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For my wedding there will a questionnaire asking the guests if there’s anyone allergic to cats, if there’s someone who’s allergic well that sucks because my cats will bring me my ring so get a epipen
2024-05-25T17:43:45+02:00
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2024-05-24T18:51:12+02:00
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When it comes to me enjoy every moment because one day you could wake up blocked and never see me again.
2024-05-23T18:35:37+02:00
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How do you know you have found a good Christian significant other ?
It is hard to find a good mate even while serving Jehovah. Some people want to have fun, some people were serious at first only to change their mind later ,although that can happen even with a good mate if you weren’t prepared to date that person. But here’s a good mate … (that’s who I am trying to be for my future husband)
- Pure heart (Matthew 5:8) this person has pure intentions, they never want to hurt you or lie to you or put you in situation where they can take advantage of you. They want what’s best for you, and they are always there to support you.
- Humble ( proverbs 22:4) this person is humble in all things. They won’t flex their wealth if they have it or use their beauty to their advantage. They are laid back, you’re the one who’s noticing all the great things about that person they are not telling you. They always redirect a compliment towards God because they know whatever they possess is because Jehovah gave it to them.
- Gentle ( 2 Timothy 2: 24) this person never fight with you or anyone. They won’t abuse you physically or emotionally. They are kind, caring and always willing to help just about anyone not only you. They try to have self control in all things it may be with alcohol, food, money and entertainment or whatever it is they just know there is a time for everything and they don’t keep indulging in things that are fleeting.
- Hard working (proverbs 12:24) this person works hard for everything they have and they are not afraid to work even harder for Jehovah. This is a good trait in a man because you want a man who works hard to take care of his family. As a woman it’s good that you work hard because you won’t be bored and start indulging in things that are bad also as proverbs 10:4 states “idle hands will cause poverty” trust me you don’t want to have money problems in your marriage you both want to live a happy life ! With less stress as possible! Take vacations and enjoy each other.
- Strong (Ephesians 6:10) this person has a strong faith! You both need to be spiritually fed for the relationship to work. If you are lacking in faith which will happen at some point because we are not perfect make sure that you are with someone who’s faith can stand the test of time! As Ecclesiastes 4:10 states “For if one of them falls, the other can help his partner up”
- Dependable (proverbs 20:6) this person is faithful and loyal to you! This is huge because you want someone who you can count on and someone you can lean on. But first be that person for them.
2024-05-23T02:41:52+02:00
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Billie Eilish.
I truly love her new album! It’s genius. I love the lyrics and the sound ! I’ve been listening to this while I sleep, wake up to only listen to it again! I love her music sooo much and her brother is sooo talented! Bilie wouldn’t be who she is without Finneas (her brother)
My favorite songs are : birds of a feather, the Diner, bittersuite, chihiro, lunch, the greatest, blue
I will fall in love with the whole album I already knew it! Some songs just need a little more time to grow on me but so far I love it ;)
2024-05-22T18:58:39+02:00
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Human trafficking.
With all of the Diddy cases going around I just want to discuss this topic because people may think human trafficking has a face but it doesn’t! It could be the most beautiful girl you’ve ever seen that is being trafficked.
With this high cost of living a lot of girls are resorting in sex work to be able to afford basic human needs and some of them are getting trafficked without knowing. For example, it could be your boyfriend saying “wow we are so behind on bills I know a guy who will pay this much for you, don’t worry I will make sure nothing bad happens” next thing you know you are going to a hotel to meet this guy and then after you perfom certain acts you get your money. You might feel like you’ve accomplished something great because now you have all this money, then next thing you know they’re telling you “Pick up this bag at this location and drop it off to this person” and now you’re a drug mule. So then because you’re making all this money and you want to help other girls that are struggling financially you tell them to come to this party with you to have a good time and they’ll get paid after, so now you’re trafficking girls! I was approached once by a supposedly friend, she ask me if I wouldn’t mind going to a hotel “party” with her and she was like but there will be guys there but they’re sooo cute. Little did she know I hate going to hotels with people I don’t know and let along with men! I hated men at that time lol. I was like no thanks buy she insisted she was like “no you’re so pretty! one of them saw your Instagram and he wants to hang out with you” she showed me his picture and I was even more repulsed! I gently declined the offer but she insisted again she said” I already told him you’re coming and he’s willing to give you money or gift like luxury handbags if you want "Uhm no that sounded a lot like prostitution to my ears, then I became annoyed and I told her firmly “ please stop asking me to go with you I said I’m not going” then she stopped. At that time I was struggling financially and I could’ve accepted the offer but I value myself wayyyy too much. I could very well be trafficked if I focused on the money. It’s not always a big guy that comes and snatches you away sometimes it looks glamorous, a lot of influencers are doing sex work to maintain their lifestyle. We as an audience we are looking at those girls we might think wow she’s living a great life but no she is a slave! She is trapped! Young girls don’t understand this lifestyle. With the music they are listening to and with the “city girls” movement where it’s a great thing to find a rich man and to trick him into opening his wallet to you but at what cost? What are you giving up for that money? It’s all transactional. Please be careful who you call your friend! Never leave your drinks unattended when you’re out with friends. People will do anything nowadays to get money just so they can travel and brag online.
