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2022-05-05T15:43:01+02:00
Voice notes.
The reason why I make voice notes is to save myself. My thoughts often gets really loud and it’s not good for me to listen to the voices in my head. I speak up because this is what my blog is all about; I will continue to express my deepest sorrow and frustrations because they have to come out I cannot hold everything in. So this is why I talk about my emotions, feelings, opinions or even practice French because it brings me joy.
Thank you for being a part of my little world.
2022-05-05T01:29:11+02:00
" there's no one,
except the empty walls.
the neighbors are at it again.
The silence is so loud I could scream."
2022-05-05T01:24:40+02:00
" out of nowhere tears would drown my face reminding me how my heart is aching..."
2022-05-05T00:36:02+02:00
questions and answers...
1. what is the first thing you notice on a stranger?
If the stranger is a woman I notice her eyebrows first and if it's a man I notice his height.
2. Do you believe people can change?
Yes, and I am a prime example of that, when I look at the way I was when I was younger and who I am now clearly I have changed.
3. what is a deal-breaker in your relationships? friendship and romantic?
For any relationship dishonesty and judging. Romantically cheating, bad hygiene, and aggression is a deal-breaker.
4. what is the biggest lesson you've learned in your life so far?
I've learned to remain true to myself no matter the circumstances and to always express self-love because I am one of my most precious possessions.
5. you have a crush on someone, do you tell them or wait for them to come to you?
I always tell because I believe that love is supposed to be expressed. I would rather tell them early before I fall deeply in love with someone who doesn't feel the same or doesn't even exist.
6. do you believe in marriage?
It's a tricky question and I don't know yet.
7. what do you do if you feel your needs aren't being met?
Leave.
8. you and your best friend have a crush on the same person, how do you handle this?
That happened before so I did tell her because I knew him first...so I will find out who likes who first and who does he likes but, to be honest, It's so complicated and I don't want to go through that again so I would rather just move on and find someone else.
9. If you have a problem do you fix yourself or ask for help?
Try to fix it myself first and then maybe ask for help.
10. when you are venting to someone do you want their advice or for them to just listen?
Listen11.
2022-05-04T21:51:25+02:00
"Liar liar pants on fire! Stop LYING."
that was what I was thinking when Amber Heard was on the stand testifying against Johnny Depp.
2022-05-04T19:11:35+02:00
* Before reading this I advise anyone who is currently struggling with mental issues such as suicidal thoughts not to read this. It may be very triggering for some individuals.
okay if you feel like you are strong enough to read this article then let's talk about it.
while you are reading or before reading this I want you to go listen to this song called "like you" by Tatiana Manaois.
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Earlier this year I came across very terrible news on my social media feed and I haven't felt strong enough to talk about it. I cried when I kept following this news and I can't wrap my head around it still. There was a very beautiful girl named Cheslie Kryst and she was crowned Miss USA in 2019 she was just 30 years old when she committed suicide this year on January 30, 2022, after jumping off a Manhattan building. I admit before this news I only saw her once as miss USA but she was an American Television correspondent and a model, she was very beautiful and from the outside looking in one might think that she had everything but did she? she had the brightest smile I have ever seen on anyone and she used to bring awareness towards mental health. She stated that she would frequently go to therapy and that she would unplug when she felt overwhelmed. She had high functioning depression, she would smile and pretend that she was happy when in fact something was probably eating her on the inside. (this is hard for me to write about) I often check her Instagram because I cannot believe that she is just gone! how? why? I've seen comments under her pictures saying "If I knew she was struggling I would've tried to be by her side and be a shoulder for her to cry on" those comments bother me a whole lot! because first of all that person probably doesn't know who she is and the fact that not even her own mother knew that she was struggling mentally breaks my heart. We are so good at faking that no one really knows anything about how we are feeling...this is the world that we are living because we think everyone has their own problems and we don't want to bother them with ours... In that song I was telling you to listen to she said " You don't have to be strong all by yourself" and you really don't because no one is perfect!
This news has made me so self-aware of what other people might be going through and also it is also a wake-up call for all of us to check on our friends even the ones that look happy or have everything so put together because these people struggle the most. Don't wait after a tragic event to say " Oh if only I was there for her/him more maybe I would've been able to help" don't wait if you know your friend is struggling call them, check on them and tell them that you love them. Let them know that you are here because sometimes all they need to know is that they are not alone. Some people might be too scared to reach out because they are afraid to take up your time and they might just resort to suicide...
most of us don't know who is really struggling in our friend's group but if you see certain signs that they aren't doing well then try to talk to them. Let them know you are here. You can't stop everyone who has suicidal thoughts from doing the act but you and I can prevent it. Let's all be attentive, loving, caring, and reliable because we might save someone from their own demons. Let's not judge.
2022-05-04T17:10:59+02:00
Happiness looks so much better on you,
Sadness and sorrow takes away from your exceptional beauty.
2022-05-04T16:30:16+02:00
2022-05-03T03:12:13+02:00
2022-05-03T02:42:12+02:00
I want to be where children never grow old,
never have their innocence ripped out underneath their precious garments.
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