No bread will ever be baked from this dough

2024-06-30T19:31:13+02:00

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Publié par Gaelle.R 30 Juin 2024 à 07:31 PM

One of the reasons why I hate summer is because my hair does not thrive in that hot and Humid weather. Don’t get me wrong my hair still looks good and I still love it but I feel like the humidity shrinks my hair too much! I simply won’t wear braids or wigs in the summer because it is way too hot. Sure I could wear a short wig or short braids but I don’t want to do that anymore.

I want to love myself for who I am, I don’t want to add any fake hair on my head anymore even if I struggle with how I want to style my hair in the summer I still won’t hide it under fake hair. I don’t detangle my hair more than 2 times a week, I only do it like once a week on my wash day which is on Sundays. I usually have my hair in mini twist half of the time and I love it :)

As I said before synthetic hair does not agree with me because my scalp itch a lot when I wear braids and I can’t leave it longer than 3 weeks. For me to spend 100 of dollars to only unbraid my hair in less than a month is wicked! I feel like the more I wear fake hair the more I hate the sight of my hair and I actually love myself and all of my flaws.

I am more confident, more appreciative of my quirks and weirdness :) I think I am a very unique individual. At first I may be quiet but I am only observing you… later on you will see the beast ;)

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2024-06-30T13:35:13+02:00

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Publié par Gaelle.R 30 Juin 2024 à 01:35 PM

« i am a sigma woman so no I don’t need you, I want you but I’m fine being alone.”

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2024-06-29T18:24:38+02:00

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Publié par Gaelle.R 29 Juin 2024 à 06:24 PM

Bulking vs not bulking.

You didn’t ask but I’m still telling you my fitness journey anyway.

Bulking in fitness terms is basically someone consuming a lot more calories to gain more muscles. I am not bulking right now but rather I am on a weight loss journey. I am eating less and working out more.

I am trying to lose all the excess fat before I start my bulking journey. I will look thinner this summer but no worries in the fall I will start bulking! So that ass is gonna be fat again lol.

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2024-06-29T01:13:10+02:00

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Publié par Gaelle.R 29 Juin 2024 à 01:13 AM

Who watched the presidential debate last night?!

First let me say this as a full disclaimer i do not support any political parties, i am neutral and I will not be voting for any man to rule this country because I don’t think anyone would actually be able to do a good job or abolish death or hunger which is our number 1 problem. But the debate was so entertaining I mean Trump was himself and no one was shocked when he made that erection joke! The one about knocking on a wood… anyways I can say that I am extremely shocked to see president Biden looked sooo dead! I mean this guy is showing signs of dementia ! The far away look and the fact that someone had to escort him off stage says a lot! Otherwise we know he would stumble and fall!

Both men were old but one of them looked already dead! I mean who’s really running this country because I really don’t think it’s Biden ! There’s just no way. At one point Trump had to say publicly that he did not have sex with a porn star while his wife was pregnant at a presidential debate which tells you everything you need to know. Both men was taking jab at each other and it kept going the whole debate! No one really answer the questions that were asked! Everyone was defensive it was a mess !

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2024-06-28T16:34:05+02:00

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Publié par Gaelle.R 28 Juin 2024 à 04:34 PM

I've been really angry lately because I feel like no one is listening to me and I don't like being ignored, there are two things I hate most in life it's being ignored or not heard and not being in control. I hate it when people decide for me, I will rebel in ways no one would think I would. I am frustrated and angry...

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2024-06-23T04:44:35+02:00

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Publié par Gaelle.R 23 Juin 2024 à 04:44 AM

Believe all woman ?

There’s this saying going online with people insisting that we should believe all women when they come forward and accuse someone of abusing them in any sort of way. But we all saw what happened at the trial for defamation between Amber heard and Johnny Depp which showed Amber was the abuser, I am not saying Johnny was a saint but I don’t think he was abusing Amber physically to the extinct that she claimed if at all.

