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When people see me upset or sad they might think it’s about a man but I never let any men get to me unless I have something to say to them but most of the time I don’t.
2023-12-09T19:30:58+01:00
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2023-12-09T14:16:45+01:00
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Q&A
- What are your plans today?
I have a few errands to run, one is bringing my cat Archie to the vet because he might have an ear infection. Finish packing! Can you believe it I am travelling in less than 4 days and I am not done packing! I also have to do a few other things for my car and for me as well! I need to get my nails done! And figure out what am I going to do with my hair !!!???
- What is your thought on social media?
I talked about that before but I don’t care for social media. I rather meet people in real life because I always end up disappointed when I meet someone online. I don’t like having my own personal page but I run several Instagram pages! One of them is at 1k followers at the moment! ;) But I deleted my Instagram because I felt like I was living for other people. I posted so people know what’s going on and I hate to share what I am doing. Except on my blog of course.
- How is your dating life?
Uhm non-existent as always… but I did go on a date last month. Do I like the guy? Not really but it was fun and I see him as a friend. He was really sweet but not what I am looking for.
- Why are you avoiding everyone right now?
I am sorry if I am doing that but it’s only because I don’t feel like myself. I am not depressed or anything I just don’t feel good. I am experiencing a burnout and a moment of uncertainty. A lot of things happened in my life recently and I am just trying to process everything. I do feel like no one cares so therefore I run away.
- Do I have a best friend?
No not really.
- Will I get a fourth cat?
No I will not; three is enough even for me but I am staying strong because there is a very sweet black cat that always visits me daily outside my apartment that I feel tempted to bring him inside because he looks so cute and cuddly but NOOO! That would be too much for me.
2023-12-09T05:27:25+01:00
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Social media.
It’s all just a lie and no one really cares.
You share that powerful quote but no one is reading it and thinking about you while they read it; they’re thinking about their situation.
We like peoples stories and pictures online but we wouldn’t even say hi in person.
I am beyond exhausted, erase me from the digital foot print.
2023-12-08T05:33:08+01:00
2023-12-07T11:37:29+01:00
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Big personality.
You either love me or you can’t stand me but either way I will always remain who I am and I will never change to fit your standards unless I want to change. I didn’t think I had a big personality but someone told me “oh yes you have one! You always do what you want! You are stubborn and no one can get through you unless you like them; you never afraid to stand up for what you believe in !”
I was like oh ok! Lol
But I recently got in contact with a childhood friend and she told me “wow you never change! You still the same Gaëlle that I knew when we were little kids even after all these years! You still hate to hang out with people, you still love animals, you still have high standards, and you’re never afraid to be different.”
The point in all those testimony is to show you, I never cared about what people thought of me even if I pretend to care but at the end of the day when I get home I don’t think about it. I don’t care who doesn’t like me or who will never like me because I will meet a ton of people regardless. I will not be less of a person if you don’t like me, I am never afraid to cut anyone out of my life (no one is safe).
2023-12-07T11:37:02+01:00
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It’s true that when I am comfortable with someone I will let myself be free, I will be loud and turn into this happy person lol and you may ask yourself “is she on something or is she okay?” I can assure you that I am fine! I’m just excited to be with you ;)
2023-12-05T16:41:37+01:00
2023-12-04T16:38:20+01:00
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Literally me when I am playing video games lol, I love to be comfortable with snacks all around me... Archie loves to hang out with me when I play.
2023-12-04T15:56:16+01:00
Beauty tips winter edition.
I personally love winter because my skin looks better, and I am happier. What a contrast! usually people get sad in the winter because of daylight saving time and the temperature is too cold for some outdoor activities, well I thrive in it because I hate being invited to things I don't want to go to so now I can say "omg it's so cold can we reschedule" or I could just not show up and when they ask me why I didn't I can say "Gee it was so dark outside, I took a nap or it was snowing and I didn't want to drive." If my someone I like and I am comfortable invite me to something, then of course I will go but if you're just an acquaintance then no. Okay back to beauty tips...
During the winter the air is cold and dry so make sure your hair, skin and lips are moisturized.
- for skin: Use a gentle face wash that doesn't dry out your skin, make sure to use moisturizing lotion or serum to keep your skin from drying. Don't wash face too much throughout the day. also ALWAYS WEAR SUNSCREEN, the worse mistake any of us could make is not wearing sunscreen daily especially if we walk outside a lot.
- for hair: I have a curly afro, so my hair gets dry faster than someone with straight or wavy hair. I am always big on moisturizing my hair because I have a hair color in it, which is growing out. I usually deep conditioned my hair weekly regardless of the time of the year to keep my hair healthy and moisturized. I recommend deep conditioning weekly in the winter because of the weather, also do the LOC method which is done on damp hair usually after a wash day to loc in the moisture use a leave in conditioner, Oil, and a curling cream. Mini twist is great around that time, hair wraps, protective styling like braids are very good but make sure to moisturize your hair every 2 days in those braids (don't just forget about it)
- lips: always use a ChapStick, lip gloss especially in the winter. I love using the Carmex lip balm because it keeps my lips from cracking, I have pink lips but if I don't scrub off the dead skin then my lips will look brown, I have to use a lip scrub to keep it juicy and plumped :)
- mental health: I still get sad during the holidays (which is why I am taking a vacation next week :))) that was my bif surprise lol) to help with the sadness, I journal talk to my mom. sleep well, eat well, stay hydrated, stay away from people who makes me sad or people who use me (I always find those people who are narcissist, I stay away from them) I usually run away from them. Go see a therapist if needed (I need one lol) I found a man! he is really cool, but I will be sure of this after my first consultation on Friday. He is a little far but I am willing to drive there in person if we connect.
- To keep your sanity: don't worry about what people think of you, focus on your journey, do things that makes you happy, laugh as much as you can, make new friends that suit you, travel, eat good food, take lots of pictures... never rush anything and always stay true to yourself.
- The winter is a fashion show for me! this is my time to show how much I love dressing up and how far I can take it :)
2023-12-04T02:39:15+01:00
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“ never be an option always and forever be a privilege, put yourself first and don’t apologize for that.”