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2025-04-28T20:27:07+02:00

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I think the biggest misconception about me is that I am always talking to a man or I must be in a relationship. I am not a player! I don't talk to men I don't have interest in. I always tell any men I am not interested in that we're friends, if he got another idea then it's not my fault.  

I hold myself at high value, it's a privilege to be at close proximity of me because when I go on dates, I don't even let any of them touch me or hold my hand. If I let a guy touch me just know I truly trust him because I don't let any man touch me ... I can count on one hand who kissed me or even touch my face I barely use my whole hand! not even half my fingers!! I am super private, if I give you a little bit of power cherish it because I am one in a lifetime. 

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2025-04-28T16:22:02+02:00

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Never thought I would be able to move on from you,

to get rid of you in mind I thought only death could set me free.

I no longer crave you, I stopped dreaming of you.

You are an almost after thought. 

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2025-04-28T14:27:40+02:00

freestyle

Publié par Gaelle.R

This is everything I have been thinking those past few days and probably months. Some of my thoughts are weird and hard to comprehend so I always have to either write them down to make sense of it or just ignore them. During my luteal phase I have a lot of depressive thoughts but as soon as I am out of it I am back to being happy, carefree and independent. I hate the luteal phase! thank God it's over; all last week I was going through it and now I am back to normal. 

  • I cannot imagine me being in a relationship because all of my life I've always been single, what if I go on a date that actually matters! all the dates I have been on I knew he wasn't the one but I went because I was bored or because I wanted free food lol especially if he made the reservation at a place that I think I will like then I will go. But what if I go on a date and I find out Gosh he is the one I want! then what? now I have someone to talk to? do I call him or does he call? what If I want alone time? ugh what if he's clingy or worse what if I become clingy and he's ignoring me!!!! gosh I love being alone so much I don't know how I will process being with someone. I will have to rewire my brain and change my way of thinking because I have been alone for a long time, and I am used to it.
  • I hate those old school rnb that only sing about desperate love, ugh they give me a headache... why does it always have to be a sad love song? why can't she just be happy in a loving relationship well I guess that's boring and less drama. Those heartbreak love song drive me over the edge, I want to tell them to cut it out and just move on. There's not only one person, you can in fact fall in love again. I don't know everything is straight forward with me it's either I love you or I don't, it's either we're together or we're just friends. i don't believe in situationships or in between love... I don't have time to overthink it. If I have to overthink, I will choose to move on because it's not clear enough.

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2025-04-23T23:57:52+02:00

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Madrid.

 

Real Madrid was eliminated out of the champions league last week and I was devastated. I wasn’t able to talk about it because I was really disappointed. My gym bros took it easy on me because they saw how sad I was. One of them even gave me a hug lol. I was so down after they got eliminated, but I am okay now. I kinda knew that they might get eliminated but I was hoping for a miracle? 

 

Maybe next year they will win the champions league again, they do have 15 trophies but I just want one more for my baby Mbappé because he has none 😩 that’s why I wanted them to win! Just so Mbappé can have a champions league trophy because that’s all he doesn’t have. 

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2025-04-23T23:52:51+02:00

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Luteal phase is kicking my butt this month! I’m just soooo exhausted but thank God I am able to work out but I feel nauseous. All this and men just get to live? I am in fact pissed that I have to go through all this while men just live their lives in peace. 

 

This afternoon I feel like 2 months pregnant because I am soooo bloated I feel like passing out. Everything disgust me! I hate everyone and everything. I want space. Ugh I can’t stand this 

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2025-04-21T16:14:23+02:00

months update

Publié par Gaelle.R

People born those months and what I think about them:

* This is not about astrology or zodiac signs (I don't believe in that) this is about people's personalities affiliated by the months they were born in or what they have in common with other people born that month... I know a good amount of people and even if they were born on the same month they have different personalities or way of doing things

January: They are outgoing, a little pushover when it comes to their romantic relationships. They love to have fun, a little crazy but fun to be around. we get along just fine.

February: they are very attractive but something about them doesn't feel right. They're sneaky, a little judgmental, maybe a little fake? but they're nice for the most part.

march: they are very creative, they are both extroverted and introverted, they are kinda weird and that's why we get along lol.

may: I love people born in may, they're homebodies, very chill, very smart, we always get along, but their anger usually comes out of nowhere. They can be a little lazy, but they are hard-working people weird lol, I guess they work hard when they want to

June: I get along well with those people because they are very outgoing, but I never know what they're thinking. they're 2 faced sometimes

July: I get along with them, but we argue a lot, these people always find me interesting (not sure if it's in a positive way) they're a little selfish when they don't like you, super outgoing, very beautiful people and they are very confident, they can be disrespectful because their ego is so big, they are very dramatic! but they can be sweet. I've never experienced their good sides because they don't like me. Surprisingly We have a lot in common but they always think they're better than me lol some things we have in common: we're obsessed about our appearance (mine is not as pronounce as theirs but I like looking good) we have no patience, no BS, get annoyed quickly, playful (they're more playful than me), confident, selfish with our time (we only give our time to people who value it), we love the finer things in life. 

August: They're very chill, dry sense of humor, very organized... a little boring but we do get along.

September: they're very chill, perfectionist, usually love to read books... I get along with them but they're a little boring at times.

October: ___ not sure lol

November: I love people born that month, we get along well, we have the same sense of humour. They're fun but at times I don't understand them... we have good debates. They are unique.

