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2021-08-20T15:39:50+02:00

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Publié par Gaelle.R

hey guys.

I have been taking a break on watching movies this week because I am trying to limit my time watching TV. I am also  trying to start reading books again because it's the best thing that I can do for myself not only does it improve my vocabulary but books have always been a way for me to escape reality. I have been having a really bad headache, I am trying to keep things interesting... Life doesn't have to be so grim. 

Yes people leave but I don't have to let myself go just because they left me behind. You have to accept that you are your own greatest possession even when you mess up, you still have to love yourself enough to do better without condemning yourself in the process. Anyways I am trying to rebuild myself so I will not post a lot because I don't want to put some emotions out here impulsively. I am currently self reflecting...

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2021-08-19T17:37:50+02:00

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Publié par Gaelle.R
" I did all this on my own. so today I am taking some time to congratulate me." me to me:)

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2021-08-16T14:25:49+02:00

living in the moment.

Publié par Gaelle.R

Dwelling on the past is a great way to make yourself sad for no absolute reason and dreading the present by living in the future is a great way to missed out on life changing opportunities. The secret of an happy and abundance life is to live in the present moment. The sooner you realize this then the sooner you will know what true happiness feels like and you will worry less about the past because it is beyond your control because you will never be able to change it; you will not try to cheat on your present with the future just because you are tired of your current living circumstances. 

I can sit on my high horse all day and talk about what living in the moment feels like but it won't mean anything unless I  do it myself everyday. I try my best to live in the present moment even if my current situation is not pleasant. One key to live in the moment is to ask yourself what emotion do I feel right this minute? and how is what I am feeling is connected to what I am doing. I don't know if this happens to you but sometimes when I am driving and I start to think about yesterday, what I am doing today or something that happened in the past I often forget that I am driving but then I would catch myself not knowing how I manage to get this far as I made the right turn and drove on the right lane but I wasn't mentally there for all of that. No matter what we do in life we will always wonder if we did something different in the past if our present would be different, we all wonder but let's try not to dwell on it because it is beyond your control.

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2021-08-12T02:53:01+02:00

Kissing booth 3.

Publié par Gaelle.R

I have already watched both  1 and 2 sadly, I mean it is not a bad movie but the storyline is just messed up and unrealistic. So you mean to tell me that we can all relate to having a beach house all to ourselves after graduating high school for the summer? and just casually create a bucket list and do everything on it like sky diving, swimming with the sharks... all in one summer? like who has time for that? ugh, I don't really mean to sound like a Debbie Downer. I mean the movie was nice to look at and a bit interesting. It was a lot of unnecessary fights and way too many breakups that I couldn't keep up. Why is it in each movie the characters have to break up? the movie hasn't even started and I already knew the breakup was coming. 

In the movie, Elle was in a relationship with her best friend's brother Noah, and her best friend Lee was in a relationship with another girl at school so Noah graduated high school first because he was a senior. Noah is like 6'9 while Elle is like 5 feet lol and it was the cutest couple ever, in my opinion, well I do like tall people but I don't have a preference but seeing a giant guy with a small girl is cute to me. Well back to the movie that is the first time I watch it on the day it came out I almost never do. For instance, I almost skipped the 2 movies last summer well mainly because my love life sucked... but I am not in love this time not that I was last summer but I'd rather not talk about it. This movie was okay I didn't like that they made a long-distance relationship seems like a bad thing like tons of people have a successful long-distance relationship and who just get into a college right in the middle of summer like hello deadlines? how did she even pay for college? and we're just going to magically skip to 6 years like wait hold on back it up! what happened in college and oh I forgot why bring back Marco if Elle wasn't going to pick him? just to create an unnecessary fight and break up? ugh... I don't know, it all didn't make sense to me this time around. The first one seemed more realistic and the second one was relatable but this one just doesn't quite fit in the picture. well, let's hope it's the last one because I won't be able to stand another one where they show Rachel and Lee getting married and Elle still riding her motorcycle with Noah. 

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2021-08-11T17:04:19+02:00

warning

Publié par Gaelle.R

*just a PSA I can be very blunt at times and if you truly want my advice I don't think you will mind it unless you don't want to hear the truth. When I write about self love or love in general I tend to sound cut throat ! I don't mean to I guess love has yet to teach me how to be gentle. 

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2021-08-11T15:42:54+02:00

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Publié par Gaelle.R

continuing with the subject of love...

Love is not one sided and you should not continue to love someone if it's not reciprocated. Your love is a privilege let's get that clear it is not a right, therefore if the person you are giving the love to is underserving then you have every right to revoked that privilege and get your love back. I feel like I'm in a court lol well the court of love.

You should not have to break your back for someone who won't even talk to you, your love is your power and you can either give it to yourself or give it to someone who deserve it.

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2021-08-11T15:00:45+02:00

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you know what's utterly insane?

you could be going mental, ballistic and crazy but you will never know!

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2021-08-11T14:27:02+02:00

what is love?

