self confidence.

Hello it's been a while...i have been busy but y'all know that i have to be back here. So i think the tittle kind of give it away but i want you to actually read this and think about yourself. I know people are saying love yourself, be yourself, believe in yourself...i mean they are right but it's easier to say then done. Honestly i have tried all of these in the past and i can tell you straight up it didn't mean anything. You have to actually accept who you are. You wanna believe that you're rich but the reality is you broke so embrace that, you wanna believe that you got a relationship when in reality you're just lonely as hell well then accept the fact that you don't have anyone. LOL i have to get this out. Some people have illusions in their heads saying they are all that but truth is they are not and when they realize that they kinda feel sad. Let me tell you this if you already know your flaws and you point them out already no one can hurt you with it because it is not new to you nor anyone. when they say believe in yourself ...what i am supposed to believe? who am i? i have to actually find out who i am to know what i am believing in right? I can chose to believe in the person i want myself to be but that doesn't mean i am that girl. Same to you you can't actually believe in yourself unless you know who you actually are. Now don't go ahead and fool yourself thinking you just have to believe you are this amazing shining star to become that star because there is a possibility that you may not be that star if you don't work hard enough. I am suppose to motivate you and now you're probably thinking she is telling me that i can't become someone great NOOOO that is not what i am saying. I am not talking about your future goals keep doing what you're doing in school, work. I am talking about those lies you are telling yourself. If all your friends say you can't sing don't dream about becoming a pop star, if you can't take a good picture and you know it then don't waste your time telling yourself you will become a photographer because you won't. I love you all and i like that some of you keep checking on me once in a while but please do not lie to yourself it will only hold you back from becoming who you are ought to become. Believing in yourself first of all figure out who you are. Be who you are first of all find out what you like and what you don't like then do what you like that's being yourself. Just do what you want to do is being yourself. Love yourself is pretty accurate but some people let other people love them instead of loving themselves which is totally wrong You have to actually love yourself first. Inbox me for any questions... 

have a nice day.