As women I think all women should all have this energy meaning you should not be focusing on any man who's doing nothing but wasting your time, you should also not be seeking validation from anyone. Most women don't have that energy because they grew up a different way, I grew up with a very beautiful, independent and hardworking single mother. You should know your power and if you don't know what that is then get started, get to know yourself before you get into a relationship. You can't be giving away something you know nothing about! why are you looking for a man if you don't know who you are? first of all why are you even looking for a man? If a man wants you, trust me he will find you; you don’t have to go chase him to your corner he will come on his own.
Have you ever watched the discovery channel, when a cheetah is haunting for a prey? They scoop the scenery out and they pick one prey they know that they should be able to catch, they watch the prey, they follow the prey and then bam they pounce on it! That’s how a man hunts! A bit graphic but don’t worry he will be gentle. He will watch how you talk, dress and get to know as much as he can from afar to see if you’re the right one for him. If he doesn’t come for you then he either didn’t like what he saw or he knows you’re not the right one for him; and it’s okay because that’s a blessing. As a black cat you should never go after someone who doesn’t love or value you, you need to walk away and find better. He doesn’t call you? Then someone else will call you, he doesn’t take you out then let someone else take you out.
Just like the men are entitled to chase women, as a woman you are entitled to prioritize yourself.
black cat energy features:
- she’s mysterious, you never really know much about her. You know whatever she tells you or whatever she shows you. She’s not at every party dancing with every guy; you might never see her often unless you make an effort to see her.
- she knows her worth; she is not running after every man. Have fun though, you can have your fling but never get to attached just know when to walk away.
- she dressed to kill; this woman knows what clothes fit her body type and what hairstyle goes with her face. Experiment with yourself, try different makeup and different hairstyles.
- she doesn't get jealous of any woman about her man, jealousy is when you are insecure and she's not, if you know no woman can take your place then what do you have to worry about? then if a woman successfully take your place, then good riddance.
- she's the power couple; she looks good, and her man looks good! that's what I want :) when I stand next to my man, I want the room to shake because we just look so good together.
Having black cat energy is not about making men suffer but it's about prioritizing yourself and having self-respect.
rule number one: never get too attached to the point where you don't know when to walk away, always be ready to say goodbye because nothing is promised.
He is not yours forever and unless he puts a ring on it, he cannot stick it in.
Have your fun but never let him have too much power over you, be ready to take your attention and affection back when it's not being reciprocated.
Maybe that's why I am single because I never let any man play with me, I will quickly block you and act like you never existed. I barely give men any time of my day! I would give someone attention for a bit then stop because I'm over it... but just: DO NOT PLAY WITH ME!
have options: if you are not in a relationship then you aren't tied to anyone. You can talk to anyone you want and flirt back but once you get in a relationship all of that has to stop. Save it for your man. Never stay loyal to a man who doesn't ask you to be his girlfriend if he's allowed to date whoever he wants then so can you.
here's a playlist below to ignite that black cat energy:
https://open.spotify.com/playlist/33YTbbajOorh4WJN6TYkGu?si=8sTBBAZ5SPiu8_SfYn7TrQ&pi=u-uKwI-mNXSSuS
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