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my all time favorite movie!
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visual blog
I Love my visual blog with the link above, it shows what my mind has been thinking and it also displays my style.
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“ she is a flower beautiful to the eyes but hard to catch because when she falls the ground shakes.”
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“ I want you, well babe who doesn’t? The question still remains : What can you do for me?”
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being submissive, a woman's guide to happiness.
sometimes when women look at the term " submissive" they see someone who doesn't have a say in anything or a master and slave relationship which is the extreme. They are wrong because submissive doesn't mean that you can't have an opinion or that you have to agree with EVERYTHING! some things are wrong, and it is your right to say no when you know it's wrong. Being submissive as more to do with communicating with your man, because when you know who he is you will trust him even more. You will never be able to be submissive to a stranger because you don't know him, being submissive has more to do with trust than anything else.
If you aren't submissive as a woman the relationship will not work, let me explain...
As a man he is supposed to take care of you and if you are not allowing him to do that you are simply saying that he is not doing a good job at caring for you. If you don't want a man to care for you then you might as well stay single because he will make decision for the best of the relationship and you as the woman have to back him up. Let the man have enough space to make important decisions, to call the shots from time to time, let him be the man and take care of you. Let him be the one in charge when you know he can handle it and if you see him struggling or not taking care of things how you want it then COMMUNICATE! tell him this is what I like. You don't have to stay mute; a relationship is a two-way street it is 2 people fighting to make it work. At times you will be in charge of certain things like the household's stuff, or anything he is not good at, but you guys will compromise and discuss what is best for the relationship.
I am not the submissive type when I am not in love, I will not allow a man I don't trust to call the shots because I do not trust him! which is fine but once I am married or in a serious relationship all of that will change.
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This doesn't apply to men but to women, let me explain...
As a man it is your job to chase the woman you want, to provide for her and to take care of her. As a woman it is your job to be loving, kind, supportive, submissive (I will write something on this), and nurturing. It is not a woman's job to chase a man, provide for a man and to pursue a man! if you have to do that then that is not your man! because when a man loves a woman, he will do anything for her. If he's not doing the bare minimum which is chasing you then he is not the one. Let him go, never force anything; what is meant for you will flow.
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daily reminders :)
In honor of mental health day, I am willing to check in, as the poster says those are some things you can do to take care of your mental health. We tend to be distracted by our phones, other people's opinions, social media and anything in the streaming world that we often forget to check in with ourselves. If we were to spend a lifetime without checking in with our thoughts we would be lost, we would not know who we are or what we want.
- Journaling is a great way to discover yourself and to find out what you really want; at times I feel lost and all it takes for me to find myself again is just pulling out my journal and start writing my deepest thoughts down.
- Always stay hydrated, we can become delusional and confused when we don't drink enough water, we may not be able to think clearly when we don't provide our bodies the nutrients that it needs.
- Exercise daily even if it just for 10 minutes that will help get the blood flowing in your brain and release some dopamine in your body. When you work out, you feel great, and you look great too so never steer away from a good workout.
- Call a loved one when your darkest thoughts want to get the best of you, never hide your pain from the people that you trust; tell at least one person what you are feeling. When you talk out loud about your pain you might even realize that it was all in your mind and that it wasn't that bad.
- Forgive yourself from the things that you cannot control or change, the past is the past and what's done is done. Focus on your future and make the best of it. Create new goals and work hard to achieve them; always remember that you deserve everything good.
- You are loved and you are valued; never feel unworthy because your mere existence is a miracle in itself.
- Take deep breathes daily and allow yourself some time for a break in between of your daily task, never rush things and always take your time.
- Enjoy the moment, smile at the world and always remember to have fun!
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