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2016-01-27T21:58:32+01:00

If I was a psychologist blogger...

Publié par Gaelle.R

As we grow we learn new things, we learn how to love better and how to share. We also learn to hold ourselves back it depends on how we were brought up or our past experiences. But we all learn something and it is very different from what we knew from when we were 5. A scientist once said what happens before the age of 5 will stays with us as we grow  what happen then will shape the person we ought to be...I don't know about this one. Most of the things that happens before I was 5 are irrelevant but that's just me. Some of you might have some bad or good experiences that shape who you are today. As long as you accept that what happen is the past you will be fine now if you can't put it past you well that's another story. If you cannot forget and move on it will be a big problem as you grow up it will be difficult. I'm not saying it is easy to put stuff behind no ! I am probably the last person to tell you that. But you should accept that things change and that not everything is the same yes it will take some time. Then again everything take time at least every important things take time...you just have to be patient. You don't have to do a lot of things you know! you just have to forgive and occupy your mind with other things. Forgiveness now is so rare and revenge is what comes to mind when someone do us wrong. But make a difference by forgiving and forgetting because it is the best way to move on and to be happy. When you get your revenge sure you will be happy but for a short period of time after that guilt will fill you up and sometimes you can't change what's done. 

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2016-01-11T14:45:06+01:00

Broken once

Publié par Gaelle.R

I used to believe the stars were friends with the moon

I used to think when the sun went down there was no more light for the day,

I thought the birds could fly forever

I thought that we grow as we age,

As the ocean we remain the same 

The rain pour down the surface and what's left are our own memories long gone.

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2016-01-01T03:16:27+01:00

happy new year !!! !

Publié par Gaelle.R

This is the last day of 2015 and we all should look forward... 2015 might have been the year where you had a rough breakup or fall out with family and friends but don't you think 2016 will be better? if you are a pessimist then i know your answer already i really hope that you all you could see 2016 as the year even if you don't believe it. Truth is sometimes you have to believe for it to happen and right now i do believe. 2016 Should be the year

HAPPY NEW YEAR 

LOVE YOU ALL

LOOK FOR THE COUNTDOWN AND YOU DON'T REALLY HAVE TO GET A KISS TONIGHT !!!!

SEE YOU NEXT YEAR !!!!!!

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2015-12-18T19:39:37+01:00

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Publié par Gaelle.R

Hey again ! how y'all doing?

 well today I wanna address your feelings. Have you been in a situation where you feel like you have so much on your plate and you don't know what to do anymore. As long as you are not a procrastinator than this is for you. Are you one of those people that are never on time to do what their suppose to do? well if you are I am talking about the people that are on time but have so much to do that they don't even know where to begin. They want to get everything done that they can even begin one single thing. Then you feel frustrated >>> if you are not normal then you just don't care and move on to something else. 

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2015-12-08T04:38:15+01:00

world of communication.

Publié par Gaelle.R

Hi ! I am suppose to be studying for finals but this thing just came in mind. I figured I should share it with you because we will build each other in many ways in the process. Are you one of those people that have so much love for people but you don't know how to show them? in your mind you keep on messing up and you figured well they will never like me anyway? then you start to withdraw from them even though you love them and you would rather spend as much time with them but you don't know how to tell them. If you think this is pointless...it's not and you can get off this page BUT if you it's meaningful to you because you've been through it keep reading. 4 out 10 People don't know how to communicate their feelings. It may seems like a small number to you but for them the struggle is real. I know some of you want to judge them and isolate them but that is not the right way to go. First of all they are already isolating themselves because they think they already messed up and nothing can fix it. When you isolate them more you just tell them that they are right and they cannot fix their mess. Second of all not talking to them is not the right thing because they are already not talking to you. If for some reason you think something is wrong you should address the situation and let them know that you are there. One smile can brighten someone's else day, remember that we all have problems and you are not the only one. Often the quiet ones are the one to get it but fear of being wrong make them shut out...

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2015-12-05T14:53:47+01:00

Morning surprises

Publié par Gaelle.R

Rise and shine ! it's morning and you need to put your life together. Before you do that, you need to know something it will be kind of depressing maybe shocking considering that it's in the morning. That is the point before you start your day you will need to know this. To start we encounter a lot of people in our lives every day if not at work, school, the train or anywhere else oh and even the church this one is very important. But you need to know that there are bad people and they don't have a label on their foreheads which makes it even harder to find out. They are with you all the time, they are looking for a way to get back at you for just a simple thing BREEDING. LOL what? I know ! keep reading it will get interesting I promise...Anyways they are trying to make you feel like you are not worth anything good. They will take you on a picnic up on the mountains they will show you a beautiful view and while you are looking...they'll push you to your own death scary uh?. You need to know that there are sickos in this world and you need to be careful on whom you welcome in your life. Not all people are good. on the other hand there are good people. 

ps. I need to get my day started but I am not done telling you about these people.I will be back in the meantime 

HAVE A GOOD DAY !!!!!! 

BONNE JOURNEE !!!

100000000 hours later (squiward from spongebob voice)

It's been a week, yeah I know we are all busy ! no excuses. anyways back to what we were talking about...i have a meeting soon so let's get this done. When I say there are some bad people I don't mean someone specifically or some kind of people. Sometimes some people look mean but inside they are not (it's just a cover) I don't mean you can always think everyone are like that

 

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2015-12-01T03:55:19+01:00

It's not about what you got.

