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2023-10-02T14:31:17+02:00
Kinks and curls
I have my mother's kinks and my father's curls; I have African blood running through my veins and Afro-eccentric features. I have Harriet Tubman's bravery and Rosa Parks' stubbornness; who are you to tell me that black is not beautiful when an entire history is represented through my skin and a beautiful crown residing on top of my head that defies the laws of gravity?
2023-10-01T21:33:24+02:00
i feel much better today :) also how cute is Selie? Her name is also Selena !!
2023-09-30T20:14:34+02:00
2023-09-30T19:59:39+02:00
Mental health.
It is never a straight line for me when it comes to my emotions, it’s always been a roller coaster but one thing that has helped me is knowing my triggers. For example, I know on my period I hate everyone, I cry a lot, I feel like it’s the end of the world… so I don’t let my emotions get the best of me because I know it’s just my hormones causing all these issues.
Some days I am happy, other days I feel so exhausted and ready to give up. I may make plans with you while I am happy and then cancel when I get sad please be patient with me I really don’t have it in me to go past my limit. I am going through a lot and going through a lot of changes, mourning the loss of a friend, and moving from missed opportunities but at the same time I am happy. Perhaps I am depressed and I just don't want to admit it but I feel fine even when I cry.
Things get to me a little deeper than some people, nothing is simple for me! I overthink everything. A person not saying hi to me can cause me to feel invisible and start crying; yes I know that the fact that I cried shows that I am seeking validation from others but we’ve all done it. I am better at not letting things get to me but things like the death of a person that I knew really get to me. I should speak up but I do nothing. I just let myself feel the sadness hoping that somehow one day it will get better.
2023-09-30T19:38:58+02:00
Funeral.
Today is the day I said goodbye to you for the last time, it feels like a dream and I miss you a lot already. I am sorry you suffered so much, I will always think of you and love you forever.
Until we see each other again in paradise❤️
2023-09-30T03:41:56+02:00
2023-09-30T02:03:34+02:00
2023-09-29T15:18:53+02:00
these are some things people have said to me and my thoughts while they were being said.
my thoughts: I don't care about all that, I love cats and I am obsessed with them and 3 is enough for me. They all have different personalities, and they are not the same. If you are not paying my bills and taken care of me then you cannot tell me how to spend my money. I choose what I want in life, and I want to own 3 cats, so I am doing just that so respectfully mind your business. You have no idea how much my cats have brought me so much joy and helping my mental health. I don't care about your opinions, and I will never care.
2. how come you're broke today?
well try doing everything on your own, you would be broke too! try buying groceries weekly to eat healthy! cat food! paying rent! paying electricity, paying car! paying health insurance! yh and on top of that paying for a vacay you'd be broke too trust me.
3 why are you so quiet?
Uhm I am not, If I am then I probably have nothing to say or I don't like you.
2023-09-29T03:50:31+02:00
2023-09-27T23:35:49+02:00
After watching so many crime series, I will need a background check before I date you and I am not playing because oh my God. If I have daughters I will also need their boyfriend background checks as well.
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