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I will never change. I am who i am and I am proud of that.
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things that I need to stop doing in 2023.
we all have bad habits and things that we do that we know we should not be doing. let's create a list of things that we want to change about ourselves as we are about to enter the 3rd month of 2023. Although this list may seem shallow to some but to me, those things mean a lot to me.
- looking for food only when I am bout to pass out. The fact that I know that I should eat 3 times a day doesn't mean that I do it, truth is most of the time I only eat when I feel lightheaded or cannot hold my hunger for 1 minute longer. I need better eating habits.
- stop letting my cats ravage my house. I know I should stop them or discipline them but after I get home from work all I want to do is sleep and just not do anything so I let them do whatever they want. They love it but to the detriment of myself.
- start journaling again. I haven't written anything in my journal since September of 2022, am I avoiding my feelings? yes but I am not doing anything about it. I want to start journaling again and not avoid my feelings.
- I need to neuter Pixie, I haven't gotten around to that because I have been so busy with my own problems but the truth is he can have babies and that's not good. Even if he still acts like a baby but I know deep down he wants to do the deed.
- start giving boys a chance. In the past, I've always shut them down before I get to know them but I am going to give someone a chance this year... maybe I'll start dating.
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creating my dream boyfriend.
I wish I could create my own boyfriend like you do in a video game, I would pick all of his qualities and height. Let's create the best boyfriend ever with me by the way this is just to play pretend; I don't think anyone like that exists but I could be wrong. Okay so here's my idea of the best boyfriend.
- writes me love letters.
- make playlists for me specifically on Spotify since that's what I always use.
- gives me a cute nickname.
- create a handshake just for us
- and randomly gives me flowers.
- ask me to dance when we're alone because I don't think I am brave enough to dance in front of people yet.
- kiss me in the rain, it is such a Disney thing but I want to do it :)
- let me wear his hoodie.
- text me first.
- fix my hair since it's always messed up lol.
- compliments my hair always
- love football just like me if not more.
- watch football with me and never watch a game without me
- always send morning and goodnight text
- and deep conversations about various topics
- cares about mental health and would be open to going to therapy if needed.
- brags about me
- post pictures of us but without our faces showing (no face no case let's make people guess)
- maintaining eye contact always, it's intimidating but I like someone who's not scared to look me straight in the eyes. I love it
- love cuddling
- love cats, specifically my cats and treat them like his babies too. Gosh, I would be so in love I would want to marry him right away!
- love to blast music in the car and sing at the top of our lungs.
- bring me food always
- let me win games when we play video games even when I know he's better than me but that would make me love him more.
- plays with my hair
- play fighting/ wrestling
- take pictures together
- willing to travel together. I want to travel but I hate to do it alone (eventually I will have to do it)
- ask " can I call you"
- ask " can I kiss you"
- calls me beautiful
- slow dances
- hold my hand in public
- treats me like a queen because he will be my king ( so cringe I love it lol )
- loves cartoon just like me
- and engage in deep discussion about soccer... I love that I could go on for hours;
- treats me with utmost respect and care
- write me a long text saying what he likes most about me (I will do the same)
- get matching outfits just because.
- ask to facetime me (I don't like facetime but I would do it just for him)
- bring presents for my cats (omg I would be so in love lol)
- ask about my cats.
- hopefully, he is a die-hard Brazil fan and not an Argentina fan but as long as he understands the rivalry we're good.
- very attentive to my well-being as I will care for him just the same.
- love to read books or at least read often
- spiritual
- prays with me every day.
- stay on the phone until I fall asleep
- hold me when I am sad and cheer me up with things I like.
- plays with my cats.
2023-02-06T21:30:43+01:00
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Technical love?
Is love technical ? Meaning do you have to do something to trigger love from someone? I came across this lady on tiktok who talks about feminine energy and masculine energy and how a woman can attract a man in a way to make him fall in love faster. She even says “ the only reason a man ghost you is because of your mindset” oh wow thanks! So it’s my fault he wants nothing to do with me, I guess I have to change the way that I think! Why didn’t I think of that wow (that’s me being sarcastic!)
I don’t believe in anything she says because the same way I am able to like you and want to spend time with you without you having to manipulate me I believe you can do the same without me having to do anything because you didn’t do anything for me to fall for you. I think love is natural, you don’t have to fight for it to be there, you don’t have to overthink it because it just simply happens. He doesn’t want to spend time with you and hang out with you because he doesn’t want to bond with you meaning he doesn’t like you. People gravitates to what interest them so if he is not calling me or initiating any plans with me then he doesn’t like me; it’s that simple. I don’t have to force anything, change my way of thinking will do nothing, be more submissive won’t make him to want to be with me, buying him gifts or manipulating him is just a waste of time because we all have free will. The same way he can decide to ghost me and never talks to me again is the same way I can do that too. We all can chose to be with whoever we want to be with if the other person feels the same way of course.
So no I don’t believe in any science on how to make a man fall in love with me; before you say then why are you researching how to make a man fall in love? let me just say this lady just showed up on my feed I didn’t even look for her. People talking about how to make someone love you irritates me, because am I that hard to love that I have to research how to make someone love me!?
I feel like if I have to create strategies for you to like me then it’s clear and simple that you don’t want to be with me. Things like not texting you fast in order for you to get anxious and think about me or do things for you to fall in love with me is pointless to me, yes i might be able to get on your mind but I will only be there for a short period of time, it doesn’t necessarily mean that I am captivating you. I want you to fall in love because it’s natural and it feels right because half of the people I had a crush on did nothing but I still liked them very much. I don’t want to force anything, I will continue to focus on me and doing what feels right and if you want to be with me then that’s on you I will not force you to chose me; if anything I will set you free but if you come back to me then it was meant to be.
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