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Music.
I don’t think I can go through life without listening to music! My name is Melodie after all so it only makes sense that I am obsessed with music so much. I listen to different genre and different languages … music speaks to me in ways that nothing else does! I have to listen to music all the time especially when I am alone because the silence is just sooo loud.
I mainly use Spotify because all of my playlists are there and it’s easier to find all of my favorites songs ;) plus at the end of the year I get a wrap up of all my favorite songs and artists !
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2024-02-14T02:38:55+01:00
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Girl who lost both of her legs after suffering from toxic shock syndrome from a tampon.
Hearing the girl’s story made me more adamant about not using tampons because I always thought it was unsanitary to insert something in such a private place not knowing what kind of toxicity this thing is made of. She had 1% chance of survival and more young woman are in danger of that disease. This is not talked about enough!
If you’re a girl please watch the story of Lauren wasser before you ever think about using a tampon.
2024-02-14T02:05:48+01:00
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That time I questioned my sexuality.
This is a very personal topic and it may be triggering for some but this is just my story…
If someone is struggling with this I hope this helps.
When I was 19, I was in college and I used to spend a lot of time on social media. I came across a video of a very pretty girl and she was Latina; I proceeded to watch all of her videos and by the end of it I realize she was in fact gay. I loved her voice, her face and everything about her. I was infatuated with her and if I did know her in real life I would probably say yes to dating her. My view on what is right was misconstrued by the world views on things, I ultimately thought it was okay for me to have a crush on a girl. She was my first girl crush, I can’t find her on social media anymore … but the last time I saw her she was dating a guy ( good for her). My views on dating has changed, but at the time I thought something was wrong with me because I didn’t want to be gay. I would feel so offended when someone would say wow you look like a lesbian because my style was preppy, I was super skinny and I never talked about men like that.
I felt ashamed of myself because I wasn’t sure if I like girls too. I knew I like men because all my crushes up to that point were boys. Being a girl and having a crush on a girl is not something shameful but it is wrong ( I am not judging anyone this just my own beliefs) I just want to say me and my best friend were really close but I never see her that way she was my sister and I loved her as my sister. Having a crush on that girl was a mistake because she made it okay to be a lesbian and she was the first girl I saw online parading her sexuality like that. She was also very beautiful! And I thought wow she’s super pretty. I don’t have crushes on girls anymore she was the only one and it was intense! I used to message her and sometime she would respond. She was actually really sweet, I told her about how I felt and she told me it was okay ( actually no!) to move on from her I had to block her and pray a lot. I did move on like nothing happened and If I see her today I would just see her like a normal girl. Social media is the devils advocate, our children are exposed to gender classification where a child can choose to change their pronouns daily and expect to be seen as such! Social media is ruining the minds of our new generation.
A transgender committed a crime recently but the police can’t disclose the suspect gender because they can’t tell! Even though they collected semen evidence! So this is a man! A man’s reproductive body parts produce semen! Why can’t the police department say “man” so that the public can identify the suspect quicker but no! They are trying to save face. I know, they know and we all know that the suspect is a man then why sugarcoat it ?!
Now I was never a bisexual I never imagine myself with a woman except that girl because she was sooo persuasive and I actually believed that maybe it was okay to be with a girl. Ugh…. How sad!
If I have a child and they are having confusion like I did, I won’t judge them because this is a very delicate matter. I want my child to feel safe to tell me everything because that’s how my mommy raised me and I always felt understood when I go to her with my issues. I want my child to feel understood and cared for.
2024-02-14T01:45:20+01:00
2024-02-13T23:52:55+01:00
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A man is not attracted to his wife anymore because she gained weight after she had a baby.
my thoughts: (you know I always have something to say)
Do I understand his reasoning? yes! because we all want to be with someone who looks good or at least someone who looks like they are taking care of themselves not that his wife is not taking care of herself because some things are beyond our control; but do I think the man has a valid reason for no longer being attracted to his wife or for not wanting to touch her? NO because being that the woman is the mother of his child, he should not only respect her but also protect her and one way he can do that is by helping her a lot more with the baby so that she could have a little bit of time to work out and lose the baby weight. Having a baby takes a really huge toll on the woman's body, not only she has to heal after giving birth, but she will also have to find ways to lose all the baby weight. women can also struggle with postpartum depression which can take make her feel less motivated to lose all the weight or to even take care of herself. as a husband, you have to provide a lot of support wo your wife and help her with the baby because breastfeeding is not easy and if she had a c-section it will take a lot more time for her to heal. so, worrying about how she's no longer fit should be the least of your worries, men can be so hurtful because they don't understand how emotional a woman can be. As a man, please read books about women behaviors because I read of ton of books on men, and I still struggle to comprehend how careless some men can be!
Having a baby is a blessing and both parents should be focusing on the wellbeing of the child; if the man was too busy taking care of the baby he would love his wife a lot more for giving him this beautiful gift. Men can be soooo superficial, all they want is a woman with a fat ass and beautiful face! what about what's in her brain? what about her qualities? her intellect?