people always told me I cut off guys wayyy too soon and they're right! this is why I always say if I didn't like you in the beginning I'll never like you and your days are numbered. The weirder, funnier, the more confident and taller you are the better but I've also like guys who were 5'4, 5'9 so height doesn't really matter, it's your personality that will make you stand out.
things I've cut off guys for in the past:
1. his toes were too big! I am sorry but he wore sandals and I couldn't stop staring until he didn't seem appealing to me anymore.
2.He laughed too loud, I was so disgusted and I just kind of internalize my disgust.
3. he hugged me on the first date and that would've been fine but he grabbed my butt, so I knew I was cutting him off as soon as I got home. I just met you why are you touching me like that? in the moment I played it cool but I immediately grabbed his hand and stopped him from touching further but I was turn off by that. I am a slow burner, let me build up to that don't just sprung physical touch on me and please don't make it sexual on the first date.
4. his legs were too short and I didn't like the way they looked so I got home and blocked him. He took me to five guys but that was when I was 19 years old. I get it we were both broke but 5 guys? what about chilis or apple bees?
5. he didn't get my sense of humor which is mostly sarcasm laced with dark humor, so he thought I was serious and he was sooo concerned. that threw me off, so I blocked him on a random Tuesday at 2 am. I was tired of explaining myself.
6. he posted a selfie, anytime a man is posting pictures of himself online he's recruiting for another girl...like you have me who you posting for? so yeah I blocked him too. Plus he was smiling and in one pic he was flirting with the camera like who took the picture? that's a no for me dawg
7. he doesn't know the side walk rule. that was an immediate no. I thought he was selfish plus we went out to eat in a group he ordered and said that's all. Like no! I still haven't ordered ! yeah he had to go.
8. I said no to a kiss and he said why? what do you mean why? I said no and that's it. But nope he proceeded to grab my face and try to kiss me... like dude? don't you know anything about consent? no means no this is not a challenge. Granted I did kiss him in the past but that doesn't mean anything because that day I said no. I don't know why I went out with him that day. After that little disaster outing he got blocked. If I see him out, I will act like I never knew him because truth is I don't know who that man is and he lowkey scared me.
9. I said no to a date and he threaten to pull up to my place. Like dude you're scaring me! there's plenty of other girls out there. I am not the one for you, respectfully find someone else. Better yet stay alone and do some self reflection.
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