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2023-09-18T17:22:29+02:00

beauty tips.

Publié par Gaelle.R

These are things that I have been trying lately, you are free to choose any of those tips if you want.

  • stop touching my face; this one of the bad habits I want to get rid of because I keep touching my face a squeezing stuff on my face I have been breaking out on the left side of my face but it is improving now because I don't touch my face anymore or at least I try not to because touching your face will cause breakouts and worsen it if you already struggle with acne. SO, Paws and hands off LOL. I mean I knew better my dermatologist advise me not to touch my face but of course I didn't listen.
  • drink more water. I am doing much better I drink about 64 oz of water a day and it has been helping my skin as well as my hair. It really helps flushing out toxins and improve my overall health.
  • wearing out my hair more, the fact that I wear my hair out everywhere that I go has really helped my self-confidence and I fell in love with my hair more; I really take my time to take care of it and I am proud of all the growth because last year at this time I couldn't even put my hair in a bun and not it's on my shoulders! like what???! but my hair do shrink a lot so unless I stretch it no one will know the true length of my hair. 
  • Getting my toes done, I do my own toes; I don't really like getting it done at the nail salon because I had a bad experience. I have been keeping up with doing them monthly or as often as I can; it makes me feel clean and girly.

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2023-09-18T04:14:55+02:00

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Publié par Gaelle.R

 

My red flags in a talking stage or in a relationship.

  • If we just started talking and you never ask me how I’m doing, after 2 days I’m leaving you on read. Because at this point you clearly showing me that you don’t want to know about my well-being but that’s okay I will just leave because there are some people who are begging to know how I am. 
  • If we are in a relationship why are you responding to girls dms who want to get to know you! Like are you looking for something else because clearly I’m the love of your life or are you trying to tell me something? Like it’s time for you to go because at this point the minute you’re replying to other girls you are cheating on me.
  • You touch me without my consent. I don’t like being touch especially when I am not expecting it. If I want you to touch me you will know, if I want a hug from you, I will initiate it. Don’t touch me on the first date! I don’t do all that. 
  • You are on your phone the whole time we’re together. Listen I am losing my patience more and more each day if I get the slightest hint that you don’t want to talk to me I will leave and I will not regret it. ( at this point in my life I don’t care much about men I just want to be happy and travel, but the fact that I am giving you my time you need to appreciate it just like I appreciate you when you give me your time.) 
  • You don’t remember my name! Wow let’s end it right now lol before we get into something. 
  • You don’t compliment me, and you don’t appreciate the little things I do for you. Well that’s my cue to go, have fun because the vibes are off and I don’t have time to beg you for anything. But wait before I go will talk to you about the issue but if you don’t change it then I’m done.

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2023-09-17T06:13:47+02:00

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Publié par Gaelle.R

 

Each of My cats and their story. 

why did I get each of them? 

 

Each cat that I own has a back story and I connected with them on a deeper level before I agree to bring them home.

 

Archie: I got him in 2021 when I was extremely depressed and my face was breaking out really bad. My self esteem was really low, I hated looking at myself in the mirror or in pictures; I would cry myself to sleep and I felt sooo alone around that time. I have been looking for a kitten since 2018 but every time I thought I found one the cat either got adopted or ran away. I thought I was sooo unlucky so I gave up, then came January of 2021 my cousin’s wife ask me if I wanted a kitten out of nowhere and she showed me pictures of the cutest kittens I have ever seen! I was like yes! I want one and she gave me the phone number of the person selling the kittens. I set up a time for pick up and I remember this day very well! I went to pick Archie up 2 hours away from my house on a Saturday; I was super excited and I brought a pineapple bed for him so that I could tuck him inside but would still be able to pet him while I drive :) Archie slept the whole ride home and he was very quiet. I fell in love with this beautiful kitten right away, I brought him in my room and he would always stays in my room with me every time I come home from work.

Archie’s life: I started to notice that he would attack my hands when I touch his tail and I didn’t know the reason behind it until one day I paid close attention and I realize that his tail was broken! And immediately I understood his pain because he suffered a traumatic event as a baby and somehow his tail got broken. I stopped trying to touch his tail and let him choose when I could touch it because he started to trust me more and would whack me With his beautiful tail for me to touch it in a way that was him telling me «  hey it’s okay you can touch my tail » because he suffered as a baby that made me love him even more and understood his pain. He also struggle to trust others, he loves being alone but he’s really sweet and affectionate when he wants to be. I have to give him space because he does not like too much attention. 

 

Pixie: I know the exact date and time pixie was born because Archie’s sister is his mother; when I first saw pixie I fell in love with him out of all his siblings because he had a huge forehead lol and I remember when I was a kid people use to tease me about my forehead but I did grow into it. Pixie is really weird but I love him because of that ! We are alike lol he does his own thing! He loves to play, he sits weird ! He’s extremely nice and cuddly; he is the cutest and the easiest cat. I love him

Sooooo much! I love his little face and he has the softest fur coat. 

 

Selie: I got her recently but when I met her I fell in love instantly because she was the odd one. Her owner told me that she was not affectionate, doesn’t like being picked up and she’s always in her own little world ( just like me!) she is actually really sweet and she is affectionate when she trust you. I love her because she is exactly like me! You would think that she’s not nice or not affectionate but she is the sweetest! She loves to play with pixie and she is very patient with Archie. She’s extremely independent, she eats when she wants to and do things when she feels like it. I got her because she is just like me and I love it lol 

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2023-09-15T16:51:16+02:00

facts

Publié par Gaelle.R

a couple things

  • if I am mad at you, leave me alone; yelling at me or wanting to talk when I tell you that I need some space will not be good for you. I am not the type to yell at you or to even curse you out I am the type that just ACT. When I act, I don't think, and you will not expect it so please leave me alone. I will calm down but don't pressure me to talk just give me space to process my emotions and to make a decision. When I am mad, I am scary because you have no idea what I will do and I am quiet, even I am scared for the person when I am mad. But before I do anything I will tell you in a very calm voice " please leave me alone or I don't want to talk right now" or I might just walk away from you; and don't follow me. 
  • if I am sad and I tell you to leave me alone; DON'T that's the only time you shouldn't... if I don't want to talk and I am crying or about to cry just stay with me and we don't have to talk. You can also hold me, even if I act like I am pushing you away, stay with me I just don't like crying in front of people. Your presence will mean a lot because when I am alone while I am sad, it's never good. To be honest I am always alone when I am sad, no one really care to stay with me so your presence will touch me a lot.

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2023-09-15T03:41:14+02:00

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Publié par Gaelle.R

A dear friend of mine died recently of cancer, I have not seen him in such a long time. I knew he was suffering last week end… I wasn’t ready to let him go or to see him go. It hurts to know that he was in sooo much pain, he was the most beautiful man I ever met. I was writing a story and his name was one of the main characters. He was so beautiful inside and out, so gentle, his voice was sooo smooth… he will always part of me because at 14 he was the center of my life…. Can’t believe he’s gone. It hurts, I can’t sleep…

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