With all of those allegations against big names in Hollywood more and more women are coming forward to say what happened to them and some of them are looking for a big payday, some of those women only has one picture with the person to show that they really know this person and then they claimed that person abused them. I am not going to believe anyone right off the bat without proof! I need some sort of proof to show me that what you’re saying really happened. For Cassie we all saw that video that CNN released so what more proof do you need? Right and for Jonathan majors we saw the text messages between him and his girlfriend, we saw videos and pictures of what happened. When a woman just film a tiktok video claiming that someone abused them it doesn’t mean anything if they don’t show any proof! That person can sue them for defamation if they don’t have any proof. So my thing is for anyone who wants to file a police report or come forward with any confession about how someone took advantage of them or abused them that person needs solid evidence. They can’t arrest anyone without proof of wrongdoings. I am not in the practice of believing all women. Sure we are in fact the weakest link but some of us are very manipulative.

In some instance some women do not have any proof and maybe the abuse happened a long time ago and when they come forward they don’t have any proof, that does not mean that they are lying but just know that you might not be reimbursed or get any Justice because of what was done to you. The only option might be to discuss this with a trusted friend or seek therapy and move on with your life. But if you are making tiktok videos all day about that abuse hoping to get any sort of support or Justice that may not happened if you don’t have any proof. I do believe that the more you speak about all the bad things that happened to you in the past the more you are keeping the bad memories alive and the more you are holding yourself back from a happier life. Move on love.

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2024-06-23T04:12:35+02:00

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Publié par Gaelle.R 23 Juin 2024 à 04:12 AM

My thoughts, and I will always be respectful. This teacher below at an elementary school went viral because of those pictures below.

Don’t get me wrong this woman is a beautiful curvy woman, and a parent took a picture of her in the classroom and posted it to her social media. She is teaching at an elementary school, do I think what she is wearing is appropriate for a teacher? No not at all! Actually I don’t think it’s appropriate at all to be wearing tight fitting clothes like that if you have all that cake back there, it draws a lot of attention. But then again I am a Christian and I don’t dress like that but in a professional setting I think she definitely needs to wear loose fitting clothes out of respect for the other staff members and for the children as well. You don’t want to entice any weird feelings in anybody at work. I think she was trying to draw attention on her even if she claim she wasn’t but I am a woman i know! She wears a little shirt to accentuate her small waist and then she wears the most tight fitting pair of pants to show off her butt. I am not going as far as to say she doesn’t belong in a classroom because for all I know she could be a great teacher but if she was working in high school I can guarantee you she would be fired for some reasons ! Her clothes and her body being displayed like that would cause a lot of problems! It’s all about being professional and those clothes doesn’t show any form of professionalism in my opinion. Those are clothes you wear to kick it with your friends or to just run errands in not to go teach kids at an elementary school.

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2024-06-22T21:36:53+02:00

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Publié par Gaelle.R 22 Juin 2024 à 09:36 PM

Should a girl chase a man?

I’ve already answered this question and I said no I wouldn’t but there’s some exceptions. If the man has done nothing that showed me he’s interested then I am not going to set myself up for failure. But if I feel a connection and I really like the guy I would give him a few hints ( my hints are very subtle, if I’m staring at you a lot like across the room and trying to meet your eyes then yes I am hella interested because if I wasn’t trust me I wouldn’t be staring actually not always because sometimes I like the person so much I ignore him! I just can’t look at him I’ll just get all hot and bothered lol ) I would initiate a few contacts here and there but if I feel he’s not pursuing me enough then I’ll move on.

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2024-06-21T05:05:02+02:00

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Publié par Gaelle.R 21 Juin 2024 à 05:05 AM

My thoughts on Juneteenth

I want to start by saying I do not celebrate or take part in any holiday celebrations. Juneteenth to me is a joke! So because I am black I should be glad that they gave me a day to be proud of who I am? Same with black history month! I think both of those holidays came from a place of racism because you don’t give a white man a month to celebrate himself. Why do black people need the shortest month of the year or even any month in the year to feel recognized?

I don’t need a month nor a day to celebrate my life! I am grateful daily to be alive because I know at any given moments I could cease to exist so therefore I thank God daily for being alive. I don’t need a day nor a month to celebrate my blackness. Let me just say this I don’t see color! I see everyone for who they are and I do not discriminate anyone based on their race or skin color. When I am talking to someone I don’t look at what their race is, I care more about the connection and the person’s personality.

Whoever gave us Juneteenth can keep it but I’ll take the day off.

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2024-06-21T01:58:05+02:00

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Publié par Gaelle.R 21 Juin 2024 à 01:58 AM

I am not a summer girlie :( I hate the heat and I constantly have a headache during those months. Ugh and my allergies have not gone away please wrap It up I am ready for fall.

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