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2022-07-22T15:15:17+02:00
" You know that feeling of meeting someone you can tell everything to? someone you can call at any hour of the day without feeling like you're bothering them? someone you can just sit next to in silence without having to make small talk because their presence is all that you need? yeah I never had that until...you."
2022-07-22T15:13:21+02:00
" Hold me till I fall asleep, kiss me goodnight and hug me tight because baby I am all yours."
2022-07-22T15:12:27+02:00
" You had me thinking love was pain, I needed to cry myself to sleep every night to know this is not how it's suppose to go. You made feel unworthy, unloved, unappreciated, undeserving and it took me losing you to fall in love with my being to know what real love taste like."
2022-07-20T22:12:49+02:00
book for the month of june 2022
Boundaries when to say yes when to say no to take control of your life by Dr. Henry Cloud & Dr. John Townsend.
2022-07-20T22:02:14+02:00
I am just here to let my frustration out. I hate when...
1. when someone doesn't accept my decision and they are pushing me to make another decision. One thing about me I am stubborn as a bull and I will not change my mind unless I want to; no one can make me change my mind. If someone is pushing me to change my mind when it has already been set that annoys me and I will avoid speaking to that person.
2. fake compliments. If you cannot just give me a genuine compliment then don't do it at all because then I will have to laugh awkwardly knowing well that you don't mean the compliment.
3. staring. I don't mind if you stare for a couple seconds but please don't linger! my anxiety will have me thinking there's something on my face and then I will start feeling embarrassed.
4. respect my boundaries. If I tell you something that I don't want in the friendship or relationship please respect it! it's probably good for the both of us.
5. don't set up dates for me. Please do not set me up with one of your friends or family member if I didn't ask, that's rude and inconsiderate!
2022-07-20T20:22:32+02:00
tiktok.
I don't normally use social media apps that take all of my time because those apps are literally vampire sucking time apps but! I have been watching funny tiktoks and let me just say they make me happy for now! I used to spend way more time on tiktok last year especially during the summer and it did made me depressed because I was watching sad stuff all day! and that will get just about anyone depress if you literally watch things that make you cry all day! so I did stop going on there for a while and I deleted the app. I re-download it last month and I chose to watch strictly funny stuff, that's why my view of tiktok change!
I don't spend more than 30 minutes on it or at least I try not to spend 1 hour on it because it makes me anxious when I keep scrolling. I am not advising you to go on tiktoks I guess I am just saying it is not so bad if you use it wisely!
2022-07-19T20:53:48+02:00
" The funny thing is my future husband could be entertaining someone right now but he has no idea that I am the crazy girl who's going to melt his heart. :)"
2022-07-19T14:45:16+02:00
2022-07-18T15:16:07+02:00
As introverts we love spending time alone which is not a bad thing if you ask me because being alone is how we recharge but always remember that the more you spend time alone the harder it will become for you to spend time with other people.
spending too much time alone is not good for us, we have to go out once in a while and socialize. It might sounds fun to just stay home so you can binge watch that new show or read this great book but always remember that you need people in life to survive. (this is for me too I am part of the introvert community)
some of us hate the fact that we are introverts but to be honest I love being an introvert; sure at times I find it annoying when my social battery die right in the middle of me hanging out with friends and I look dead while everyone is wondering what's wrong? well truth is nothing is wrong! I am just exhausted from hanging out all day and now I need to go home and be alone for the next 2 months!
but here's some tips to not drain your social battery fast when you are hanging out with friends:
1. don't get too excited in the beginning, save your energy.
2. talk to a few people and work your way to everyone slowly do not just jump in the crowd! you will get tired fast.
3. find someone who's lay back to talk to at first and then find an extroverts when it's closer for you to leave because hanging out with energic people will make you tired!
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Honestly always remember to practice self-care after hanging out with lots of people; take some time to unwind, sleep and rest because you are going to feel drained. The right people will love you no matter what, you are beautiful fellow introverts! you are kind, resourceful, empathetic and fun to be around. We are:
2022-07-17T14:33:20+02:00
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