No bread will ever be baked from this dough

2023-12-07T11:37:29+01:00

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Publié par Gaelle.R 7 Décembre 2023 à 11:37 AM

Big personality.

You either love me or you can’t stand me but either way I will always remain who I am and I will never change to fit your standards unless I want to change. I didn’t think I had a big personality but someone told me “oh yes you have one! You always do what you want! You are stubborn and no one can get through you unless you like them; you never afraid to stand up for what you believe in !”

I was like oh ok! Lol

But I recently got in contact with a childhood friend and she told me “wow you never change! You still the same Gaëlle that I knew when we were little kids even after all these years! You still hate to hang out with people, you still love animals, you still have high standards, and you’re never afraid to be different.”

The point in all those testimony is to show you, I never cared about what people thought of me even if I pretend to care but at the end of the day when I get home I don’t think about it. I don’t care who doesn’t like me or who will never like me because I will meet a ton of people regardless. I will not be less of a person if you don’t like me, I am never afraid to cut anyone out of my life (no one is safe).

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2023-12-07T11:37:02+01:00

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Publié par Gaelle.R 7 Décembre 2023 à 11:37 AM

It’s true that when I am comfortable with someone I will let myself be free, I will be loud and turn into this happy person lol and you may ask yourself “is she on something or is she okay?” I can assure you that I am fine! I’m just excited to be with you ;)

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2023-12-05T16:41:37+01:00

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Publié par Gaelle.R 5 Décembre 2023 à 04:41 PM

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2023-12-04T16:38:20+01:00

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Publié par Gaelle.R 4 Décembre 2023 à 04:38 PM

Literally me when I am playing video games lol, I love to be comfortable with snacks all around me... Archie loves to hang out with me when I play.

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2023-12-04T15:56:16+01:00

Beauty tips winter edition.

Publié par Gaelle.R 4 Décembre 2023 à 03:56 PM

I personally love winter because my skin looks better, and I am happier. What a contrast! usually people get sad in the winter because of daylight saving time and the temperature is too cold for some outdoor activities, well I thrive in it because I hate being invited to things I don't want to go to so now I can say "omg it's so cold can we reschedule" or I could just not show up and when they ask me why I didn't I can say "Gee it was so dark outside, I took a nap or it was snowing and I didn't want to drive." If my someone I like and I am comfortable invite me to something, then of course I will go but if you're just an acquaintance then no. Okay back to beauty tips...

During the winter the air is cold and dry so make sure your hair, skin and lips are moisturized.

for skin: Use a gentle face wash that doesn't dry out your skin, make sure to use moisturizing lotion or serum to keep your skin from drying. Don't wash face too much throughout the day. also ALWAYS WEAR SUNSCREEN, the worse mistake any of us could make is not wearing sunscreen daily especially if we walk outside a lot.
for hair: I have a curly afro, so my hair gets dry faster than someone with straight or wavy hair. I am always big on moisturizing my hair because I have a hair color in it, which is growing out. I usually deep conditioned my hair weekly regardless of the time of the year to keep my hair healthy and moisturized. I recommend deep conditioning weekly in the winter because of the weather, also do the LOC method which is done on damp hair usually after a wash day to loc in the moisture use a leave in conditioner, Oil, and a curling cream. Mini twist is great around that time, hair wraps, protective styling like braids are very good but make sure to moisturize your hair every 2 days in those braids (don't just forget about it)
lips: always use a ChapStick, lip gloss especially in the winter. I love using the Carmex lip balm because it keeps my lips from cracking, I have pink lips but if I don't scrub off the dead skin then my lips will look brown, I have to use a lip scrub to keep it juicy and plumped :)
mental health: I still get sad during the holidays (which is why I am taking a vacation next week :))) that was my bif surprise lol) to help with the sadness, I journal talk to my mom. sleep well, eat well, stay hydrated, stay away from people who makes me sad or people who use me (I always find those people who are narcissist, I stay away from them) I usually run away from them. Go see a therapist if needed (I need one lol) I found a man! he is really cool, but I will be sure of this after my first consultation on Friday. He is a little far but I am willing to drive there in person if we connect.
To keep your sanity: don't worry about what people think of you, focus on your journey, do things that makes you happy, laugh as much as you can, make new friends that suit you, travel, eat good food, take lots of pictures... never rush anything and always stay true to yourself.
The winter is a fashion show for me! this is my time to show how much I love dressing up and how far I can take it :)

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2023-12-04T02:39:15+01:00

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Publié par Gaelle.R 4 Décembre 2023 à 02:39 AM

“ never be an option always and forever be a privilege, put yourself first and don’t apologize for that.”

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2023-12-03T17:22:04+01:00

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Publié par Gaelle.R 3 Décembre 2023 à 05:22 PM

Télécharger « I Almost Got Married Recording.mp3 »

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2023-12-03T13:07:40+01:00

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Publié par Gaelle.R 3 Décembre 2023 à 01:07 PM

How to detach from someone.

When I detach from someone that person no longer exist to me. Because I see myself as the main character in my story you can only exist if I want you there (I am a writer so it’s only fitting) I even forget the names or anything that they told me. When I have to detach to someone is usually when I realize their time in my life is done or I tested them multiple times and they failed constantly. I know that it is no one’s job to make me happy or to give me what I want. It is my job to make myself happy and to give myself what I deserve.

If someone is not treating you well, you have to remind yourself that you have 2 choices: you can either stay and endure the treatment hoping that things will change one day or you can walk away and give yourself the love that you deserve while you wait for the right person to love you better.

There is more to life than a relationship, you have to remember that the only way for you to find yourself is alone. No one is going to come and save you; you have to be strong and create the best environment for you to thrive.

If someone doesn’t appreciate you or chose someone else over you then walk away, that person never deserve you. When you can’t be friends with someone or can’t have any type of relationship with someone it normally means that this person is not the one for you; which is okay because we were all made for someone or for a purpose.

Keep working hard, travel the world, meet new people, open up your horizon, meet people from different countries and see how your life will change !

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2023-12-03T01:16:57+01:00