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2022-12-27T14:55:03+01:00

resolutions

Publié par Gaelle.R

I don't believe in the "new year, new me" trend I think it's just something people say to feel better about themselves, I believe that we should have resolutions for each day and reinforce them every single day. 2022 has been good to me, I became happier, made new experiences, my health was great and for that I thank God. I have some new things that I want to reinforce and perhaps you want to do it with me.

  • eat healthy: I have been eating clean for example I try to eat a side of vegetable each day. I want to keep it up, I have been eating less fast food and less soda. I want to stop ordering take outs and just cook for myself more; I started yesterday and I will keep it up. I made a delicious black bean soup it was so good and it smelled so good my neighbor told me it smelled good :) 
  • I want to drink more water: I think that I am on the right track but I want to drink more water because water is good for your skin, hair and your overall health.
  • stop drinking alcohol: I haven't drink alcohol since september 2022 that was the last time I bought a bottle of wine and I haven't drank any alcohol since then... I am happy for that.
  • keep being confident: I am more confident now and I want to maintain it... I Can stop caring about what people think of me and keep doing me, do whatever I like to do and avoid people who bring negativity in my life.
  • journaling: I haven't been journaling at all and I think it's because I am avoiding my feelings but eventually I have to do it.
  • exercise: I want to stretch daily and exercise everyday even if it's at home.

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2022-12-23T21:01:24+01:00

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Publié par Gaelle.R

date someone who's obsessed with you not someone who ignores you ;)

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2022-12-21T19:15:00+01:00

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"Baby I know you by heart, I asked all the right questions and paid attention to every little details."

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2022-12-20T20:39:19+01:00

Why I don't have any friends.

Publié par Gaelle.R

 The reason why I don't have any friends is entirely my fault, I am not blaming anyone else. People have tried to invite me to places, some even went out of their way to make me feel welcome and what did I do? nothing. I am the jerk in this situation but I have many reasons that will sound like excuses one of them is that : although I want friends and most importantly close friends but I am really afraid to really let anyone in because I'm scared that one day they would detach themselves from me. My first best friend heartbreak was in 2010 she was my first real best friend, we loved each other like sisters and suddenly she just stopped talking to me and that really broke my heart. At 13 years old I vowed to never let anyone that close again and I never really did; well never 100 % like I did back then anyway. After that heartbreak I never got attached to anyone besides my mom, we can be friends today but I'll be totally fine if you stop talking me. I almost expect everyone to leave and although that doesn't explain the fact that why I spend so much time alone but it does say a lot about me...

In my opinion and from what I've experience so far everyone has a motive.  some People want to be your friend for what you have to offer and for what they can take from you but they don’t necessarily care about you or consider you a friend. You are calling them your friend and they only want to be around you because of what you have. People are envious, jealous and malicious. Maybe you don’t have a friend right now and perhaps the people you want to be friends wouldn't benefit you in anyway because They  could be trying to use you or they might fake being your friend just so you can get them where they want to be. It is hard to find a friend who genuinely care about you as person and want the best for you; there are great people out there that you could be friends with but they are very rare; if you ever find one hold on to them because you might never find one like that again. You don't always have to be friends with somebody you can just focus on yourself and improve yourself while you wait for that friend you're looking for. Do not be desperate and allow just anyone to be your friend because people are malicious these day, they may become your downfall. 

Find ways to work through your problems use that alone time to grow within yourself, use that time to fall in love with yourself. You can make voice notes about your problems to work through them because not everyone deserve to know your business. It’s okay if you don’t have a friend right now Be your own best friend, vent to yourself 

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