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2025-01-10T19:17:24+01:00
one thing I realize in dating is that I am a bit agressive lol but not in a bad way. It's quite charming if you like me and you don't mind a woman who takes charge but at the same time I will fall back in let you lead. But it's not good if you don't like me, you will hate it.
I am like this because I am over it! ugh I hate the process like lets get all the talk out the way like do you want me or nah? do you see yourself getting mareried to me? no okay that's cool let's stop talking.
2025-01-08T04:29:15+01:00
This week has been so busy in the gym, there is a lot of people. I understand that it’s a new year and most people have new year resolutions and they want to start going in the gym in January. I am not mad at it! But everyone just wants to go at 5-6pm like what? Can you go earlier than that? I love to see people work out and pushing themselves but one thing for sure I am glad that I didn’t start going to the gym in January because I would’ve been scared. I never liked working out when there is a lot of people around because I felt so self conscious. I am so glad that I joined the gym a random day in may because there was no one there! I could make mistakes and not feel ashamed about it.
Currently I don’t mind if there is a lot of people as long as I get the machines I want to use then I don’t care. I just need a corner and 2 heavy dumbbells on Mondays, and the smith machine on Wednesdays and Saturday’s after that everyone can do whatever.
My leg muscles are sore at the moment from yesterday’s workout, I’ve done foam rolling on my muscles today and I feel a little better. I normally train my legs like a beast and I just want to do the same for my upper body, but baby steps I will not rush it.
2025-01-04T23:24:00+01:00
I figured it out!
Men annoy me! I cannot be on the phone with you everyday, I feel suffocated. Now I know why I am single, I just don’t reach out and I get bored quick . Asking me a picture every day annoys me. Leave me alone dude! I think I’m too self sufficient, it’s very rare that I want something from a man. I hate it when men touch me ugh I don’t even like hugs from just anyone.
Ugh…
2025-01-04T03:29:22+01:00
2025-01-04T01:33:13+01:00
Write a 50 shades paragraph.
As my eyes met his, I could feel the tension in the room rising.
His fiery eyes made me believe he could take me right here on the floor as everyone watched.
My body was begging for his touch, he licked his lips and looked away he knew he had me panting for more. As I walked past him and smelled his perfume grace my nose, a musky smell left on my bedsheets.
Remembering the night before as he drove to my house to take what’s his.
I had barely opened the door and his lips came crashing down hard on mine demanding that I open my mouth wider with each seconds that passes by for his enraging tongue to take over my senses. His touch became more passionate and intensify even more when I stood in front of him barely naked….
That’s all I can share this is not an explicit website lol
2025-01-03T14:15:54+01:00
2025-01-02T02:05:54+01:00
In 2025 let’s take our time before we start dating someone. Personally I am very picky. I could be in love with you and still not want to date you. I’ve met a lot of men and when I found out who they really were I cut them off but some of them were not so easy to cut off. I am going to give you some advice on dating even if I’ve never been in a relationship with that being said you don’t have to take my advice. Actually this is not necessarily a guide to dating but rather a guide to identify toxic traits in your partner or in dating in general.
We’re going to categorize each individual into groups. Before I start with the first group I just want to say I am not judging anyone, we all make mistakes and before I became the woman that I am today I’ve made a ton of mistakes and I’ve been toxic before. We need to admit things to ourselves and we need to change the things that aren’t right. If you see yourself in some of the things I will talk about then please take some time to work on yourself, try therapy if needed.
Gaslighting: this type of person knows how to shift the blame on you even though you did nothing wrong! For example let’s say you find your partner cheating and you try to confront them about it because you feel betrayed. They might bring up everything you did wrong (according to them) in the relationship to justify why they cheated on you. They might say things like “you weren’t there for me you’re the reason why I cheated on you” they know what to say to make you feel bad about a situation that they caused! Your partner cheating on you is not your fault but a gaslighter will bring up all the reasons why it’s your fault. The only way you can deal with this person is by putting your foot down! You can work with this but if you tell them what the issue is and they still choose to gaslight you then please exit. Tell them that what they did is their fault, tell them they need to start taking accountability for their actions. Honestly you know what you can deal with and you know your deal breakers, if this is one of them then please don’t force it because those people never see what they did wrong because you will always take the blame somehow.
Narcissistic: this is the worst type of person to be in a relationship with and if you find out that the person you’re talking to or dating has some narcissistic traits then please run! This person only cares about themselves! Those people are normally very physically attractive and they are very charming! They can disguise themselves very well you might not even realize that they are narcissistic but let me give you some examples:
My advice to you is to take time away from this person because at first they will use their charm on you and you will fall hard for them, then boom their true self will show up in the relationship.
Gatekeeper: this person won’t help you at all even if they know how to help they may still choose not to do it. This person won’t share valuable information that can help you just because they don’t like to see you doing better than them. For example let’s say both of you are in a hard situation but your situation is not that bad and they can help you with it, they might not help you because misery loves company. They like knowing that you are struggling with them! You don’t want a partner like that, you want someone who wants you to be better.
Manipulator: this person knows exactly what to say to get what they want. They will make you do things you never thought about doing only because they sweet talk you into it. Please play attention, these people may not necessarily love you but they love what you can do for them so they can manipulate you into getting in a relationship with them.
2025-01-01T14:31:02+01:00
2025
I have a few things I want to work on this year, and here’s a few of the things I am working on ( I am only sharing the ones I am comfortable sharing publicly)
2024-12-30T16:01:01+01:00
If there's one weird thing about me and there's a lot of them but it's the fact that I act like a teenage girl when I like a guy! people, my age definitely don't act like this. They are calm about it because they've dated people in the past and then there's me who hasn't been in a single relationship! like I've been single all my life lol.
Imagine a 28-year-old saying "omg I think I have a crush on him, do you think he likes me? what should I do?" uhm no! at this big age I am still having crushes lol I mean it's not embarrassing because I am a kid at heart even if I look serious but don't let my face fool you. I am still in my awkward dating stage! I am so awkward with men I like gee ugh I need help! with men I don't like I am not awkward at all; I am super calm and that's why they end up liking me. The more I like you the weirder I will make things ughhhhhhhhhhhhhhh I hate it
2024-12-29T19:21:46+01:00
The truth.
I won’t get any more real than this! As a woman I’ve had so many experiences in my 28 years of living that I realized a few things in love.
My advise to you and what I am doing moving forward
Let go of the man you want and find a man that wants you.
I plan on getting married in the next 2 years, I want kids and a beautiful family. There’s no more time to waste.
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