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2024-01-27T17:50:34+01:00

Creating a better a life.

Publié par Gaelle.R

My way of living in 2023 was not ideal and I admit there were times I hated myself for not having any control over my life. I struggle with self-control in various aspects of my life but this year I am trying to do better... You can follow me on this journey of knowing what is going on in my finances and having an actual budget. Here's how I plan on doing it

 

  • First thing I started creating a budget for every month for all of my expenses, if I want something and it's not on that list then I am not getting it. I have everything a girl could possibly need and accepting that I have it all will help me from spending money on new things that I most likely already have. I use the app sheets to do my monthly budget since I have a Chromebook currently so it is easier to just do my budget this way.  The app is on all of my devices so that I can look at it when I am shopping.
  • list all your big expenses first. I list all the important expenses that I cannot go without at the top of that list like house expenses, groceries, electric, gas, and pet food.. so all of that is at the top and all of my beauty supply needs are at the bottom. 
  • I learn to look out for sales and to get coupons, especially for grocery shopping. 
  • Buy all the important things in bulk: I never want to run out of toilet paper, dish soap, toothpaste, lotion, or bath soap... when I look out for sales I just get all of them at once for 2 months so I can spend my money on something else the following month. By doing that you get a discount because some of the items are by two and get one free so you save some money as well.
  • have a list when shopping. I never want to walk into a store and just look around for things that I might need because that is just a recipe for disaster! I am a big spender so I need to know exactly why I am walking in into that store because If I don't I will leave with 14 items that I do not need.
  • cut back on certain expenses: I realize I spent $96.72 on Netflix last year over the course  of 6 months of course and I didn't even open my Netflix account once throughout that time so I could have paused my subscription and come back when I needed to. So that was money down the drain... 
  • take out cash before going shopping and leave my banking cards at home. when I have the exact amount of money that I need, it will save me from spending more on things that I don't need.
  • stop buying clothes for every occasion. Unless I am going to a wedding then I don't need to be buying any more clothes! my closet is overflowing and I still open my mouth to say "I have nothing to wear" like what ??? on top of that I have so many clothes that I never wear that I need to donate!
  • Beauty supply, I do spend a decent amount of money on my hair and for my appearance. Setting money aside for that each month will help me know exactly what I need to get done and how much it will cost to get it done so that I don't do more than I can afford.

if 2023 taught me something it is : 

  • budgeting is the key to success
  • check your mailbox
  • make sure you pay all your important bills first before online shopping for things you definitely didn't need.
  • stop comparing my life journey to someone else's 
  • drink water
  • stop touching my face and never pop a pimple!

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2024-01-27T12:09:04+01:00

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Publié par Gaelle.R

 

“ I am the type of girl who wants to do everything herself and it’s not because I don’t think anyone can help me; it’s because I don’t expect anyone to help. All my life I had to do everything myself, wipe my own tears, be my own cheerleader, be my own support and role model. When someone genuinely wants to help me and I don’t mean someone who feels sorry for me I recognize it and I let them help me. I can tell when someone says something nice to me because they feel sorry for me, it’s either they saw me sitting alone looking sad and they come over to say something nice to make me feel better. Listen, I hate pity I rather you say nothing at all if you don’t really mean it. Truth is I just need a hug! I feel so overwhelmed! So lost! So alone! I am crying writing this… I just need my mommy:( can’t wait until she’s with me.”

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2024-01-26T18:48:57+01:00

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my type is in that video up there 

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2024-01-26T18:43:09+01:00

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«  you don’t find someone you like in your country then you go to another country and find someone. Stop lowering your standard because you’re afraid you’re going to end up alone. Your life doesn’t really start until you’re 25, that’s the age you start to realize whats important and  who who’s your friend. Stop saying you failed at life while you’re in Your 20s! You just started! Go out there, make more mistakes and learn from them so that you can teach your grandkids the life lessons you’ve learn. »

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2024-01-26T17:43:56+01:00

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Is being a stay-at-home mom or father a good idea?

First as a man if you want to be a stay-at-home dad that is fine as long as you can afford it and you are not making your woman work hard for you because that is just sad. Men are natural born providers, and it says so in the bible, it is not a woman's job to care of a man if he is fully capable to work (I will get to the women). Being at a stay at home dad allows the men to get to know the kids and to be there for them although the child needs both parents but it is not very often you see a man who's fully involved in a kid's life it's more of the mother's job; dads usually fix things and they leave the emotional part for the mother nothing bad about that as long as both parents agree that works for them. What is unacceptable is when the man doesn't know their kid and are not involve in the child's life... that is not good!

Is it acceptable for a woman to be a stay-at-home mom? 

Back in the 1920's-1960's women were stay at home wives and they took care of the kids in the house, but a group of women fight for all of us to go to work and now we are working! the feminist movement want to be just like the men so if it is not appropriate for the man to stay at home then they don't want to be home either....let me give my 2 cents because that is what my blog is for lol

uhm I am totally fine being a stay-at-home mom, it will give me enough time to write my book when the kids are at school. Some women think being a stay-at-home wife or mom is like being a maid but are you really the maid if you own the place? taking care of a home is not an easy task! you are doing the cooking, the cleaning, the shopping and the laundry so that when your husband comes home from a long day of work everything is ready for him. I used to think that it is frown upon to be a stay-at-home wife... but why not? if we both can afford me staying home then that is fine? of course, I would never want to make my man work more than he should if I could work myself, but I also want to have everything ready for him... I might not work long hours just so i could go home and make dinner for him but that will be something to discuss with the spouse. As long as you both agree on something then never let outside noises ruin what you have in place because people can say whatever they want but they are not part of the couple, and they don't live in the house. If you want to be a stay-at-home wife than that's fine, if you want to work that is totally fine. what is not okay is a woman who is fully capable of working but chooses to be lazy and leave everything for the man! that is using him! you need to protect your man and help him when he is tired... be there for him, be a safe place for him to come home to after work. Stop with the nagging, the silent treatment if you have something to say then just say it...

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2024-01-25T17:22:05+01:00

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Thoughts?

various news outlet are saying Mbappe will be joining real Madrid in the summer, and I don't believe any of them, until Mbappe open his mouth and say " I am joining real Madrid" I might believe it and even then I still won't believe it until he signs a contract because he said that last time in 2022 only to decide to stay at PSG.

I am not changing my mind Mbappe needs to stay at PSG! the project looks promising. He is doing so well over there; the stats look amazing and if he were to win the champions league with PSG that would be a new record for him! he would be the first one to win it ! I am not saying that he should stay at PSG because I get all the games lol even if he were to go to real Madrid you know I would find a way to get all the games! even if I have to get cable lol watching him play just does something to my brain! he makes me so happy when I see him score goals and dribble :) 

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