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Some things I learn about men over the years.
- They don’t need an eternity to know you’re the one. In fact they need less than a month to know wow I want to date this girl. If you find yourself as a woman making excuses for him, saying things like he just needs time to know what he wants. You’re wrong. Men have three categories they put women: the girl I want to marry, the girl I want to date while I find the one, and the girl I just want to sleep with.
- How to know in which category you’re in? let me explain. If he wants to marry you he will talk about the future not only that but he will include you in it. He will introduce you to his family and he will want to get know your family. He might even invest in you financially he might do things like joint bank accounts, buy you a car, pay for your bills… but if he is just dating you for now: he might never focus on the future or even include you in anything but some despicable men will actually make false promises he might even pretend to want to marry you but his actions will always tell you otherwise. Words mean nothing my dear, it’s what he does you should believe. He might even introduce you to his family but he might not care too much about yours yes he may talk to them but deep down he knows it doesn’t mean much. Does he just hang out with you when he has free time? Or does he make time for you? Does he make some sort of sacrifices for you? Does he compromise for you? When you tell him what you want does he follow through? Does he listen to you? Do you feel that he understands you? Do you feel like the connection is fading away at times? Do you go hours or even a day without a word from him ? Does he tell you he loves you often? Answer those questions truthfully and remember if he saw you as his wife he would make all the efforts in the world to keep you, to make you happy and to stay in your life. If he just wants to sleep with you, he will be very direct. He might tell you or you might know by the way he act around you. He won’t make plans with you unless it’s to sleep with you, he won’t talk about the future, he won’t even introduce you to his family, he won’t go out with you in broad daylight, the hang outs won’t go past the bedroom. He won’t even tell you much about himself and he won’t even want to get to know you. He just wants one thing but he might pretend to care in the beginning but after he gets what he wants he might not even pick up your call or even answer your text, or he might ghost you entirely.
- Know what you want ladies. Before he put you in any category put yourself where you want to belong in his life and if he doesn’t put you in that place then leave. If you want to be a wife then act like it, don’t sleep with him ( I’m a Jehovah witness I won’t sleep with anyone I’m not married to but temptation will always be around us so be careful) don’t let him drag you along, ask him what he wants early, by his answer you will know if you’re wasting your time. If he says things like “oh I don’t know let just see how it goes” or “ I’m not ready for a relationship right now” then believe him in most cases when they say I’m not ready for a relationship the with you is silent. As I said in the beginning men don’t need a lot of time to know whether or not they want to date you. If he says “ I like you” and there’s no but then stick around a little more.
- If you just want to sleep with him. I would always advise you not to because feelings gets crossed and you might end up falling for him because as a woman your emotions are heightened and you can’t just let someone inside you and not feel anything. Some women are able to do that but it either they are in love with someone else so they sleep with you to pass the time while they wait for the man they really want or they’re a different breed.
- I am a virgin who has never dated anyone lol but I know a lot of things. Men always think I don’t know much because I look so innocent but baby I know a lot of things about you and that’s why I don’t date just anyone.