No bread will ever be baked from this dough

2024-07-04T15:16:32+02:00

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Publié par Gaelle.R 4 Juillet 2024 à 03:16 PM

Mean girls.

I’ve had my fair share with mean girls especially when I was younger and they would preyed on me and used me because I was just so nice. Eventually I grew thick skin and now I can spot them from miles away. For starters I always have one great friend I trust and that friend has great qualities! If you’re my friend just know you’re an amazing person and I love you dearly even if we don’t speak I always think about you and pray for you.

There are 2 types of mean girl:

there’s one that will be nice to your face and then plot your downfall. This girl will turn your friends against you, and steal your man( but then again if anyone is able to take your man then good riddance you’ll be better without him). She will Take anything you like before you have a chance to get it and she will never share with you but then pretend she is doing everything for your own good. You will be blinded at first because she appears to be really nice but she’s not but instead she is envious of you.
There’s one that will be mean to your face and be nice to everyone else you know, when you try to tell someone how mean she is they will not believe you because according to them she is “so nice”. Then for some reason you will be gaslit into believing you’re the problem when in reality she is just mean!

I know both types and I steer clear from those girls because those are not the type of girls to have great friendship with. I am really genuine and even if I don’t like you, I will not be rude to you if anything you might not know I don’t like you because I will always treat you with respect but you will definitely know that I don’t want to be friends. I will not initiate plans and I will never hang out with you willingly unless you happen to be out at the same time I am out with other people. I can spot genuine people like me and I can sense whether or not they have an ulterior motive.

I almost forgot!

There’s the Jlo type if you’re on social media then you must know how everyone is finding how mean Jennifer Lopez is! Those girls like her are always in competition with pretty girls and they feel threaten if a girl is more attractive or more talented at something than them. For some reason those girls are extremely nice to men! If you’re a guy she will have no problem being nice to you! If you’re her friends she will somewhat be nice but not unless it benefits her! Those girls are obsessed with men’s approval and they really don’t like being friends with girls.

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2024-07-03T15:19:33+02:00

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Publié par Gaelle.R 3 Juillet 2024 à 03:19 PM

I keep telling some people that I am not fully introverted, but it doesn't seem to stick but for the 100 times and that's the last time I am going over this with anyone, they can decipher for themselves but don't be shocked when you realize how wrong you were!

I am an AMBIVERT meaning" I feel comfortable in social situations (minus the part where I get a brief panic attack but it won't take long before I get used to my surrounding) I can balance between outgoing and reserved behaviors (this one is tricky because when I am going through a depressive episode I am very reserved but when I am doing well you can see my true personality) essentially, an ambivert changes their behavior based on the situation they find themselves in" I can understand why some people if not most people do not believe that I am not an ambivert! trust me I get it and for the longest time I thought I was really introverted but I was just severely depressed! I am a very complex individual and it's not a straight line for me. I believe we all have a bit of both introverted and extroverted in ourselves but one of them is more pronounced, in my case my introverted is slightly more pronounced but that doesn't mean I don't like going out with my friends or that I love staying in my house a lot. If anything, I enjoy both and I can't live life without seeing my friends or without having some downtime alone for myself.

People will always put you in a box whether or not you believe you don't fit in that box! as long as you know who you are and what you like then that is all that matters. people have to put you in a box so that they can understand you better, but you don't have to live your life the way that others want you to live it. You can be whoever you want, you can evolve and change whenever you want! that's the beauty of being a human. You can choose how you want to live your life and you can choose who you allow in your life as well so please choose wisely.

