Hi ! I am suppose to be studying for finals but this thing just came in mind. I figured I should share it with you because we will build each other in many ways in the process. Are you one of those people that have so much love for people but you don't know how to show them? in your mind you keep on messing up and you figured well they will never like me anyway? then you start to withdraw from them even though you love them and you would rather spend as much time with them but you don't know how to tell them. If you think this is pointless...it's not and you can get off this page BUT if you it's meaningful to you because you've been through it keep reading. 4 out 10 People don't know how to communicate their feelings. It may seems like a small number to you but for them the struggle is real. I know some of you want to judge them and isolate them but that is not the right way to go. First of all they are already isolating themselves because they think they already messed up and nothing can fix it. When you isolate them more you just tell them that they are right and they cannot fix their mess. Second of all not talking to them is not the right thing because they are already not talking to you. If for some reason you think something is wrong you should address the situation and let them know that you are there. One smile can brighten someone's else day, remember that we all have problems and you are not the only one. Often the quiet ones are the one to get it but fear of being wrong make them shut out...
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