2024-05-22T13:53:22+02:00
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My thoughts on child influencers.
If I had a child or even a baby I wouldn’t create an Instagram for the baby because what’s the point? After watching the Nickelodeon documentary I don’t want to expose my child to any pervert on the internet.
People can distort any video or any picture to satisfy their disgusting fantasies. There’s A baby on tiktok and her mother keeps posting videos of her eating sometimes sucking on a lollipop which is innocent or a video of her drinking something while it spills… there are soooo many views on those videos and my thing is how does the mother know whether or not a child abuser is not watching those? Why are there sooo many grown men following this child? Why isn’t the account private for family members only? I would feel really uncomfortable seeing complete grown men gawking at my child or worse downloading videos of my child! I am soo protective of children because they are innocent! They are following their parent’s instructions and as a parent you have to make sure you are choosing what’s best for your child. You cannot just hope that people respect your child or protect your child for you, that’s your job!
2024-05-22T03:44:03+02:00
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Music.
I spend a lot of my times listening to music or making a playlist either for myself or for someone. I express myself with music but lately I realize that I have been listening to music that in the past I have tried to stay away from, I kinda see myself adding those forgotten songs back to my playlist. Some of those songs are degrading! explicit! I realize I am going in the wrong direction. All afternoon I have been trying to clean out my playlist and taking out songs that are not right for my ears. I advise everyone to do the same because music really has the power to corrupt your mind and your behavior. Please pay attention to what you are listening to and also what you are watching. There are very cute songs and cute movies out here that are appropriate for Christians just look for them and hold on to them.
2024-05-21T10:19:40+02:00
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Unhealthy attachments.
Recently I posted a recording although it was in French but I remember saying something in the lines of « if he gives me too much attention I won’t like him, he has to ignore me for me to fall for him » well that’s actually not true. I revisited that theory and I thought that’s what I was attracted to but turns out that’s the way to hurt me.
I don’t normally care about what people do or think of me because at this point in my life I got way too many bills to worry about whether or not a random person likes me. Ignoring me is not going to get you my heart and also giving me attention is not always going to give you my heart but just be yourself. Don’t try to play games with me, I can read between the lines and I can see you for who you are trust me. I am grown now and those games were for when I was in college. If you ignore me I’m just going to take it as a sign you don’t want me and I will just find someone who does and I always do lol.
2024-05-20T18:16:00+02:00
Not every feeling is valid.
Your emotions and feelings are important, but you don't always have to act on all of them. For example, this morning when I woke up, I felt like lying in bed all day with my cat pixie because I know he would stay with me on the bed throughout the day...but I had to go to work so guess what I did? yup exactly. I went to work, I didn't choose to lay in bed all day and sulk, I knew I had to get up and go to work if I want to afford this life.
There are many other feelings and emotions you may feel throughout your life, it may anger or love, passion or even lust...those are typical human emotions but if you stand firm on your morals, you will make the right decision. things aren't simple and life is complicated, I had a crush on a guy, and I knew this guy would ruin my life so guess what I did? I left him alone and turns out I didn't even like him lol I was just blindsided so if I did act on my first feelings which was me thinking I liked him, I would have made a big mistake! take your time when you are making decision especially in love, I've seen many people unhappy in their marriage and some have lost their lives. Some people have told me "What are you waiting for, start dating now" well If I met the right guy I would've. Never let anyone rush you, take your time.