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2024-01-26T19:12:47+01:00
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2024-01-26T18:48:57+01:00
2024-01-26T18:43:09+01:00
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« you don’t find someone you like in your country then you go to another country and find someone. Stop lowering your standard because you’re afraid you’re going to end up alone. Your life doesn’t really start until you’re 25, that’s the age you start to realize whats important and who who’s your friend. Stop saying you failed at life while you’re in Your 20s! You just started! Go out there, make more mistakes and learn from them so that you can teach your grandkids the life lessons you’ve learn. »
2024-01-26T17:43:56+01:00
Publié depuis Eklablog
Is being a stay-at-home mom or father a good idea?
First as a man if you want to be a stay-at-home dad that is fine as long as you can afford it and you are not making your woman work hard for you because that is just sad. Men are natural born providers, and it says so in the bible, it is not a woman's job to care of a man if he is fully capable to work (I will get to the women). Being at a stay at home dad allows the men to get to know the kids and to be there for them although the child needs both parents but it is not very often you see a man who's fully involved in a kid's life it's more of the mother's job; dads usually fix things and they leave the emotional part for the mother nothing bad about that as long as both parents agree that works for them. What is unacceptable is when the man doesn't know their kid and are not involve in the child's life... that is not good!
Is it acceptable for a woman to be a stay-at-home mom?
Back in the 1920's-1960's women were stay at home wives and they took care of the kids in the house, but a group of women fight for all of us to go to work and now we are working! the feminist movement want to be just like the men so if it is not appropriate for the man to stay at home then they don't want to be home either....let me give my 2 cents because that is what my blog is for lol
uhm I am totally fine being a stay-at-home mom, it will give me enough time to write my book when the kids are at school. Some women think being a stay-at-home wife or mom is like being a maid but are you really the maid if you own the place? taking care of a home is not an easy task! you are doing the cooking, the cleaning, the shopping and the laundry so that when your husband comes home from a long day of work everything is ready for him. I used to think that it is frown upon to be a stay-at-home wife... but why not? if we both can afford me staying home then that is fine? of course, I would never want to make my man work more than he should if I could work myself, but I also want to have everything ready for him... I might not work long hours just so i could go home and make dinner for him but that will be something to discuss with the spouse. As long as you both agree on something then never let outside noises ruin what you have in place because people can say whatever they want but they are not part of the couple, and they don't live in the house. If you want to be a stay-at-home wife than that's fine, if you want to work that is totally fine. what is not okay is a woman who is fully capable of working but chooses to be lazy and leave everything for the man! that is using him! you need to protect your man and help him when he is tired... be there for him, be a safe place for him to come home to after work. Stop with the nagging, the silent treatment if you have something to say then just say it...
2024-01-26T04:00:31+01:00
2024-01-25T17:22:05+01:00
Publié depuis Eklablog
Thoughts?
various news outlet are saying Mbappe will be joining real Madrid in the summer, and I don't believe any of them, until Mbappe open his mouth and say " I am joining real Madrid" I might believe it and even then I still won't believe it until he signs a contract because he said that last time in 2022 only to decide to stay at PSG.
I am not changing my mind Mbappe needs to stay at PSG! the project looks promising. He is doing so well over there; the stats look amazing and if he were to win the champions league with PSG that would be a new record for him! he would be the first one to win it ! I am not saying that he should stay at PSG because I get all the games lol even if he were to go to real Madrid you know I would find a way to get all the games! even if I have to get cable lol watching him play just does something to my brain! he makes me so happy when I see him score goals and dribble :)
2024-01-25T01:52:16+01:00
2024-01-24T01:25:34+01:00
2024-01-24T00:16:59+01:00
Publié depuis Eklablog
Uhm?
So I saw a video of a man with a baby and the man said” I want to send this video over to black tiktok I just adopted this black baby and I don’t know what to do with her hair I got some shea moisture but I don’t know what else to do.” He said this as he was brushing the baby’s hair with a brush and immediately I took a flight down to the comments because what?
That video did not sit right with me because it was a white gay man who made that video after adopting a “black baby” he kept saying “black baby” which made me feel uncomfortable why can’t it just be a baby girl why couldn’t he said “ I am so excited to have my baby girl home but sadly I don’t know what to do with her hair.” Honestly the fact that he came to the internet with this concern made me feel like he’s looking for attention! It’s as if he was saying” hey look at me a white man with a black baby” the video was in poor taste and it made me questioned his true intentions! It made me ask myself does he not have a black woman friend who can help him ? Why would you adopt a black baby if you didn’t know what it entails?! Did he adopt the baby for clicks and likes? Nowadays people will do anything for 5 minutes of fame and I am genuinely worried about that beautiful baby because when I look at the man’s page with the baby; all I see is the baby sitting in uncomfortable positions alone! As a newborn the baby requires a lot of support to breathe and if the child is placed in a chair they need to be seated properly ! And that is not what I saw! Someone needs to call CPS because I don’t think this will end well! If I did this as a black woman all over the internet I promise you CPS would already be at my door! Imagine me as a black woman saying” I got this white baby and I don’t know how to take care of it” ! Jail immediately!!
2024-01-23T16:20:15+01:00
Publié depuis Eklablog
that time someone stole my twitter account.
Basically, someone hacked my twitter last year around November. I am not sure because I barely go on that account. I only go on twitter periodically to check football news or when I want to get more info on something that is trending ... usually I get my football news on YouTube, Instagram and WhatsApp because I subscribe to my favorite football clubs.
I tried logging on my twitter back in December and I simply couldn't, so I sort of gave up after one try because like I said I don't really use it and I don't care much for it. I use threads a lot more now than twitter or "X " but finally in January I decided to get to the bottom of the issue so I logged in by changing the password because the person couldn't change the email on my account so when I logged in, I saw the person followed a bunch of accounts and posted random tweets! I was like wait hold on! did someone just moved in, and I didn't realize? So, I unfollow all the accounts the person followed and deleted all the tweets! like excuse me?? it takes 2 seconds to create a twitter account just make one for yourself and keep me out of it.