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There’s a video circulating online about a man talking about how he was dating a girl and side note the man who was making that video was fineeee but anyway aside from his beauty let’s get into it…
The man said: “ there’s this girl that I’ve been seeing and dating or whatever for a while now and she was coming over, I asked her if she could grab me some food because I was hungry but she said sure I can pick you up some food if you pay for it; because paying for food for a man is putting me in my masculine energy and I need to stay in my feminine energy.” Then the man proceed to say:” that’s my problem with woman y’all never want to to do anything for a man, I pay for everything when you’re with me because I find it in my heart to do it, I pay for your flight because it was in my heart to do it and I open all doors for you in all of our dates because I find it in my heart to do it. I didn’t have to but I did it because I’m a nice person ….”
Now my opinion ?
I side with the girl but let me explain why, at the start of the video the man never gave the girl a tittle she was just “a girl he was talking to and casually dating” and he said they’ve been doing this for a while my thing is why is she not your girlfriend? She doesn’t have to spend money on you because you are not her man. As a man if you’re courting a woman you should pay for the date, what did you expect? For her to go half and half with you? You asked me out I could’ve stayed home, and order take out so you pay period… I’m not going to be mean about it if you can’t pay ( I understand that because life is expensive but just know you didn’t have to bring me somewhere you had to pay, you could have just taken me on a walk)
That man was all up in her pants, but she was not in his heart. She doesn’t have to get you food because you don’t respect her enough for her to want to do anything for you. When a woman loves you and when you date her the right way, she will do anything for you! If my boyfriend asks me to bring him food, of course I’ll do it but if you’re just a friend I can say no because I don’t have to. But if you’re my man you won’t even need to ask lol baby, I know you’re hungry I’ll just bring you food just because. It looks like the girl knew where she stood, and she didn’t want to spend money on someone who was not claiming her.
I side with the girl! Because a woman owes you nothing just like you owe her nothing if you’re not willing to date her the right way, just leave her alone someone else will value her.
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Expensive but not so expensive things I want.
- A revair blow dryer (I don’t blow dry my hair and I mean like ever! But if I were to blow dry my hair one day, I would like to use this blow dryer, because I need a trim and I might have to straightening my hair sometime soon)
- A Daniel Wellington watch! (I’ve wanted this since 2017, I kind of stop wanted it for a while because I could not afford it at first, but now I can afford it I just haven’t gotten the time to buy one, but I will soon)
- A litter robot for my cats because I am tired of cleaning the litter box every day, but this litter box will clean itself I just have to throw away the waste once a week or maybe twice because I have 3 cats.
- A MacBook laptop especially for my writing it will be so much easier for me to sync my phone to my laptop because I write on the go! And I just love the aesthetic of the laptop too.
- An Apple Watch especially because I work in health care so I can answer text with my watch or stay connected without looking at my phone lol
- A vacation to Italy. I am going to make it happen because I really want to try the best pasta, I ever had in my entire life.
- A bengal cat. Those cats are sooo expensive, but I want one when I buy my house.
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my music taste is sooo weird! I don’t like playing music for people because in the middle of playing a song I want to put another one ! I listen to 53 genre of music! From artist all over the world with all kinds of sounds! I just love discovering new sound and people might find that weird. I love people who listen to weird music like me! It makes me feel safe and happy that there’s someone else out there like me lol
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