those question online for example : does he like me if he gives me a hug? honestly, I stopped asking questions like that since college because attraction and love varies for everyone! for example the internet might say: does he make plans with you? does he talk about the future or deeper topics? does he make an effort to see you? all of those questions are valid. I think if that person does all those things it shows deep attraction but take me as an example I don't do any of these and I may be head over heels in love!
so someone can like you or even love you but still do nothing. But you deserve better you deserve a guy that pursue you, I am a girl so if I do nothing it's fine. I won't chase a guy if he doesn't come to me first, even then I will just meet him where he is at nothing less and nothing more. if he raise it to a 100 I will reaise my effort to 100 as well, tit for that. But if we're married that changes everything he could be at 30% and I will be 94% that's fine, he's forever mine and I am forever his. If we're just dating, anything can change at any given moment this is not forever. A ring and marriage seal the deal.