Publié par Gaelle.R

Love is such a wide topic and it has different meaning for each individual, but love to me is not what we desire it's what we feel no matter what. If you have to feel that your needs should be met completely or that you have to get exactly what you need to give love then that is not love that is just a transaction, it's like saying you have what I need so I will give you love in return. love to me has nothing to do with exchanging needs it's loving someone or something even when it's not bringing anything valuable but you love them anyway because you know that God can change that person to be exactly who they need to be without you trying to fix or change anything about them, love is patient. Take for example my love for Archie that to me is the purest form of  love I feed him, I play with him even when he is biting me but I still love him and he is not paying my bills actually he is adding more to it, he doesn't give me food or anything but I love him without expecting anything in return.

we often say if that person doesn't look like that or doesn't have all the qualities I am looking for in a mate then I won't be able to love that person; well that's not love that is simply your needs. The biggest love story someone can experience in their lives is the one they were not expecting, it's the one despite the person's flaw they still chose to love them it wasn't because the person was perfect that's why they love them...there are so many fake version of perfect out there that you can just pick one and pretend to be in love. The purest form of love comes from the heart of someone who choses to love despite the flaws, the unexpected and the unknown.

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2021-08-10T15:54:23+02:00

serendipity.

Publié par Gaelle.R

If you went to watch the movie like I was saying yesterday, you're a sweetheart! but if you didn't that's okay maybe you didn't see the post but here's your chance to watch the movie...it's no longer available on Netflix but it's on HBO and if you can't watch it that's also fine lol just keep reading. I will never be able to spoil everything because the movie was magical itself.

I don't watch Christmas movies and I don't think that this is one, it's true that it took place during the holiday and the movie started with them shopping at a store but I shop during Christmas even though I don't celebrate it. There was no mention of the holiday or the importance of it whatsoever. John was shopping for a scarf and Sara was shopping for a pair of gloves, after they purchased the items they went to get ice cream or milkshake I don't remember. They started talking and bonding but they both were already in a relationship, John wanted to get Sara's number regardless that she was already in a relationship and he said I quote "just in case it doesn't work out" but Sara was a big believer in fate and she believe that if she let him go without giving him her number and somehow if they were able to meet again in this big City called New York where there is a lot of people then it would be fate that they were meant for each other. At this point they are still complete strangers and she did not give him her number as she left to get in a cab... but later on they ran into each other was it by mistake? I don't think so but John seemed to have drop his scarf and Sara was the who found it out of nowhere and while she was holding his scarf he found her and she gave him his scarf (in a romantic type of way ). They were both shocked that they were able to see each other again that soon, so they went ice skating and they discussed movies, their likes and dislikes and a lot of fun topics. It looks like they were bounding and having a great time but at the end of their little outing he ask her for her number. She wrote the number on a piece of paper and right when she was about to give him the paper the wind blew it away, she was very skeptical about it to the point where she believed that maybe they weren't supposed to stay in contact. John tried to convince her otherwise but they both agreed that he can write his number on a $5, after he handed her the money with his name on it she went and spend it on a candy or some sort; he was surprised that she did that but she said if she was able to get that $5 again with his number then she will call him ! (insane) anyway they both agree and she could also write her number in a book and left it at a bookstore, she says that if he came across that book then he can call her.

So they both went back to their lives, Sara went back to another City and her boyfriend proposed so now they are supposed to get married. John on the other hand went back to his girlfriend and he proposed to her so now they are supposed to get married. But somehow they both can't seemed to shake the memories of each other and they don't even know each other's name either. Sara became a bit sentimental and she couldn't focus on the wedding plans so she decided to go back to New York to meet a guy she has no idea what his name was, or where he lives. She went to New York with her bestfriend out looking for John while john is out looking for her everywhere, they almost ran into each other a couple of times and that was frustrating to watch. Sara even ran into John's fiancé without knowing, but after different strategies to see each other again that didn't seemed to work they both decided to give up. While Sara was on her way back home she saw the $5 John wrote his name on while she was on the plan, disbelieve she took the $5 and finally find out that his name was John! meanwhile John's fiancé bought him a pre-wedding present and it was the book that Sara wrote her number in! he was shocked and lost for words; he was now sure than ever that him and Sara was definitely meant for each other. So he called off the wedding and now he was alone he went for a walk but found a female jacket on a bench he took it with him; as he started walking he saw the ice rank he went with Sara as he went in there it started snowing so he lay on the ground as the snow fell on his face and he was thinking of her. Sara found out that he had called off the wedding and as her bestfriend was leaving to go back home she told her to go inside because it's cold and as she is standing outside in the cold without a jacket! I don't know if she remember the jacket she left on the bench or whatever but she started walking! and  John who was at the ice rank with one pair of glove found the other pair of glove, when he found the other glove he turned around and there she was !!! omg and they shook hands in a romantic and magical way. They exchange their name finally and that was it !!!

Like how is that not magical? I know that it's just a movie and it's very unrealistic but the poet in me think that it's totally possible to come across this type of love even if we are in the century of facetime, snapchat and text messages it is still possible to experience an old school love :)

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