stereotypes

Hi people,

what I hate the most is telling someone what to do with their body, their life. Like I hate when people say to a small or skinny girl oh you need to eat because you need to get thick. I don't wanna get thick I like myself the way I am If I wanted to get thick I would stressed myself to the point of getting thick but NO I love the body that I'm in.Like don't ever let someone put you down because of the way you look. Don't ever let someone talk yourself into changing yourself. God made you this way. Like God made me small why would I wanna get thick or get taller? I love being small...Do I care about your opinion nah. People used to tell me to drink this, drink that so I would gain weight or grow better...LOL that is soooo messed up If I ever drink something to gain weight which I did for a while I would only do it because I want to. But I change my mind now I realize that I love myself and If I say that then why am I trying to change myself. I just thought I was bettering myself but I don't think that's the case because I would look completely different.

adding to what I said before

I support anyone who want to work with themselves meaning working out to lose weight, gain muscles, have better skin...I don't mind that by the fact I love watching people making progress. What I don't like is when people are pushing their beliefs on me like I do not care what you do don't tell me I need to do it too and when I tell you that I am fine and that I don't want to do anything you start to get offended and defensive. I have the freedom to do what I want with myself. You have the freedom to do whatever you want with yourself once you've past 18...What you do, your decision making is all going to be based on what you've learned. You should keep your values and what you believe in don't follow what everyone else are doing because then you're going to start looking like everyone else. You need to stay just the way you are because you are unique in every way. I bet if some people didn't change themselves to be like most other people a lot of people would be different. There are a lot of basic girls and males...they do the same thing, thinking the same way and wanting the same thing.All they want is to have fun then complain about how they never find someone loyal. I mean don't you ever ask yourself why you never find someone loyal? Maybe it's because you do things that are suspicious or maybe it's because you are not fully loyal yourself. Who in their right mind would want to commit and stay loyal to someone who isn't ? I know I wouldn't. Perhaps on the outside you don't look like a trustworthy person and that's why you can't find someone who is loyal. You only attract what you reflect. Maybe you just can't allow yourself to trust anyone not even the right person. Look I get it I am not perfect I think It can be hard to trust just anyone after you've been hurt especially if someone already abused your trust but sometimes you have to allow yourself to trust someone again. You should try to let the past go I know It's easier said than done but don't worry about the past look at the present and the future. That person who hurt you probably already moved on with their life now it's your turn quit thinking so and so did that to me so I am not going to trust anyone. Love is all about trust there's too many women and men out here who have trust issues... by the fact we all do some are just worse than others but that's just life.

Nowadays a lot of people are looking the same, sounding the same and doing the same thing I cannot stand  it when everyone is trying the same thing. Be your own leader, follow what you want. If you're looking for someone particular How you going to find it with that reckless attitude of a trap music singer you gotta be humble. You gotta take your time and analyze your interest in dept. Don't take too long because that person may find someone else if they haven't notice you yet by the fact they can still notice you but because you're not doing anything they might find someone else to do the job...