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2024-04-09T23:21:32+02:00

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Manchester City vs Real Madrid !

 

So we meet again! I am a Manchester city fan as of last season. The team won all 3 competitions last year and it was sooo thrilling. Today was the match between them and Real Madrid and it ended 3-3. Last year we eliminated Real Madrid so I didn’t think it was going to be easy this time around. We have a new Manchester city team and a new Real Madrid team but we’re both good so who will get past the quarter finals?

 

I think Manchester city might win again but it could go either way to be honest it all depends on how the players are feeling next week. But what is going on with Haaland???! It’s like he’s nonexistent! Phil Foden had to come in and save the day; I must say Foden is becoming my favorite player now. I love Haaland but I feel like he’s going through something internally; I don’t know if it’s a break up or what it is he just doesn’t play the same. I hope he gets past whatever he’s going through because we need him next week! Thank God the team doesn’t have to rely on him but it’s great when he saves the day because he can score! He is sooo good at scoring goals but lately it’s been rare and I miss him :( I just love it when he scores it breaks my heart when I don’t see him score a goal. 

 

We love you Haaland!!! I hope he has a great support system because it can get tough for those players out there. People think it’s easy to just show up at your best everyday but it’s not sometimes all you can do is breathe. Those players often don’t open up to the public about what is going on. There was a Liverpool player who said “ I don’t have any friends, after training I just go home and stay by myself and it gets lonely” I applaud him for saying that because it is not all glitz and glitter. Sometimes you feel lonely and you may feel like you have no one to turn to. I remember when Mbappé missed his penalty in the euros in 2021 gosh he was sooo depressed ! The public criticized him and called him all types of names; he even thought about quitting the team! It gets hard for everyone so let’s all be kind. I will always love Haaland and Mbappé they are the future of football. 

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2024-04-08T13:33:38+02:00

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People who confuses me.

 

I find it sooo confusing if I am friends with someone and they’re going through something like a breakup or something sad and I tell them “hey I’m here for you if you wanna talk about it” and they tell me “no I don’t really wanna talk about it right now” lol what do you mean!? I thought we were friends! Like for me I have to talk about it if we’re friends; you’re going to clear your day and let’s go to a restaurant so that we can talk about it! I feel like I was put on this earth to share what I am going through because if I keep everything in I will go insane ! 

 

Like no come over let’s drink wine while I tell you everything! I have text messages ! Pictures! I need to tell you absolutely everything but that’s only if we’re friends. 

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2024-04-07T15:53:12+02:00

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Controversial opinion, proceed with caution.

 

In my culture a lot of parents who have their kids in America choose not to teach them our maternal language so their kids never learn to speak creole. In a way I see it as a slap in the face! In my opinion Haitian Creole is a beautiful language. There as some jokes that I make in creole  that doesn’t sound remotely funny in English, creole is a very expressive language with very few words it gets straight to the point. 

 

I believe those parents do not teach their kids creole because they think Haiti is a third world country and they will probably never go there and they are also ashamed of it… that basically teaches your kids to hate their upbringing and they might even start hating who they are because they can’t be associated with the Haitian culture while they’re not even  fully Americans because let’s face it their origine stems from another country and not the U.S. I find it beautiful when a parent chooses to teach their kids the same languages that they speak. It creates a confidence boost it shows that you are not afraid of who you are and you embrace your upbringing. We have to teach our kids to love who they are and to take great pride in it. Stop making them feel  where they came from is disgusting because Haiti is a beautiful country without all the violence and if I could go back there I would. I am proud to be Haitian and I will never be ashamed of where I come from. I will teach my kids Haitian Creole as well as French because those are the languages I speak; they can learn English in school. I want them to be fluent in all 3 languages; I will personally teach them how… we will also take vacations in France to further implement the  practice of speaking more fluently. 

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2024-04-06T23:28:09+02:00

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It’s not hard ! They lied.

 

I used to think taking care of Afro hair was hard but truly it’s not! The simpler you keep your routine the better you feel! You don’t have to spend 6hours washing your hair! It’s not needed babe you’re doing too many steps that you don’t even need to!

 All you need is a good moisturizing shampoo and a deep conditioner! then wash it and apply a leave in conditioner with oils and twist it then put it away for a couple of days. It only takes me 1 hour to wash and deep conditioned my hair. You don’t need to be detangling your hair daily! You don’t need to be braiding it daily because that’s too much manipulation. The less you do the more results you will get. You don’t have to buy a $40 shampoo ! My $14 dollar shampoo does a great job! There are great shampoos and products out there that doesn’t cost that that much that do a better job than those expensive products. Then when you use all those expensive products and you don’t see your hair reach your back then you get mad ! That’s toxic ! Our hair shrink a lot. I didn’t know how long my hair was until I blow dried it. Be patient with your hair and just take care of it as much as you can. Don’t be lazy on your wash days just do everything to seal in the moisture. I recommend washing your hair weekly to always keep it moisturized! You got this beauties ;)

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2024-04-06T19:04:01+02:00

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I can write now because I got my nails done, no I didn’t add any acrylic because that is what got me to that point. I couldn’t even write because my nails were hurting me sooo bad after I took the acrylics out. I am tired of those nail techs who don’t take any consideration of your real nails but it was my fault for choosing fake nails when I know how bad they are ruining my natural nails.

 

I’m getting to a point where fake nails and fake hair no longer appeal to me! I’m just tired of adding things that I really don’t need! Like I can take care of my own hair. And I have real nails to create cute designs with ! Why put myself through all that pain and heartache?! 

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2024-04-06T18:58:56+02:00

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My thoughts on adoption and surrogacy.

 

I have often talked about myself becoming a mother in the future, and I often say that I wouldn’t mind doing it alone if I don’t find a man. Originally I wanted to have my own child with my husband because I truly want my kid to have 2 parents but what if I don’t find the right one before I turn 32? I can’t wait that long and I want to have a baby by then. 

 

Surrogacy is the act of having a baby through another women’s body with your own eggs so basically you are renting a woman’s belly to have your own baby. That practice is out of the question for me because that is not how God created us to have children, when a woman carry a child they are bonded forever so that would be cruel of me if I were to come between them and just snatch that  baby away! Even if those were my eggs but I wasn’t the one carrying the baby. I don’t like that idea and I see it as prostitution! I’m sorry I just don’t find it normal. My second option would be to adopt a baby because I can’t have a baby out of wedlock ! I don’t want that for me at all. Which is why I have started to get my finances in order so that I have my baby by the time I’m 30 years old. I just can’t go through life without fulfilling my mothering nature. I love taking care of my cats which helps me to express the urge to be a mother. But I want to have my own human kid! My cats will always be my babies but I need my kind. 

 

I am very nurturing and I love to take care of the people I love. I think I was born to be a mom I really do ;)

 

 

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