This year was not an easy one just like every other year, but this one taught me a lot. what happened??
- this year taught me the power of saving money for a rainy day.
- having another career plan and business plan.
- the importance of being kind to everyone, especially strangers.
- I learn how to love myself better and how to stand tall even when life throws a lot of obstacles at me.
- this year I finally saw who my real friends are and who weren't.
- I did something exciting in the summer that made me smile a lot.
- i became more hopeful and more resilient.
- took my mental health serious.
- learned more about self control and actually practice it.
- I finally stopped caring about other people's opinion of me and I stopped giving a F entirely.
- I stopped clinging to things that made me miserable.
- I kept choosing happiness despite everything (I have bad days but I try not to let them make me believe that I have a bad life)
- improved my diet.
this year has been really fun, I got my second cat Pixie in the summer and he has made me happier with his radiant personality and big eyes. I realize that Archie was more affectionate than I realize because now he loves to cuddle with me on the couch and I really love our cuddling times.
I change my style and the way that I dress completely which makes me feel more grown up now than I ever did before. People started to take me more seriously and acknowledge me more because I took myself serious. One thing I realize when I started not caring about what people thought of me I became free of trying to please everyone and when I made a mistake I allowed myself to move on.
this year I was finally able to put my hair in a bun and my mini afro is growing into a big afro. I am so proud of the progress that my hair has made.
I have been more confident than I have ever been my whole life, I truly fell in love with myself and valued my well-being way more. I feel more comfortable in my body and I have faced a lot of my fears, especially the one associated with public speaking. My skin has been clearing up a lot more and I have lost a lot of extra weight that I wanted to lose.
I started reading many books again, and I started spending a little bit more time with God and setting my priorities straight. I think that I am happier, more confident, more outgoing, and more outspoken. I have to thank God for being patient with me and for working in me.
My attitude about life made this year great.