validation.

Hey there, 

I think I love the weather today it's not too cold and I love it. I just realize that I only like winter during the month of December after that I don't really care. I like summer better. I used to love winter and the snow but now I'm over it.

Let's get to it...

Have you ever bought something for the first time and you like what you bought i'm assuming that's why you bought it, but then you see your friends and you ask them what they think and if they like it but they said no it looks hideous. Now you look at yourself in the mirror wondering how in the world could you possibly love something so ugly? But what you don't think about is how excited you were when you bought it because you loved it then but now you suddenly hate it cause your friends find it hideous. why did you change your mind? Now I know how upsetting it is if someone doesn't like your style or what you like but there is no need for you to change your style just to accommodate theirs. You are unique on your own way and it is okay to love something your friends hate because we don't need to have the same interest on everything. Why do we need this constant urge to be love by other people when we can literally love ourselves. No one can ever love you the way you love yourself, no one can take care of you better than the way you take care of yourself. You know yourself believe it or not you know enough about yourself to know what you like and by knowing what you like you can find out what you don't like. You know what you can tolerate and you know what you cannot bare. So why leave yourself at the feet of someone else to love you. You know exactly what I am talking about, you want to be love so much that you allow yourself to be in relationship you don't even want to be in only because you don't want to end up alone. What's wrong with being alone? aren't you enough? you should love your company more before you seek others. Being by yourself will only help you find out more about  yourself and about what you need to know before you let someone else in. Don't always rush to let someone in only to realize that you would rather be alone. Put that in your mind that you are fine the way you are and you don't need anyone to tell you that. You are uniquely beautiful and you shouldn't let anyone else tells you different. I love all of you for supporting me and the least I could do is to  let you know how amazing you are. Sometimes I wish someone else had a blog like me out there so I could read these things to myself. It's all about self love and it has nothing to do with being conceited. 

we focus so much on other people and on what they have to say about us that we even forget about ourselves in the process. when was the last time you last checked in with yourself and I am not talking about doing your makeup in front of the mirror because you were trying to look "appealing" nothing wrong with that I use my concealer and my mascara from time to time and I have nothing against make up I think it's art. But checking  in with yourself is not doing your make up but rather sitting by yourself and being on your own presence taking a deep breath and feeling everything on your body. Feeling the lashes on your eyes, the hairs on your eyebrows and feeling your nose...realizing YOU, feeling YOU. I realize that i've never done that and since I've started doing it recently I start to feel more calm.