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2023-12-14T04:48:03+01:00
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2023-12-14T01:29:37+01:00
Publié depuis Eklablog
this is inhumane! I am afraid to talk about this but I can admit that this makes me sad. I knew the world was going to get bad and it will be even worse than this but wow am I shocked!
2023-12-14T00:03:52+01:00
2023-12-13T17:16:34+01:00
Publié depuis Eklablog
I talked about this here but this is what bothers me with my fellow black women.
As a girl who has natural hair I hate it when another woman is asking me “ are you going to do your hair before the party?” Like no! My hair is done already why do I need to put a wig on my head to be ready ? Why do I need to go pay so much money to get braids? I only trust one person to install braids in my hair and she is extremely busy so if she’s not doing it so am I. But honestly I think our hair is beautiful we don’t need to hide it all the time, or wear a wig or get a weave when we go on vacation. I am not judging anyone, I’ve done that before but I am just saying let’s normalize our hair and make it okay to go anywhere with it
Let’s not associate and Afro with casual, let’s make it okay to get married in it; to go on luxurious vacation with it. Let’s be proud of we are ! We are all so beautiful let’s embrace it ;)
2023-12-13T17:11:16+01:00
Publié depuis Eklablog
Things I cannot stand
- Girls who only talk about guys; if we are friends and all you talk about is man don’t be surprised if one day you call me and it goes straight to voicemail. A man is not my priority I do not care about what they are doing, if he’s not my man I don’t care what he’s up to. Even if I had a man I would not be talking about him every second with my friends that’s weird and it’s giving desperate
- People who touch my hair. Ok I get it’s different and no it’s not a wig. I don’t like it when strangers touch my hair because I don’t know where your hands have been and your dirty hands are taking out the moisture in my hair so no! Stay away from me.
- Asking me what I am up to. That annoys me because if I don’t tell you what I am doing or if you don’t know it’s probably because I don’t want you to know. Don’t push it or make a scene about how secretive I am. I am not secretive ! I am grown and I can do whatever I want; I could be out of the country writing this but it’s none of your business.
- People telling me I have too many cats. That is none of your business, it is not your life and you are not the one taking care of them so don’t worry about it.
2023-12-12T18:55:07+01:00
2023-12-11T15:37:13+01:00
Publié depuis Eklablog
quite frankly being transparent and totally open is something that I struggle with; I am working on being more honest and open with the people that I trust. I will get hurt either way! I get hurt by not letting anyone in so I might as well trust one person!
As I said before I am experiencing a burnout, and I was really scared because nothing that I tried was working to help me get rid of that feeling. I had to seek help, which is great, but I need to let people help me in order to get out of this... I do feel cared for, and I am beyond grateful for that :)
2023-12-11T02:41:35+01:00
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