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2024-07-02T13:47:34+02:00

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Publié par Gaelle.R 2 Juillet 2024 à 01:47 PM

real football lovers know edition:

the rivalry between Argentina and Brazil have been dead for years since Pele, Maradona, Ronaldinho were no longer part of the team. Argentina is better with Messi but he's retiring, and Brazil is better with Neymar actually I am not sure! Neymar is a mess he is always getting injured and half the time he's not there.
The rivalry between Barcelona and Real Madrid died when Cristiano left real Madrid and Messi left Barcelona! if anything Real Madrid is above everyone except (Manchester city)
Manchester city is the best team in Europe with Real Madrid. Pep Guardiola is the best coach ever at man city and Carlo Ancelotti is also a great coach at Madrid, but his players make it all better at times I think Real Madrid is simply lucky, but Manchester city is pure hard work!
No one can compare to Mbappe not even Haaland they are both Good, but they don't play the same! where you could compare Cristiano with Messi I don't see where that's apply here for Mbappe and Haaland they are not in the same level at all!! I want them to play together but I don't think that's going to happen.
Cristiano is the definition "with hard work you can conquer the world" he showed everyone he could be better than Messi when no one believed he could. Messi is pure talent and Cristiano is pure hard work.
Vinicius Jr is talented but with his temper he will not go far if he doesn't learn to control himself.
Bellingham has the potential to become the best middle fielder in the world, he is a little rough around the edges, but he will get there.
Xavi was a good coach at Barcelona, but his vision did not translate well, I kinda feel bad for him
Psg will never win a champion's league trophy if they don't get new managers, they put players above the club and they don't make change when it's needed. Luis Enrique is the best thing that ever happened to PSG too bad he came when Messi, Neymar are no longer there and Mbappe was leaving. Actually, Neymar is not as good anymore, but he does still have talents... it's just I don't think Football is his priority plus he hasn't played a single game in months!
The Euros is SOOO much better and more exciting than Copa America! If don't agree fight me lol

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2024-07-01T01:28:50+02:00

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Publié par Gaelle.R 1 Juillet 2024 à 01:28 AM

One thing about casually dating which is what I am doing right now. Only because I feel like I am getting older and I want a kid but I know it will take me a long time because I am not really interested in any man!

One thing I learn you gotta learn not to care! I don’t care about any man who’s not my boyfriend. If you don’t try to make me your girlfriend why should I care about you? You’re just a number on my phone and maybe it’s not saved. I don’t care about you because you could care less about me. You gotta stay busy! Have some hobbies hang out with your friends

Go to the gym! Go to brunch! Go watch movies! Make new friends! Travel ! Learn a new language! Make money! Get closer to God! Love yourself!

Baby there is a lot of things you can do before you let a man in your life. I don’t know if it’s because I’m a sigma woman but a man have never been a priority for me. I love to have fun don’t get me wrong! A guy literally told me you act like a man! You really don’t care lol

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2024-06-30T19:31:13+02:00

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Publié par Gaelle.R 30 Juin 2024 à 07:31 PM

One of the reasons why I hate summer is because my hair does not thrive in that hot and Humid weather. Don’t get me wrong my hair still looks good and I still love it but I feel like the humidity shrinks my hair too much! I simply won’t wear braids or wigs in the summer because it is way too hot. Sure I could wear a short wig or short braids but I don’t want to do that anymore.

I want to love myself for who I am, I don’t want to add any fake hair on my head anymore even if I struggle with how I want to style my hair in the summer I still won’t hide it under fake hair. I don’t detangle my hair more than 2 times a week, I only do it like once a week on my wash day which is on Sundays. I usually have my hair in mini twist half of the time and I love it :)

As I said before synthetic hair does not agree with me because my scalp itch a lot when I wear braids and I can’t leave it longer than 3 weeks. For me to spend 100 of dollars to only unbraid my hair in less than a month is wicked! I feel like the more I wear fake hair the more I hate the sight of my hair and I actually love myself and all of my flaws.

I am more confident, more appreciative of my quirks and weirdness :) I think I am a very unique individual. At first I may be quiet but I am only observing you… later on you will see the beast ;)

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2024-06-30T13:35:13+02:00

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Publié par Gaelle.R 30 Juin 2024 à 01:35 PM

« i am a sigma woman so no I don’t need you, I want you but I’m fine being alone.”

