deserve is a great mental health because if we are honest, life is going to disappoint us whether we want it or not and it usually happens when we least expect it. Being mentally strong is not easy but it is possible, these past few weeks I was not strong mentally and I am glad that somehow slowly but surely I am doing better. When you feel low on energy, weak mentally and uncapable to even do your laundry let me remind you that it is okay; we all feel low at times but what is not okay is to let yourself be comfortable in that position. We need to make an effort to improve ourselves even when it is terrifying, I admit the work you have to put in to get yourself back up after you've been low for quite some time can be daunting but it is not impossible.
When you feel like life is not worth living think about all the beautiful things you've accomplished and all the things you want to do, think about all the people who loves you and would be sad if you weren't here anymore, think about the future yes I know it can be terrifying especially if things aren't working out right now but that can also change. Life can be so different next year, you and I can be the happiest we've never been. Let's not give up because we are having a bad week it doesn't necessarily means that we are having a bad life. But one thing I realize in the midst of my sadness is that finding the cause of our sorrow can be helpful to see the source of the problem because believe me we don't get sad for nothing, there is always something even if it has always been there but you simply didn't realize. Facing your fears and emotions is a great way to get back up because you are reacting you are not numb to what is happening to you at that point you can talk it out, cry, get mad (moderately please don't shoot someone lol) and you will probably hate the process but knowing what the problem is will help you solve the situation.
Negative self talk is extremely crucial, the worst thing you can do to yourself while you're already sad is to talk bad about yourself because you are afflicting another pain on yourself and you are only making it worse. It is a constant battle to always remind yourself that you are good enough even when everything around you is making you feel that you aren't but let's not look at what other people are doing, let's not compare ourselves to anyone else you think is better than you and let's not dwell on the past because what happened was for a reason and do not lie to yourself and say it could've been any different. I always tend to give people chances because I want people to give me a second chance but sometimes it's best to say goodbye and move on. Sometimes revisiting the past can cause you pain and you don't deserve that much pain believe me.
when you are at a low place do not accept it yes fight to get out, you can admit that you aren't doing good at the moment and you can cry but do something !! and act fast before it becomes the new normal. one thing I realize listening to sad songs, watching sad movies and overly romantic movies when you feel alone can make you even more sad. Let's stay away from those and let's watch movies that will make us laugh, let everything be light. I realize that spending too much time watching movies, tiktoks or even on social media can be draining. I always delete my social media even if It's for a week I always end up deleting it... which to me is a mental health prevention but you don't have to do that ! you can do whatever you think is best for you it could be disabling your account for a week or spending less time watching videos or less time on your phone can help.
2021-08-26T21:41:29+02:00
2021-08-20T15:39:50+02:00
Publié depuis Eklablog
hey guys.
I have been taking a break on watching movies this week because I am trying to limit my time watching TV. I am also trying to start reading books again because it's the best thing that I can do for myself not only does it improve my vocabulary but books have always been a way for me to escape reality. I have been having a really bad headache, I am trying to keep things interesting... Life doesn't have to be so grim.
Yes people leave but I don't have to let myself go just because they left me behind. You have to accept that you are your own greatest possession even when you mess up, you still have to love yourself enough to do better without condemning yourself in the process. Anyways I am trying to rebuild myself so I will not post a lot because I don't want to put some emotions out here impulsively. I am currently self reflecting...
2021-08-19T17:37:50+02:00
Publié depuis Eklablog
" I did all this on my own. so today I am taking some time to congratulate me." me to me:)
2021-08-16T14:25:49+02:00
living in the moment.
Dwelling on the past is a great way to make yourself sad for no absolute reason and dreading the present by living in the future is a great way to missed out on life changing opportunities. The secret of an happy and abundance life is to live in the present moment. The sooner you realize this then the sooner you will know what true happiness feels like and you will worry less about the past because it is beyond your control because you will never be able to change it; you will not try to cheat on your present with the future just because you are tired of your current living circumstances.
I can sit on my high horse all day and talk about what living in the moment feels like but it won't mean anything unless I do it myself everyday. I try my best to live in the present moment even if my current situation is not pleasant. One key to live in the moment is to ask yourself what emotion do I feel right this minute? and how is what I am feeling is connected to what I am doing. I don't know if this happens to you but sometimes when I am driving and I start to think about yesterday, what I am doing today or something that happened in the past I often forget that I am driving but then I would catch myself not knowing how I manage to get this far as I made the right turn and drove on the right lane but I wasn't mentally there for all of that. No matter what we do in life we will always wonder if we did something different in the past if our present would be different, we all wonder but let's try not to dwell on it because it is beyond your control.