December: I get along with my fellow born December people, they are outgoing, can be shy but it's all an act lol. They're easy going, doesn't care as much but they can be empathetic when they want to be. Super sensitive, love to laugh and joke. Never want to go out at first but when they do, they normally have lots of fun, they love hanging out with only selected few people, not trusting they are always on their guard. Not easily influence, hate commitments, love their freedom... Business like even when in love because it is an investment and we do not play when it comes to love (people get shocked about how serious we are when it comes to love because we're usually fun and going with the flow when it's just a hook up or not that important) we can be rude and judgmental but not to everyone just a selected few lol we don't play when our heart or money is on the line

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2025-04-19T19:00:43+02:00

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Relationship and where I’m at. 

 

I will do it for the right person but he needs to be patient with me.

 

I am currently on my healing journey and finding joy by just existing. I don’t like it when people expect a lot from me because I am not always available or able to give what they are asking.First and foremost I just cannot be in a relationship with someone I just met I need time. some people believe in love at first sight! Well I don’t I believe in love at first signs of being comfortable with each other and that usually happens after a while of knowing someone.

 I can’t be with someone who wants communication every hour of the day! I will talk to you daily but what do you mean I always  have to call you on my way to work or on my way home ! I need space to be happy alone. I do believe too much communication and attention takes away the mystery and the excitement in the relationship. I will talk to you at the end of the day and I will update you throughout the day with a text if you want to know but I’m not going to stay on the phone with you the whole day! Dude I have a life. I use my phone a lot more during the week days but during the week end I am always super busy. You would think that I’ll be more available during the week end because I’m home and I’ll be busier during the week because I am working but not really! My screen time is higher during the week days. On the weekends I have to buy all the things I will need for the week, work out, go out in field service, meal prep, do my laundry, clean, watch my shows or movies, play video games, watch football matches, nap and if my cats have vet appointments I need to get them ready for it and that’s a whole process. I barely look at my phone during the weekend because I am busy! Imagine me with a clingy man, it just simply won’t work. I need someone who doesn’t need me every second of the day, who has a life because I have one. Who’s busy just like me because if he’s free all the time he will want to keep talking to me and I am not free all the time!  He needs to respect my boundaries and listen to me when I say stop or when I say I don’t want to do something. If you don’t like my boundaries then find someone else, I’m not clingy. I’m always ready to say goodbye, I am not attached to anyone because that’s my way of living. 

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2025-04-19T16:00:42+02:00

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Freestyle 

 

Let’s talk about the danger of simply working out to get a summer body because it’s 2 months away or however months is that:  what are you going to do when you get the body you want for the summer and then summer is over ? Yes you’ve accomplished your goal but does that mean you can go back to eating all the wrong foods and gain all the weight back? It shouldn’t mean that but some people only work out when they have an event or when summer is close. To get a nice body it takes months and years of hard work. You won’t get everything in one month, when you work out say you are doing it for your future self don’t just do it for an occasion. What if you don’t get the body you want by summer? Then you will hate working out and you might even give up because in your mind you’re thinking what’s the point? But you just needed to work out a bit more and with a little more dedication. The food that you eat outside of  the gym matters! You have to meal prep and stop eating out depending on what your goal is. When you cook your own meals and you follow through with your meal prep you will be healthier and you will lose a ton of weight.

Look up recipes for healthy foods to lose fat and gain muscles. 

 

  • I hate it when I just meet a guy and we bond over something it can be the gym or football or anything  and then boom you’re asking me if I see a future with us in less then a week?! I’m sorry am I a prophetess? I can’t see the future my dude. I am really slow when it comes to love, it may take me 1 year to fall in love or it may even take me 6 months. I don’t fall in love with looks or anything superficial it’s a little deeper than that. I look at your personality, the way you live your life… among other things. And please leave me alone when I’m trying to cut you off, we just met it shouldn’t be that hard for you to let me go. Leave me alone, I gave you 1 week free trial and you blew it. On to the next…

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2025-04-18T02:37:50+02:00

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Sometimes I sit through the disrespect but I am not weak for staying, if that person meant a lot to me I would listen and let their words cut me like knives in order for me to cut them out of my life for good without feeling bad. I always need a good reason to cut someone I love out of my life it makes the process easier. I won’t take any revenge, or beg anyone to treat me right I will simply leave. 

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2025-04-17T17:28:04+02:00

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A while ago someone told me I am too focus on myself, that person wasn't wrong but who else was I supposed to focus on? I am not clueless about other people's need, I help others when they need it, but I am also aware that I cannot help anyone if my cup is empty. Who am I supposed to pour all of my resources on? last time I checked I don't have a kid nor am I married; therefore, I need to invest in myself and in my future. yes, I am my priority, I have to make sure that I am healthy and well taken care of.

Being focus on yourself is not a problem but being obsessed with your appearance and being overly self-absorbed is a problem. As long as you can be empathetic and help others then you should also practice self-care. when I focus on other people I get really depressed because that's when I start comparing my progress to other people's progress and truly comparison is the thief of joy. when I focus on me, I can see my strength and where I am lacking. I get even happier when I take care of myself and you can see the difference between when I really pay attention to my wellbeing and when I don't take care of myself mentally, spiritually and physically I feel lost, unmotivated, not grounded and prone to repeating the same mistakes over and over again. Working out for me is a form of self-care and I absolutely need it for my mental health. I don't think I can date someone who doesn't work out because it will interfere with my gym schedule and I hate it when people don't take that in consideration, going to the gym is not a hobby it's a must for me! and someone who also work out will understand how important that is. He doesn't have to be a gym Bro and he doesn't even have to work out as much as I do but at least he needs to work out weekly not just once a month. someone who doesn't align with you will never make a great partner.

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