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2023-04-25T17:51:47+02:00

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« the only difference between then and now is that before I used to feel so lonely and sad for not having anyone to call or to be there but now I’ve made my bed and I totally embrace being alone; I even find the beauty in it. »

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2023-04-24T20:35:20+02:00

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What I do to keep myself happy. 

 

Life is not certain and sometimes things doesn’t work out the way we hoped but this is what I do to stay sane and happy.

  • Pray. I always talk to my Heavenly Father daily no matter if I am happy, sad, mad… whatever I am feeling I talk about it with my father.
  • Read the Bible. There’s just something calming about reading the Bible. Whenever I finish reading the Bible I always take a nap lol because I feel so peaceful.
  • Take care of my appearance. When I look good, I feel good and I am happier.
  • I stay away from people who makes me sad. I will always choose me so if it comes down between me or you I will always pick me lol.
  • I listen to music. I love dancing around, singing and feeling good about my body.
  • I watch funny videos online. 
  • I play with my cats. 

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2023-04-24T04:08:34+02:00

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like you seriously going to reply to my messages in less than 10 minutes, tell me what you're doing and that you are busy instead of ignoring me for hours, stay with me on the phone until I fall asleep, get me my favorite ice cream, hug me and never let go, hold my hand, listen to me and not interrupt?!, make plans with me before I ask?, want to solve the issue instead of sweeping it under the rug? , respect all of my boundaries instead of judging me, communicate instead of assuming? wow, where have you been all my life ?? Haha is this a dream?!

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2023-04-22T18:57:19+02:00

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When I have acne on my face I remember what Kevin gates said and I’m good haha 

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2023-04-22T17:20:05+02:00

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I saw a video on tiktok which was supposed to be funny but it brought me down memory lane… the guy asked: «  so all of you kids that grew up as an only child what did you do? Are you okay? »

Uhm well I am not okay lol I always wanted a sister but my mom couldn’t have any more children sadly.

What did I do ?

  • I read a lot of books, I used to lock myself in a room and read all day because I hated to be disturbed; my mom would knock on the door when it was time to eat or when she wanted to check on me. She was always worried about me but I would always say that  I’m fine.
  • I had imaginary friends ! Yup I had three imaginary friends and I would talk to them all day while I do my chores around the house or when I felt alone.
  • I had a journal, I used to write a lot in my journal because I didn’t have any other kid my age in the house. I always felt alone hence why I still feel alone even now as an adult :(
  • I played with the dogs and the cats… I would sleep a lot too during the day

 

If I have a kid I will do everything that I can to give that kid a sibling because being an only child is traumatizing and it sucks ! You always feel so alone and out of place. You always want to be part of something but always feel left out and you always feel like you missed out on a lot of things. That’s why I got Archie a brother to play with, I was alone and I didn’t want my cat to be alone too. 

If you were an only child, I sympathize with you. 

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