Fear

Are you afraid of being alone ? are you afraid of the reality ? do you suddenly stop thinking about the future when something bad happens? Fear is the most common thing in the world these days. We're all have a fear we might cover it up because it is a weakness but sometimes a fear can be a strength how ? well let me tell you for example there is this one girl she thinks she has a very shitty life, she's a junior in high school everything goes wrong according to her. She thinks that the reason why she's failing math is because she is stupid and therefore she is not worth living. She wants to die because she cannot deal with her own reality where she had put so much weight on her shoulder. She can't really die alone well she can't really do it because SHE IS SCARED OF DYING. This is a strength believe me I have seen teenagers saying I want to kill myself if I could but they're too damn scared which is a good thing if you ask me. A lot of the young people are struggling with depression. They expect so much from us even our friends expect so much from us. Imagine your friend is in a relationship and now if you don't have one yourself you became a third wheel. Now what you do is you go get yourself a bae often what happens you were not ready ! so now you have your bae but you realize he or she is not who you thought they were so now you are stuck. I don't want to be stuck like the rest of them I would rather live my life freely until I am ready...remember you don't have to rush into a relationship because you feel alone it is not going to help. I am pretty sure you've heard it is better to be alone than to be with someone who causes you pain. Often when you rush into a relationship you regret some stuff and as you want to get out of it you can hurt the other person's feelings. Just like you might be hurt if someone who meant a lot to you broke up with you that is exactly how the person will feel if you meant a lot to them.Moving fast won't get you where you want to be, on the way you might crash and never make it.