Publié par Gaelle.R

Hi there ! How was your day ? I bet it was amazing. Well we have to keep a positive mind which brings me to this right now. Tonight we're going to talk about something new and fresh. I have never mention that here but I thought I should. So it came to my understanding that many guys out there are very picky saying they want to date this type of girl and they will only like these kinds for real? well I heard them talk and talk...and I am getting sick of all this nonsense. Like you don't choose who you fall for it just happen even when you try to hold it in (but you can't) So I couldn't help but notice how guys want to change us girls. It's not what love is about, neither is what you've seen in movies because they made it all up and they got us fooled with it. I don't know why but since some artist made their backside about everything, every girl are trying to get some more. They be going at the gym and doing squats LOL y'all make me laugh !it's the thing now if you don't have a big behind you are basically irrelevant. Well I think there is more to life than a big butt that can't get you nowhere maybe out on a date or possibly a job but not the kind someone should be proud of. Then you grow old and all is done it's just that simple. Some girls even try to get it done thinking they can fool everyone with it. If you are offended then I am really not sorry and if you are not offended then I am sorry but wait I will get back to you. You know what? I hate that some people have to hide who they really are because they are too afraid to show the world what they can do. This is a fear and if you are one of those people then you need help. I don't want to get into some emotional stuff around here. I am here to speak my mind while telling the truth and I do not care about who disagree because I know if everyone agree with me than I am not doing a good job or I am being too soft. If some of you oppose then I know I did a good job. I know why you are offended maybe I hit a sensitive spot ... It's all good though everyone has one. I do my best not to hurt your feelings too much but sometimes we need to get some sense in our actions.

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2015-11-30T01:48:43+01:00

"looking good"

Publié par Gaelle.R

don't you hate this line "who are you tryna look good for" well let me put it down for you....

I look this good because i can and if it's too much for you, you can cover your eyes. Some of you are judging Kylie Jenner for looking so damn good like tf? seriously ! if she looked awful y'all would still be judging like really? It does not matter about how you look someone will always find something to say. But all you have to do is do YOU. All of what they say don't really matter. If you know what you want, If you know what you're going for then you should not worry about all the comments. Don't you hate when someone say you trying to look good for someone ! like you have to always look awful for them to leave you alone. Well honey I can't suppress all this gorgeousness I gotta let it out and you should too. even if I was trying to look good for someone what's the point in doing that? I look good occasionally for someone and then what?I look like wacka flocka the other days, well i don't need to try, it comes naturally.Whatever you do to look good from your own definition  if you like doing it then just do it. If you like to dance then DANCE. If you like to sing then SING do it with all your heart. And if you like to model like Kendall Jenner then do it, I have to talk about her since i talk about kylie cause those two are always together. I think it's cute and they are both doing their own thing...it's nice and of course people will always judge but it's their problem. we all have opinions and some of you are scared to voice it out. like common let it out before it choke you. Words can kill you if you don't let them out. If you have something to say just say it, if you have other ways of saying it then do it how you want it. 

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2015-11-30T01:25:10+01:00

For you ladies

Publié par Gaelle.R

Hi...

yes I know it's been a while. It's just because I have a life now and I wanna share a little something with you tonight. I know y'all wanna look good and stuff...I do too by the fact who doesn't, but do u wanna look good for yourself or for somebody? A lot of girls out there be going to the gym to be fit and they be starving themselves to death, Girl it is not worth it ! If someone doesn't like you because of the way you look then you need to cut them off. I'm not saying stop talking to them nah i'm saying block them every where on social media and if you see them coming run yes RUN 20 miles away from these people and don't look back.They are all be trying to make you feel bad about yourself and they don't deserve half of who you are. I am telling you this because girls be changing their looks for guys ! girl bye, if you wanna change your whole self for some boy even if he date you he's not dating YOU he's dating the image that you are providing. I will never do this for anybody some days I look good and other days I don't and guess what I DON'T CARE !! beauty from the outside don't define you it's just a freaking image. I will NEVER change for anyone and you should not either. If you wanna lose weight for a guy because he doesn't like the way you look he is not the one for you. You don't need to try so hard to get someone's attention when the time comes you will find the one. Just saying if you wanna look good for yourself then that is fine and if you wanna lose weight because YOU want to then that's fine too but if you're doing it for someone then that's not good. Like nobody is perfect everyone do what you do and you should not be ashamed.you should own your body like it is yours cause some of y'all be really insecure and that is not good. Even if you are small, short, skinny, big, tall well own up to it. when I see some ignorant people be commenting on Arianna Grande's picture saying how small she looks this is bs no one cares !! she looks amazing and she own her body and I also hate when people be saying how selena gomez look 12 seriously this is some immature sht no one cares about your judgments. I don't think people should be bullied because they look younger, older, short, small or tall cause it shows how immature the bully is.  If a guy wants you then they will take you as you are they wouldn't want you to change. Some guys be dating some artificial girls because they wanna show off to their friends. And yes I said ARTIFICIAL because you always wear those make up no one know what your eye color is, no one know what you look like underneath all these foundation. You need to wake yourself up honey cause too much make up damage your skin. I am not saying don't wear make up cause I do but not every freaking days of the week and not all these foundation like why?? Don't you like what God gave you? cause when you do that you being real petty and it's not cute. Too much make up make you look scary and fake. You need to spend some days in sweat pants and not care about what the world think of you. At the end of the day all you have is YOU cause that is who you are.

you are free to walk out of this blog but I had to tell you this before someone else cause they will.

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