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“ if you’re wondering if they are into you, they’re not and the answer is very clear if they were you would be asking how much are they into me?”
2022-04-27T02:28:58+02:00
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2022-04-26T03:46:31+02:00
Publié depuis Eklablog
How to be friends with an INFJ.
As an INFJ myself I feel compelled to talk about this topic because I have had too many failed friendships. I am going to help you with someone you know who is an INFJ. They are quite rare but if you really pay attention you can spot them easily. Here are some tips for figuring out if your friend or family member is an INFJ. -
[ ] Infjs are true introverts which means they enjoy their alone time. You may find them canceling plans to stay home or bailing out at the last minute just because “something came up” which most of the time is nothing, they just feel drained and would rather stay home.
- [ ] They love talking about the deep subjects and they are often fascinated by human behavior and why people act the way they act.
- [ ] They hate small talk and any conversations that are shallow. They will not talk about the weather unless something meaningful happens.
- [ ] They are social chameleons. Although they are true introverts but you may find yourself wondering if they are ambiverts because they are able to act like an extrovert and be so outgoing that they will look like extroverts.
- [ ] They suddenly vanish. They might socialize a lot for a certain period of time and go missing for months and weeks at a time. -
[ ] They are charismatic. They have a certain charm about them that is unique making everyone feel welcome with their kind nature.
- [ ] They love to help other people. Infjs often always lend a helping hand whenever they can. Now that I’ve given you the nitty-gritty of an INFJ let’s discuss how to be friends with them. As an INFJ I can testify that it is hard to keep friends around but it’s not impossible.
1. Be patient with them, they may take a while to open up or to even trust you. You might even feel Like they are holding back but don’t take it personal they are just observing you to see if you can be trusted.
2. Give them space. INFJ will vanish at some point during the friendship but understand that they need some time alone to recharge and that it has nothing to do with you or anything that you’ve done. It can be frustrating to see a friend that you thought you had distanced themselves from you after they’ve been kind to you. Usually, when an infj takes a break from all social interactions they are taking some time to self-reflect or solve an underlying issue. They might ignore your call, or text and not show up to meet you because they need alone time. They will come out soon just be patient and know that they care about you.
3. Don’t betray them. When you betray or hurt an INFJ it may take a long time for them to let you in their world again and they might never do. They take betrayal to the heart because they are very loyal. Just Don’t get on their bad side.
Infjs are very insightful people and they often absorb other people's emotions without meaning to which is why they need alone time to detox. But when they keep vanishing they might lose many friends but the people who truly love them will stay. If you are patient with them you will discover a very loyal friend, reliable kind, and lovable human being. It will take some time for you to get past their cold exterior but you may be surprised to discover how amazing and rare they are.
2022-04-26T01:16:50+02:00
let's have some fun.
My idea of fun is different from everyone that I know and usually when people are overwhelmed they take a walk or talk to a friend well what I do is write and read...boring I know. so here goes another 10 questions you can steal some of the questions to ask someone else.
1. If you could buy any type of food what would you buy?
well, right now I am feeling some Indian food so I would order chicken masala, white rice, and naan bread.
2. what color is your toothbrush?
It's always pink and if it's not then I don't like it.
3. if you could be any animal what would it be and why?
I would be a cheetah because they are fast, gracious, and beautiful. To be honest I would just be any cat even if it's just a house cat.
4. what is one thing you would put on your bucket list?
I already have a bucket list and one thing I have on it is to have a cute picnic in the park or by the beach.
5. who do you admire the most?
My mom.
6. who is your favorite superhero and why?
I have many I love wonder woman, superman and now I am a fan of batman because of the new Batman movie. I guess I just love DC superhero movies for absolutely no reason at all.
7. if a movie was made of your life what genre would it be, who would play you?
comedy, dark humor. LOL, literally my life is comical but not in a lighthearted fun way. Some girl with a pixie haircut who looks absolutely clueless and lost but at the same time interesting to look at.
8. who is your favorite cartoon character and why?
I have many Lola, Daffy, Bugs Bunny, Porky Pig from looney tunes, and I also like plankton, Squidward, Stewie Griffin, Edna, Titeuf, and code Lyoko (I don't remember the character's name), Tom and Jerry, the powder puff girls...
