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2016-02-18T05:18:54+01:00

shining through the darkness

Publié par Gaelle.R

How many times did you say those words and it meant nothing to the person? Aren't you tired of doing and saying the same thing to show someone that you care? It does not matter because they cannot see the beauty of having you around while you enjoy every bit of them. They cannot see, they are blinded, they are looking in the window but they cannot see how nice it is outside and how their grass is green. They prefer to look at how the grass on their neighbor's house is greener and how beautiful their backyard looks. They cannot see their own, their flowers are growing a new rose just came out but they cannot see it they are too busy wasting their time on things that aren't even relevant to the fact that their backyard looks great. I am not going through this with someone that is not why i want to share this with you. I have been down this road too many times but i walked myself out of it, I have noticed things, I have seen things that you are probably going through right now. I felt the urge to share this with you tonight to help a brother or a sister out. Let me tell you something, if you care about somebody and you look at the signs and you see that they don't care...first what are the signs? 

1) They don't want to talk to you as much you wanna talk to them ( does not apply all the time the person might be in a bad mood *if you know me then you will get it)

2) they don't make time for your they don't put you first...

there are a lot of signs i don't have to tell you because i know you will see them yourself you might try to ignore them or make up excuse for the person. But no you are not wrong you need to walk yourself out before it's too late. 

If they cannot see how beautiful you are on the inside what's the point you just going to get your heart break, do you want that? well F them and live you life hon'

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2016-02-12T15:09:03+01:00

Be who you are

Publié par Gaelle.R

Morning y'all ! has it been a while I feel like it. I had in mind to blog a while ago but I'm a busy girl (no time to waste) okay well this morning let's talk about you as a person and how society label you. First of all before we start this whole discussion are you a bully? you would know but somehow you will never admit it aloud. You don't have to email or comment. Let me ask a few questions before we start do you hate the word fat or skinny? do you hate gay, lesbian? the word or even the actual person who is black or white? christian? atheist? if you hate these things well maybe you should read this, I will point some things that could make you sick therefore you can exit before I start....

alright if you stay that's means you either ignore my warning or you really don't care about those labels. I hate those labels I think we are who we are doesn't matter what society says. You have the power to prove them wrong you are the one who is happy in yourself. Now I am not saying I would do what yo do but why would I judge. We all know about these stuff from when we were little...how it's bad yet we grew out of it and we made our own choice. That is life you don't always follow what you thought you wanted as a kid

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2016-02-09T03:47:53+01:00

mad little bunny

Publié par Gaelle.R

hey y'all ! I have a feeling some guys came here and they discovered the secret i told the ladies well if it happens no hard feelings you boys don't act any better to make me change my mind. I am not here to apologize about what I wrote neither am i going to change my mind it will remain the same until one of you prove me wrong it might be in ten years LOL right now I'm on a stage where everything is just funny I see life as a joke right now IDGAF about anything LOL i'm just enjoying life. I think we all have that moment where we don't care no more and we just want to be happy because in the end that's the only thing that matters. No place for boys by the way valentines day is coming I won't judge if you have  a valentine and if you hate the whole abstinence thing (no shame) it's all about accepting yourself. My thoughts don't have to matter to you nor your opinions have to matter to me, sometimes it will matter to me. When you are a writer you sometimes need the public opinions and reactions to make your move and other times you just do your thing. I always just throw my ideas out there and as it hits I can see how better it could have been. Man IDGAF about valentines day it's nothing sorry you don't have to agree I just hate that day so much. Like is it the only day that I matter to someone in a relationship ? why can't you get me flowers and chocolate the other days? just because society says do it on this day does not mean we have to do it. Some boyfriends be so mean to their girl and as valentines day is coming they want to be nice ! boy you can shove your niceness up where you know. I am a nice person but somethings gets me so piss I turn savage this make me sick.

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2016-02-06T13:17:48+01:00

Let me say a few things.

