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As introverts we love spending time alone which is not a bad thing if you ask me because being alone is how we recharge but always remember that the more you spend time alone the harder it will become for you to spend time with other people.
spending too much time alone is not good for us, we have to go out once in a while and socialize. It might sounds fun to just stay home so you can binge watch that new show or read this great book but always remember that you need people in life to survive. (this is for me too I am part of the introvert community)
some of us hate the fact that we are introverts but to be honest I love being an introvert; sure at times I find it annoying when my social battery die right in the middle of me hanging out with friends and I look dead while everyone is wondering what's wrong? well truth is nothing is wrong! I am just exhausted from hanging out all day and now I need to go home and be alone for the next 2 months!
but here's some tips to not drain your social battery fast when you are hanging out with friends:
1. don't get too excited in the beginning, save your energy.
2. talk to a few people and work your way to everyone slowly do not just jump in the crowd! you will get tired fast.
3. find someone who's lay back to talk to at first and then find an extroverts when it's closer for you to leave because hanging out with energic people will make you tired!
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Honestly always remember to practice self-care after hanging out with lots of people; take some time to unwind, sleep and rest because you are going to feel drained. The right people will love you no matter what, you are beautiful fellow introverts! you are kind, resourceful, empathetic and fun to be around. We are:
