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2024-01-01T22:51:43+01:00
2024-01-01T19:59:55+01:00
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your perspective on life will change the way you live your life, if you're only looking at the small part of the picture and not the picture as a whole then you will only see the imperfect aspects of life.
2024-01-01T17:55:10+01:00
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My view on dating is distorted and I am glad that I have been single this whole time because I do believe that I am somehow selfish, I don’t think I understood what being a feminine woman was. Not until recently anyway! I always felt like I needed to be the provider or the ceo but as woman it’s okay to sit back and let a man take care of you. And it is not being a “pick me” to serve a man a plate or to be submissive! It’s okay to take care of the person you love. My ego didn’t allow me to be vulnerable or submissive. I needed to look at myself in the mirror and take accountability because I was the problem!
I am not sure anymore… I don’t know exactly what type of men I want anymore because I am so confused. But I do know what I want in a man but does he have to be 6’3 ? What if he’s 5’9 then what?
I used to see myself on pedestal but it’s good but that thinking allow me to be lonely! I am the prize but sometimes I do have to compromise!
2024-01-01T17:19:45+01:00
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when I get married I will wear my natural hair! The older I get the more I hate wigs and fake hair. I feel more beautiful with my hair. I put so much time in my hair and I give it my all for it to thrive. Jehovah created me like this! I was created this way with my beautiful Afro! God knew that is where my beauty lies
2024-01-01T17:12:21+01:00
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This is just sad! Putting a wig on a child that doesn’t have a scalp condition is basically teaching her that her hair is not good enough! It’s teaching her that her natural beauty is not beautiful enough that she needs to put on a wig to be seen as beautiful.
Why are there women treating their children this way? Why are they teaching kids to hate themselves ? Stop putting wigs on children!
I won’t even put braids in my kids hair until she is a teenager my mom did the same thing for me. I first got my hair braided with extensions when I was 13! And I remember it every well because I wanted to get braids so bad but my mom always said no.
She wanted me to get used to my hair and I love that she did that ;)
2024-01-01T16:54:12+01:00
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New habits.
I have been doing a lot of things that were detrimental to me and to the people around me… and I want to change this so what better way to start on the first day of 2024! I advise everyone who read my blog to create new goals for themselves you can take some of my goals and new habits that may apply to you.
I know some days I won’t do these things because I will say that I am “tired” or “sad” but I don’t want to use those excuses anymore! I want to push myself even if I don’t want to. Because of my bad habits I didn’t enjoy 2023 and I was living in the past! I never really accepted that 2022 was over in my mind. So let’s start this year fresh!
- Stop using my phone as soon as I wake up to go on social media. When I wake up I used to go straight to Instagram or tiktok. Now if I pick up my phone it’s to go on jw.org to read the daily text.
- Delete tiktok and other detrimental social media accounts. The only social media I have it’s my cat’s Instagram and it makes me happy when I post cat content so that will remain. Last night on 12/31/2023 I deleted my tiktok.
- Pray before getting out of bed. Starting the day with a prayer before I even put my feet down on the floor is a great way to prioritize what’s more important.
- Read the Bible daily. I am not ashamed to admit I didn’t do this at all in 2023 and that’s why I felt so lost and I want to draw closer to Jehovah this year… let’s all use this year to draw close to God ;)
- Call my family! The only person I called was my mother. I didn’t call anyone else and I want to change that because I know they all love me and I love them as well! It’s okay for me to trust them and it’s okay for me to let them into my life.
- Cook more. I need to cook more meals at home instead of eating out!
- I need to stop doordashing take out so much! I spent too much money eating out while my fridge was full but I was too lazy to cook!
- Go out more! I spent the majority of 2023 in the house away from everyone. This year I want to go out even if it’s alone.
- Stop declining invitations! Just go don’t think about it too much.
- Keep my car clean! My car is a mess and it has been like that for the whole entire year. I don’t like mess but because I was numb to everything I didn’t even notice until I had to give someone a ride.
- Make a list of all the things you want to improve in my personality. (I already wrote it down but I will add more because there is a lot I need to change)
- Focus on Jehovah this year. Forget boys, friends that are not even my friends… anything else that is distracting.
- Stop acting cold. I am not a cold-hearted person but I love acting like to protect myself! I need to stop that because I always get hurt in the end. It’s okay to be vulnerable.
- Make the bed before going out. I stopped making my bed for some time now! This is how disconnected I was! I need to keep up the good habits.
- Clean house. From someone who used to clean my apartment daily and constantly I stopped doing it. Now I want to go back to keep my space clean it will really help me think and figure out what I need to do
- Watch less tv because that took all my time in 2023 and I don’t want that to happen again this year.
- stop dragging to life! girl be happy or at least fake it! stop walking around with your head down and stop lowering yourself in your seat. I need to be more grateful because I have everything I need and I am no better than anyone else.
- give thanks To God daily. I will find something to thank God for because there is so much goodness in my life that I'll never be able to thank God enough. Being Thankful will make me realize all the good things that I have in my life.
2023-12-31T04:15:48+01:00
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I am just like this girl in the video when I flirt lol it’s so unhinged and unexpected!
2023-12-31T03:56:07+01:00
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Some of my habits
- I park in the same spot every day and it pisses me off when someone else take it
- I don’t like going physically in the store to get groceries so i DoorDash it every time. I also have a memebership for discount.
- I use the same body lotion for years
- Have 1 eyebrow lady and one nail salon that I go to.
- I love using lavender body wash because it calms me down especially when I am stressed plus people keep trying me too so that keeps me from going insane.
- I love scented candles especially in a house with 3 cats! it is needed!
- I dont like changes which is why I do the same thing every time!
- I will sit in the same spot and it bugs me when I can’t sit there
- I like knowing what to expect. I don’t like the unexpected !
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