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The reason why I don’t like this generation, not always because I do admit this new generation is less serious and turns every stressful situation into a joke which can help lessen the pain or even the stress. But at times I wish some people were different, I was raised in a totally different country with people who had different mindset about life. When I see how some people react, fall in love or hurt other people without a second thought I am disgusted.
Here’s some things I hate
- People turn everything into a trend even mental illness. There are people on social media faking their mental illness just to get attention and that’s not right! Mental illness is very serious and not something we should joke about. Being depressed should not be a trend, if you don’t experience it then don’t talk about it or act like you have it to be more relatable!
- Being unfaithful is normalized. The term side chicks or side dudes or even sneaky link are so popular online which shows how much people love to cheat and hide their sexual partners because they don’t have only one! When you find someone who’s faithful you praise them for it but babe that’s the bare minimum in a relationship!
- People often say if you didn’t post pictures then it didn’t happened! When I was little taking pictures of everything wasn’t popular. People fully enjoyed themselves in the moment instead of worrying about taking a good picture to flex online with. I take a lot of pictures I don’t post! I put them in my electronic journal for memory of things that I have done or how I felt when I got an item purely so that I can look back on my milestone when I’m older or share it with my child or children who knows lol!
- Kids who are 12 or even younger are on social media. That is very detrimental for their upbringing because they have bad examples of what love should look like, bad examples of how someone should act or dressed! They are being raised by people who are not their parents. Those kids are copying all the bad manners of people who are online.
- They keep saying “ you only live once” and “live life to the fullest” I agree with the second one but you don’t only live once (I’ll get to that) but enjoying life to these people means going out every night, kissing random strangers, dancing inappropriately with strangers at night clubs and drinking alcohol until they’re passed out drunk! That’s not a life! That’s concerning. Anyone who has to party all the time is miserable trust me they really are or something inside of them is missing and they are filling it up with partying which often results in them feeling even more lonely. Yes you don’t only live once, the way you live your life at the moment matters because God is watching and you can live again even if you die and if you do get resurrected you will live forever and have a much happier life.
- People keep saying my life sucks but they have a great life! If you have a place to stay, food to eat, clean clothes, hot and cold water, transportation then you are living better than some people who live in third world countries! Stop saying things like that and be grateful.
- People will have sex with you and let you see every inch of their body but afraid to give you their heart! They are afraid to fall in love and some would rather sleep with you knowing they don’t love you just because they only want to satisfy their fleshly desires.
- People are more selfish and they hide it behind self love! No there’s self love and there’s selfishness. Not willing to help someone in need because you don’t feel like it when you have the capacity to help that person is selfish it’s not taking care of yourself. I agree you can’t pour from an empty cup but if your cup is full then you can share with someone who needs a little bit of help. Humans used to live in communities and they would help one another.
Often times I retrieve back into my safe space because I hate sharing part of myself online. I hate sharing what I am doing all the time, sometimes it brings me joy but at times I hate it and I want privacy.
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