As we grow we learn new things, we learn how to love better and how to share. We also learn to hold ourselves back it depends on how we were brought up or our past experiences. But we all learn something and it is very different from what we knew from when we were 5. A scientist once said what happens before the age of 5 will stays with us as we grow what happen then will shape the person we ought to be...I don't know about this one. Most of the things that happens before I was 5 are irrelevant but that's just me. Some of you might have some bad or good experiences that shape who you are today. As long as you accept that what happen is the past you will be fine now if you can't put it past you well that's another story. If you cannot forget and move on it will be a big problem as you grow up it will be difficult. I'm not saying it is easy to put stuff behind no ! I am probably the last person to tell you that. But you should accept that things change and that not everything is the same yes it will take some time. Then again everything take time at least every important things take time...you just have to be patient. You don't have to do a lot of things you know! you just have to forgive and occupy your mind with other things. Forgiveness now is so rare and revenge is what comes to mind when someone do us wrong. But make a difference by forgiving and forgetting because it is the best way to move on and to be happy. When you get your revenge sure you will be happy but for a short period of time after that guilt will fill you up and sometimes you can't change what's done.
2016-01-27T21:58:32+01:00