Publié par Gaelle.R

Morning! two days in a row i must be available not even ! I have so much to do but I stick this in between because I must blog or else. So last night I know we talked about dating and how boys are. But now let's talk about distracting stuff. Well every time you have something important to do something else perhaps less important is always going to show up and most of the time it's fun stuff. What do you do? do you have that in mind like go ahead and have fun life is short anyway? well your priorities aren't gonna be here forever honey. They just going to fly away sometimes an opportunity shows up once in a lifetime remember you can have fun anytime you want but you can't take care of your priorities at the same time. Life priorities i am talking about is school, work, God and family relationship those should be first thing because that is how we all started right? you go to school you had mom and dad and other family. Then you learn you have to work to be successful... doing drugs, going around doing stuff aren't gonna get you there. Use your common sense you have it for a reason you know. You either keep having fun and not be successful and independent or the other way you cannot have both that is impossible. You could maybe do one after the other but you will lacking be focus. you cannot be two person at once well maybe you can be fun and serious but deep down you know who you trying to pretend to be. 

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2016-02-06T05:22:54+01:00

Girl talk

Publié par Gaelle.R

It's about to be midnight here but it might be different because this is a french blog so the time is not accurate.  Anyway forget about the time we are not here for that what should we discuss tonight?...how about dating? and boys? well I am a girl so i will speak for us girls. Let see boys are just immature these days I feel like they are all the same. One time they want something or some girl and the next thing you know they want another girl. So girl you wanna give all of yourselves to guys that aren't going to stay? who is going to pick up the pieces? you ! girl let me tell you if you listen to what the boys say you will fall for them at some point don't let them fool you. That almost happen to me once or twice. I was blinded somehow i was over the edge of falling but someone from my entourage woke me up and told me how stupid this choice was. I am not saying don't date a guy but be careful. Someone told me if you find a guy and that guy is not able to meet your family he is not worth it. Wait I know your dad might be jealous and that is perfectly normal (don't try to change him it's his job) you might not bring the guy to him but at least to a sister,brother,aunt or cousin? When they see him and they talk to him they will truly tell you what you are getting yourself into before you settle down. Remember this ladies if a guy can't meet your family he's just stealing you away therefore he is not worth your try. I fooled myself into thinking this particular guy was loyal, good and not what they say but he turned out to be just what everyone else said good thing i had a wake up call. I did not fall and I won't fall. Never. You don't have to fall for the wrong guy love with you head not your heart and you will find the one. Boys nowadays just want to take well they ain't gonna get from me cause I don't share.  Remember that before you fall ask yourself

why is he the one?what's so special about him? does he share your passion? anyway some guys might not like everything us girls do like make up and stuff but what about school ? work or other life priorities what does he thinks? Does he care about you? at first they all care but after a few months they start to fade away into thin air.Boys don't stick around when it gets hard they will abandon you or tell you to take care of it yourself. Some boys are just like that they don't GAF about life they just wanna have fun with you, play around with you, messed you up and then leave. I realize when you are not easy they just want to prove you they can have other girls that will give them what you holding back. So that's the kinda guy you want ? I know a guy would probably stick around and give you time before leaving or go around and who does that? damn boys have no standards right? anyway think about it girl I just wanna share this with you. 

