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2022-10-15T19:09:58+02:00
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2022-10-15T18:40:19+02:00
Publié depuis Eklablog
“ when I see you I dey go gaga.”
habibi
2022-10-12T21:35:41+02:00
dates ideas.
Brainstorming...
** I hate the idea of going to a movie theater for dates
1. going to a museum
2. a cute coffee shop that also have pastries.
3. rooftop restaurant.
4. A walk in a cute park to get to know each other better.
5 walk on the beach
6. going hiking.
7. going on a bike ride in the park (not me suggesting bike ride lmfaooo)
8. sightseeing
9. drive in movies.
10. road trip to somewhere fun
11. rock climping
12. ice skating
13. going golfing
14 water gun fight in the backyard or park
15 apple picking or blackberry picking
16. cooking a meal together
17 rent our dream car for a week end
18 going to a concert
19. home games and taking shots when you lose.
20. going bowling
21 learn a new language together
22. adopt a pet together
23. going on a boat ride
24. snow fight
25 go horseback riding
26. going to a zoo or aquarium
27 go paintball
28 go wine & paint event
29 going to a record store !! (that is mostly for vintage people like me :)
30 go wine tasting
31 go fishing
2022-10-12T19:38:39+02:00
Publié depuis Eklablog
" Yo pa wè doulè wòch nan dlo men yo we doulè woch nan galet,
Ou ka panse on moun chèlbè ap byen mennen poutan lavi a ap chavirel anba souflet.
Ou ka wè on pot ki ouvè byen laj poutan lew rantre ladann menm respire ou pa ka respire.
pa jije lot moun pou fason yap viv ou pa konn sa yap andire nan fenwa."
2022-10-12T17:05:24+02:00
panse ...
" Pa gad sou zanmi kap baw move konsey paske le male rive yap kouri kitew,
pa koute moun kap diw prese pouw we si wa fe degouden, pran tanw pou lew rive pouw pa al devan tribinal.
tout moun ou we kap di yo avew yo kouw raze yap demakew,
pa konte sou pesonn paske menm lonbray ou kouri kitew.
Mache nan on simitye wap we vale moun fanmi, zanmi yo bliye,
yo tap di mwen pap kapab anko pou ki wale, pran kriz poutan jodia yap viv e yo bliye.
sa ki te konn vinn pote fle men kounya tout fle yo tounen fatra.
kote moun ki te konn ap ekri bel pwezi, chante bel ti chante, kase ti bwa nan zorey ou yo?
jodia yo fe vi yo ak moun pa yo.
Lavi a pote anpil posibilite,
ou ka kontan jodi epi demen ou tris.
Sak te la jodi pa la demen, granneg vinn tounen malere.
chen meg vinn gra, chat bouche vinn ap domi kay tayè
saw gen nan menw lan serel, jwi li paske demen li ka kouri kitew sanw pat atann.
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Lanmou bliyem li fem pase pou tochon anba chodye nwe,
ak dlo nan zye mwen pran pasyans map gade konbyen moun kap di "je le veux".
Map souri map bourike,
lanmou maltretem, li galopem, li kriminenm.
Se ato map damou, map kontinye fe chen nan pyel petet on jou la leve tet gadem.
Mwen bouke kite dlo seche sou mantonm pandan kem ap neye nan lapenn.
2022-10-12T15:13:52+02:00
Anger
How many of you can get really angry? I am sure every one of us get angry but it's the expressing part that gets tricky.
I can say that I have gotten angry before but I haven't gotten really angry, I am a very mellow person and I wish I could express my anger in a healthy way. I don't hope to lash out or cuss anyone out, I just want to feel like I am letting other people know that I am angry right now. For example let's say someone does something to me that I absolutely don't like and I am supposed to say " don't do that to me I hate it" although I will say it but the person might not even know that I am angry, when in fact I could be very angry but instead of expressing that I just fled the scene which is not always a good thing because there is a right way to let someone know that their action make you mad without walking away. when I get mad I take out on myself. I get really quiet and all the emotions just bottle up inside of me it's very rare for anyone to get a reaction out of me. I wish I could express my anger through writing or some physical activity but I just really stay calm and take it out on my own self. That's why I hate it when people make me angry because I am the one suffering not them!
2022-10-11T16:48:26+02:00
Publié depuis Eklablog
" By the time they realize your worth you'll be worth more."
2022-10-11T15:30:08+02:00
Write like no one is going to read what you wrote! that my dear is your best work :)
I think the best thing that I have ever written are the things that I've never let anyone see! like the last poem I wrote in creole that I just posted. I wrote that a while ago but I was afraid to share it because I feel so exposed but someone who's in love right now and who speaks creole may be feeling the things that I wrote; sometimes it's not even about me!
2022-10-10T19:40:59+02:00
Publié depuis Eklablog
Relationship talk.
I was scrolling through tiktok earlier today and I stumbled on a video of a girl talking about what she expects in a man, and as she was describing her ideal man I couldn't help but think if she's ever going to find a man as such? I mean anything is possible right ? but that's pretty rare for a man to be willing to put themselves last for a girl. I would never expect that from a man, I do want you to treat me with respect but I don't want you to worship me in any kind of way. I want my man to take care of himself and do self-care just like I am going to take care of myself because that's how the relationship get toxic when the other person is neglecting their needs and not taking care of themself they will lash out and their unhealed trauma will come up to the surface; like baby I don't need none of that please tell me when your needs aren't being met so we can try something else out, please go to therapy, take time to heal, talk to people that can help, let's be friends first. People make relationship sounds like a chore or like your significant other is supposed to be your savior or something. I don't need no man to come in save me, I can save myself.
I am hoping to get the same thing that I am giving because I can't be selfish and just expect my partner to give me the world if I am not giving him anything in return. Relationship shouldn't feel like a prison, in my 20's I want to have fun, be free, fall in love, experience new things and grow. I don't want to be put in a cage, I want my partner to be happy while he's with me, I want to be his peace, I want to learn his love language so that I can show him just how much I love him, I want to be there for him just like I know he will be there for me, I want to protect him because I know he will protect me, I want to trust him just like he will trust me. This is a partnership ! I will do for you the same things you will do for me, I will grow with you, I will teach you new things and you will teach me new things, we will travel and create new memories, we will love just like there's no tomorrow... That's how I want my love story to be like :)
2022-10-10T16:53:31+02:00
Publié depuis Eklablog
"That feeling when you are both too busy smiling to kiss, that moment when your eyes meet with theirs and your stomach turns to goo and all you want is to be with them until the end of time...yeah I am waiting for those moments."