9. If you have a daughter what will you name her?
i will name her Yaël
10. How many books have you read so far this year?
8 books
2022-04-25T17:55:26+02:00
Publié depuis Eklablog
“ you want me to speak, to be more open, to be more like the others but who I am and what I do is a precious gift that I don’t have to make known. I stand tall despite the fact that I am not saying anything about my character or my abilities. My way of living speaks for itself and my actions define who I want to become.”
2022-04-25T17:53:40+02:00
Publié depuis Eklablog
“ the only thing I fear of is the uncertainty of whether or not I’m going to be able to sleep tonight after making a decision.”
2022-04-25T17:52:35+02:00
Publié depuis Eklablog
“ who you want me to be and who I am as person has nothing to do with my actions.”
2022-04-25T03:42:03+02:00
Q & A Part 2
This one will be more fun!
1. If you are in a bad mood do you prefer to be alone or be with someone to cheer you up?
Alone because I get annoyed easily and I prefer to be all alone.
2. what kind of parent you think you'd be?
I'll be a little strict because there are monsters out there, especially if I have girls but I will try to make them feel comfortable enough to tell me anything. I will be very attentive, protective, kind, loving and fun.
3. Have you lost someone close to you?
yes, many times and it's very painful to endure.
4. how long is the longest you had feelings for someone?
6 years.
5. would you rather go to the movies or watch movies at home?
both.
6. what were the best phases of your life?
when I was 14-15 I had many friends, I was on a basketball team... and had many first.
7. Last movie that made you cry?
The Truman show
8. what are the things you value the most in someone?
their honesty.
9. have you ever broken someone's heart?
I hope not !
10. has your heart ever been broken?
uhm... no I was hurt but my heart has never been broken.
11. would you ever marry someone for their money?
uhm... we'll see! lol that was a joke but no. (maybe)
12. what's the best advice you've ever been given?
Don't be scared just do it.
13. what's the biggest lie you've ever told someone?
I gave someone the wrong address and I always feel bad about it !
14. if you had one hour left to live what would you do?
I would call everyone I know and tell them I love them.
15. first impressions?
the way they talk, walk, and carry themselves.
2022-04-25T03:03:18+02:00
Q & A
Let's have some fun!
1. Who's the last person you held hands with?
it was yesterday with a friend I haven't seen in a long time.
2. Are you outgoing or shy?
Both, depending on who's around.
3. who are you looking forward to seeing?
Stromae in concert in December
4. are you easy to get along with?
yes very! but I look intimidating so you just have to start the conversation.
5. if you were drunk would the person you like take care of you?
My mom. Fun fact I got drunk for the first and last time a long time ago and my mom took care of me. She was pissed and threw me under a cold shower LOL.
6. what kind of people are you attracted to?
people who are attentive, deep, open-minded, smart, witty, funny, kind, outgoing, and a little overprotective never hurt.
7. do you think you'll be in a relationship two months from now?
I think it's totally possible.
8. who's on your mind?
I can't say. it's a secret.
9. who was the last person you had a deep conversation with?
My mom.
10. what does the most recent text you sent say?
thanks love.
11. what are your 5 favorite songs right now?
1. so am I by Ava Max. 2. sad robot by vexento. 3. are we alone by Niviro 4. Play by k-391,Alan walker 5. candy by Doja cat.
12. do you like it when people play with your hair?
Nope but I love a scalp massage.
13. would you kiss the last person you kissed again?
Never in a million years.
14. do you think there is life on another planet?
I used to believe that when I was in high school but I haven't thought about it recently.
15. Do you still talk to your first crush?
Nope but I want to!
16. do you like bubble baths?
I love bubble baths especially with some red wine and candles all around.
17. do you like your neighbors?
I've never talked to them!
18. what are your bad habits?
making plans that I don't intend to go to, saying I'll call you back but forgot to, not picking up the phone when I'm not in a good mood, chewing on my tongue when I am too focused on something.
19. where would you like to travel?
I want to go to Italy, Paris, and Greece.
20. Favorite part of your daily routine?
it's 2 things: when I read the bible in the morning and when I feed Archie, he always gets excited and I love to see him happy.
21. what do you do when you wake up?
check my phone.
22. is your hair long enough for a ponytail?
almost there! it's growing very fast :)
2022-04-25T02:56:31+02:00
Publié depuis Eklablog
" Your love is magical
That's how I feel
But in your presence, i'm lost for words
words like
like "I love you." -Michael Jackson speechless
2022-04-25T02:51:44+02:00