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2016-02-02T04:11:14+01:00

Nightmares

Publié par Gaelle.R

Hi ! how are y'all doing tonight? I am fine thank you for asking although you could have ask but we are not here to argue right? Guess not... anyway I remember at some point  around here i talk about nightmares and stuff well I mentioned it I did not really talk about it much. Some of you thought I was afraid to talk about it ! nah I am not rather i find it quite fascinating that our minds can pull a stunt like this on us at night. I could have sworn I was getting eating by a bird the other night i was screaming my heads of like wtf is going on ! I was sooooo freacking scared it was this freakishly large bird even though I love birds but this one was out of line what kind of species eat human that is freaking cannibalism ! Anyway have you ever had one of these ? where you thought you died or you were in a car accident then you waking up checking all the parts in your body to make sure that you are in one piece ? woah that gave me a chill down my spine ! that was some scary stuff like i hope that I won't ever see it again. What's weird you can be sleeping then you feel like you are falling off the bed then you wake up in a hurry like NOOO but you are still in the middle of the bed and you wasn't falling at all ! what kinda sht is that????? why do we have to go through this? it seems unfair but I remember when I had my dog which had died of cancer last year (RIP) anyway she could be sleeping then all of a sudden she wakes up and look right into my eyes looking for something ! woah one time i was soo scared I called my mom in baby voice saying " the dog scared me !! take her away " she knows i didn't mean it that dog was my best friend Yo I swear that dog game me life she makes me laugh all the time even now that she is gone. Back to nightmares my dog can wait another night...Nightmares can erase your whole brain in one minute LOL don't believe that but that is how I feel no worry all the stuff will come back until you finish processing that this was a bad dream not real life. Until then you could see yourself flying with peter pan and getting chase by a shark or that little lizard from geico !(no comment on that one) 

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2016-01-27T21:58:32+01:00

If I was a psychologist blogger...

Publié par Gaelle.R

As we grow we learn new things, we learn how to love better and how to share. We also learn to hold ourselves back it depends on how we were brought up or our past experiences. But we all learn something and it is very different from what we knew from when we were 5. A scientist once said what happens before the age of 5 will stays with us as we grow  what happen then will shape the person we ought to be...I don't know about this one. Most of the things that happens before I was 5 are irrelevant but that's just me. Some of you might have some bad or good experiences that shape who you are today. As long as you accept that what happen is the past you will be fine now if you can't put it past you well that's another story. If you cannot forget and move on it will be a big problem as you grow up it will be difficult. I'm not saying it is easy to put stuff behind no ! I am probably the last person to tell you that. But you should accept that things change and that not everything is the same yes it will take some time. Then again everything take time at least every important things take time...you just have to be patient. You don't have to do a lot of things you know! you just have to forgive and occupy your mind with other things. Forgiveness now is so rare and revenge is what comes to mind when someone do us wrong. But make a difference by forgiving and forgetting because it is the best way to move on and to be happy. When you get your revenge sure you will be happy but for a short period of time after that guilt will fill you up and sometimes you can't change what's done. 

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2016-01-11T14:45:06+01:00

Broken once

Publié par Gaelle.R

I used to believe the stars were friends with the moon

I used to think when the sun went down there was no more light for the day,

I thought the birds could fly forever

I thought that we grow as we age,

As the ocean we remain the same 

The rain pour down the surface and what's left are our own memories long gone.

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2016-01-01T03:16:27+01:00

happy new year !!! !

Publié par Gaelle.R

This is the last day of 2015 and we all should look forward... 2015 might have been the year where you had a rough breakup or fall out with family and friends but don't you think 2016 will be better? if you are a pessimist then i know your answer already i really hope that you all you could see 2016 as the year even if you don't believe it. Truth is sometimes you have to believe for it to happen and right now i do believe. 2016 Should be the year

HAPPY NEW YEAR 

LOVE YOU ALL

LOOK FOR THE COUNTDOWN AND YOU DON'T REALLY HAVE TO GET A KISS TONIGHT !!!!

SEE YOU NEXT YEAR !!!!!!

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2015-12-18T19:39:37+01:00

Publié depuis Eklablog

Publié par Gaelle.R

Hey again ! how y'all doing?

 well today I wanna address your feelings. Have you been in a situation where you feel like you have so much on your plate and you don't know what to do anymore. As long as you are not a procrastinator than this is for you. Are you one of those people that are never on time to do what their suppose to do? well if you are I am talking about the people that are on time but have so much to do that they don't even know where to begin. They want to get everything done that they can even begin one single thing. Then you feel frustrated >>> if you are not normal then you just don't care and move on to something else. 

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