Believe it or not I am very confident in who I am and I know who I was at a very young age. I never tried to be something that I am not, I’ve always been reserved and my weird little self. I am easy to talk to, I make everyone feel at ease but at the same time when you really think about it; you actually have no idea who I am or what I really want unless I tell you about it.
my advise:
never dim your light for anyone, be excited about your plans and what you’re doing in life. Don’t hide the fact that you want more in life just because the people around you are fine with staying where they are. Work hard and achieve your goals. Don’t listen to anyone trying to discourage you, block out the noise and keep working hard on your goals.
if you’re going through a hard time right now, there are better days ahead. You still have more people to meet, the love of your life is out there somewhere. So many times, I thought I was in love and then came the next person. I promise you love is quite simple, and it hits you out of nowhere; after I experience the worse heartbreak of my life, and I mean I thought I would never fall in love again! I fell harder for someone else (granted I’ve never been in a relationship and my idea of love may just be a simple crush but at least my heart fell for someone else)
be your weird little self because the world is boring enough without individuality. People are chasing the same dreams: money, women/men, sex, a nice 3D lace lol, wealth or even social media trends. If you’re like me and you have weird quirks and you’re passionate about different things then be glad! There’s not many weird people like us.
have a self-care routine: some examples
- journal daily
- exercise
- drink water and eat nutritious foods
- surround yourself with people who loves you
- stay away from toxic people
- make long lasting friendships
- sleep well
- Do things that you love and don’t feel guilty about it.