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2023-08-27T01:06:37+02:00

Feeling at ease.

Publié par Gaelle.R

I've always struggled with feeling "out of place" It's not that I don't fit in because I always try to adapt to any situation that I am in. People may not notice that I don't feel at ease because I know how to mask my emotions very well and I wouldn't speak a lot, so there's not much left for people to figure out. When I don't feel at ease, I don't talk much plus  I just stay to myself but when I feel right at home I will talk a lot and engage in the discussion...

It took me a while to feel at ease with my religious family and it's not their fault; when I stopped attending religious gatherings I really forgot how it felt to be there. It's been 4 years since I returned and I am just now getting used to it; the pandemic did not help me. At first, I felt out of place and people would come up to me to welcome me but I always felt out of place. I had a lot of anxiety and I was dealing with a lot in my personal life but I really think the devil was trying to get me to stop going but I never stopped! that really helped my confidence and my self-esteem. Knowing that God is by my side no matter what really helped me to conquer my anxiety; I naturally look confident because I know how to fake it but now I can really say that I feel good in my body and in my own skin. I love who I am becoming and I think the girl who is staring back at me in the mirror is just stunning. 

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2023-08-24T03:44:58+02:00

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Publié par Gaelle.R

 

This baffles me! As a man why are you waiting on the girl you like to text you? Don’t you know as a man it automatically puts you in a place where you’re the one who is supposed to chase her? I don’t get why these men nowadays are waiting on a woman to chase them! At this point do you want me to set up the date and pick you up?? While we're at it what kind of flowers you like so I can buy them for you! 
You are a man! Text her better yet call her! Set up a date instead of asking what you’re doing why don’t you tell her to get ready and you’re taking her somewhere! I don’t talk to guys who waste my time anymore; if you don’t ask me out after 3 weeks we’re done because at this point, you’re in the friend zone and I don’t date my friends. 

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2023-08-23T21:13:06+02:00

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Publié par Gaelle.R

" Nous deux c'est pour la vie je te le promets"

J'ai beau entendu c'est mots que maintenant ça ne veut rien dire.

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2023-08-21T15:32:43+02:00

In my own bubble.

Publié par Gaelle.R

Honestly, the fact that I am currently living in my very own bubble is not intentional it just kind of works out like this for me. As you all know I am happier than I have ever been, and I guess I am still not used to this newfound happiness that I want to protect it from any toxic energy that may be lurking in my environment. I have 3 groups of people in my life that I interact with, there are my coworkers, my family members and my religious family... so far, the people that I interact with the most are my coworkers because I see them every day and I get along with them. I would say some of those groups of people are not seeing me at all and it's not intentional I promise!

I been doing a ton of self-reflecting and internal work that I just forget about the rest of the world. I have been trying to incorporate good habits in my life for example:

  • I have a phone addiction and I don't necessarily need to be texting someone or talking to someone on the phone; I would just scroll on TikTok or Instagram for hours but being on social media too much is detrimental for anyone's mental health especially mine! I haven't found a good tactic to stop me from using my phone too much, but I am thinking about deleting my insta as well as my TikTok account... I am not attached to them y'all know I delete my socials all the time.
  • my spiritual habits: it has definitely improved but I want to keep it that way, one way for me to show God my gratitude is by spending time with him, and I need to do that way more often...

it's weird for me to improve my life I need to be alone, because I get distracted easily so I have to be alone to make the right decisions without any outside noises. I have to stay single right now to make all of those changes, I am definitely happy right now being single for the first time I am not looking for the attention of any man. I do everything for me, I dress up for me, work out for me, get cute for me and spend time alone, travel alone and learning to fall in love with myself; I needed to do that! I've always talked about self-love but for the first time I am really experiencing it :) 

I love the fact that I am living my life as the sigma woman that I've always been! it's amazing; I feel more confident, loving, caring, and I do attract a lot of guys but so far none of them have made an impression lol I am very picky too so good luck to them!

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2023-08-19T20:04:46+02:00

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Publié par Gaelle.R

 

If you are in a relationship and you feel really comfortable but for some odd reasons you feel like you want to leave, then this is for you…

 

When we get into a relationship with someone, we start to mirror them and start speaking like them because you spend so much time together whether it’s by talking on the phone or hanging out together; that person becomes part of your day which is a beautiful thing. If for some reason you don’t feel like you are working towards your goals or leveling up with that person take a step back to assess the situation. Is that person holding you back? Not motivating you? Actually, it is not your partner’s job to motivate you but if they are bringing you down then that is not a good thing. You should feel elevated when you speak to them, you should feel loved and cared for. If I am in a relationship and although I love the person, I will break up with him if I feel like I am too comfortable. It’s good to be comfortable but don’t be too comfortable let me explain…

 

When you’re too comfortable ok let me take that example on me; if I am too comfortable in my relationship then I start to let myself go meaning I don’t take care of my mental health, my spiritual health or my physical health then there’s something wrong! Because I am settling thinking « oh I have him and he will not leave me » wrong!!! Because life can change at any given time and circumstances may not work in my favor, but I will need to be ready. When you are in relationship don’t forget to take care of yourself because you need to be whole before you can support or even help someone else. I want to be whole and the person I am with to be whole as well because if I’m not then I will be clingy and leaning on him for everything! I am very independent, and it would be hard for me to let myself go like that. The moment I start to feel insecure I know this is the wrong time for me to be with this person because I need to work on myself, and I can’t do that by being with him. Some people are not meant to be in your life forever, everyone who comes into your life is for a reason and sometimes you need to let them go to get to where you need to be. 

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