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2024-06-29T18:24:38+02:00

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Publié par Gaelle.R 29 Juin 2024 à 06:24 PM

Bulking vs not bulking.

You didn’t ask but I’m still telling you my fitness journey anyway.

Bulking in fitness terms is basically someone consuming a lot more calories to gain more muscles. I am not bulking right now but rather I am on a weight loss journey. I am eating less and working out more.

I am trying to lose all the excess fat before I start my bulking journey. I will look thinner this summer but no worries in the fall I will start bulking! So that ass is gonna be fat again lol.

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2024-06-29T01:13:10+02:00

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Publié par Gaelle.R 29 Juin 2024 à 01:13 AM

Who watched the presidential debate last night?!

First let me say this as a full disclaimer i do not support any political parties, i am neutral and I will not be voting for any man to rule this country because I don’t think anyone would actually be able to do a good job or abolish death or hunger which is our number 1 problem. But the debate was so entertaining I mean Trump was himself and no one was shocked when he made that erection joke! The one about knocking on a wood… anyways I can say that I am extremely shocked to see president Biden looked sooo dead! I mean this guy is showing signs of dementia ! The far away look and the fact that someone had to escort him off stage says a lot! Otherwise we know he would stumble and fall!

Both men were old but one of them looked already dead! I mean who’s really running this country because I really don’t think it’s Biden ! There’s just no way. At one point Trump had to say publicly that he did not have sex with a porn star while his wife was pregnant at a presidential debate which tells you everything you need to know. Both men was taking jab at each other and it kept going the whole debate! No one really answer the questions that were asked! Everyone was defensive it was a mess !

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2024-06-28T16:34:05+02:00

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Publié par Gaelle.R 28 Juin 2024 à 04:34 PM

I've been really angry lately because I feel like no one is listening to me and I don't like being ignored, there are two things I hate most in life it's being ignored or not heard and not being in control. I hate it when people decide for me, I will rebel in ways no one would think I would. I am frustrated and angry...

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2024-06-23T04:44:35+02:00

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Publié par Gaelle.R 23 Juin 2024 à 04:44 AM

Believe all woman ?

There’s this saying going online with people insisting that we should believe all women when they come forward and accuse someone of abusing them in any sort of way. But we all saw what happened at the trial for defamation between Amber heard and Johnny Depp which showed Amber was the abuser, I am not saying Johnny was a saint but I don’t think he was abusing Amber physically to the extinct that she claimed if at all.

With all of those allegations against big names in Hollywood more and more women are coming forward to say what happened to them and some of them are looking for a big payday, some of those women only has one picture with the person to show that they really know this person and then they claimed that person abused them. I am not going to believe anyone right off the bat without proof! I need some sort of proof to show me that what you’re saying really happened. For Cassie we all saw that video that CNN released so what more proof do you need? Right and for Jonathan majors we saw the text messages between him and his girlfriend, we saw videos and pictures of what happened. When a woman just film a tiktok video claiming that someone abused them it doesn’t mean anything if they don’t show any proof! That person can sue them for defamation if they don’t have any proof. So my thing is for anyone who wants to file a police report or come forward with any confession about how someone took advantage of them or abused them that person needs solid evidence. They can’t arrest anyone without proof of wrongdoings. I am not in the practice of believing all women. Sure we are in fact the weakest link but some of us are very manipulative.

In some instance some women do not have any proof and maybe the abuse happened a long time ago and when they come forward they don’t have any proof, that does not mean that they are lying but just know that you might not be reimbursed or get any Justice because of what was done to you. The only option might be to discuss this with a trusted friend or seek therapy and move on with your life. But if you are making tiktok videos all day about that abuse hoping to get any sort of support or Justice that may not happened if you don’t have any proof. I do believe that the more you speak about all the bad things that happened to you in the past the more you are keeping the bad memories alive and the more you are holding yourself back from a happier life. Move on love.

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