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2023-08-08T17:14:45+02:00
From now on I will not mention my relationship status, I may be in a relationship, and I may not be in one. This will remain private until I decide it's not. If you're friends with me then you might know but maybe not because I hate to speak on things too soon.
2023-08-08T02:54:06+02:00
It’s not all roses and sunshine.
When I was growing up I never thought marriage was a fairytale, needless to say my parents were not married and my mother raised me as a single mother. I never saw her get acquainted with any man, she never set an example of what love is supposed to look like between a man and woman. I don’t blame her and I actually love her for not exposing me in any toxic love environment, she protected me in the best way that she could and I vowed to do the same for my kids when I have them.
I am not blaming my mother for not being able to show me what true love is because she showed me the best kind of love there is; it’s the selfless love. She is the kindest human being I have ever met, she will help just about anyone and she will never feel bad for doing it. I never thought about marriage and I always felt like it was something people did when they were tired with life! I always wondered why would someone want to live with another person for the rest of their lives? In my mind I didn’t see it as a way to express love I saw it as a way to give someone power over you and I hated that! I still am not 100% okay with marriage but I am 79% leaning towards it. When I was 21 I was not thinking about being married one day, I just wanted to be happy alone. Now honestly I am still not thinking about marriage but I am thinking about traveling the world… falling in love, well of course I will date to marry but i just want to be happy first. I think I want kids more than I want to be married! And if I don’t get married I will adopt my kids. I’ve never have a good relationship with men, it was never smooth sailing but one thing I know for sure is that I really want kids. :) I guess if I get married it’s mostly with the intent of having kids of my own.
2023-08-07T01:47:22+02:00
“ if you have a problem with me text me and if you don’t have my number then you don’t know me well enough to have a problem with me.” Not by me
2023-08-07T01:42:36+02:00
2023-08-04T04:57:23+02:00
2023-08-02T14:39:13+02:00
I love talking about natural hair on black women because our hair is just soooo beautiful and versatile. It pains me that some girls don't love their natural hair, if I have a daughter and I pray that I have one :) I will teach her the beauty in her hair and hopefully she doesn't see it as a burden. I used to see my hair as a burden when I was younger, let me tell you a little story...when I was in high school in my junior year, I was getting ready to go back to school and everything was ready except my hair! that time I had my big afro, and I had no idea what to do with it or what to put in it! so, I started crying because it was sooo dry and I didn't have the right products to make it pretty. I beg my brother to help me do something with it, so he handed me a wig :/ uhm? I never wore a wig before at that age and I didn't even know how to put cornrows on my hair, so I started to panic so then we decided to put a hair softener in my hair to make it more manageable and I was happy with the result. It wasn't my fault that I was panicking, and I had every right to because I didn't know what to do with my very coarse hair; it's a huge afro lol and I have to put products in it to smooth it out. I love my hair so much and in the past, I didn't see the beauty in it because I always had it in braids, permed, in wigs... now I love leaving it out and taking care of it. Today I have it in mini twist and I love it.
I want to leave it out and let it do its things because I've tried everything else except that! 
2023-08-01T22:04:04+02:00
2023-08-01T16:34:51+02:00
Basically, we still don't know where Mbappe will end up this summer because at this point, he can't activate an extra year to his contract as of today which means if he decides to stay in Paris this year then next year he can transfer to real Madrid for free if he wants to. That would be a big loss for PSG because they will lose a lot of money if they don't sell him this summer! I don't think he will let them sell him this year because he already declined 2 offers! He declined Barcelona but we all knew he would, Arabie Saoudite and we knew that too because there was no way he would leave the premier league that early in his career. I love him a lot, but he needs to make a decision now! because if he stays at PSG, they will not allow him to play on the team all season! which is bad because can you imagine Mbappe on the bench?? while he's that good. PSG need him because they are losing so many friendly matches right now and it's embarrassing.
2023-08-01T16:28:50+02:00
2023-08-01T16:10:55+02:00
I don't really like social media or being connected to everyone, actually I am not connected to many people lol I follow some people par politesse, but I never look at what they post. I don't like being connected or watch what people are doing; it's weird but I don't like it unless you're my family or a close friend I don't want to know. I think that I am going to delete my personal Instagram soon, I mean I stayed for 8 months that's a record because usually I delete it after 1 month! I did forget the password for a couple of months so I didn't get in there but people still tried to follow me but It's a private account so I have to accept the request; normally I decline the request now because I know I will eventually delete it lol so what's the point? the only Instagram I will never get rid of is my cats Instagram because it's theirs not mine.
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