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2025-04-23T23:57:52+02:00

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Madrid.

 

Real Madrid was eliminated out of the champions league last week and I was devastated. I wasn’t able to talk about it because I was really disappointed. My gym bros took it easy on me because they saw how sad I was. One of them even gave me a hug lol. I was so down after they got eliminated, but I am okay now. I kinda knew that they might get eliminated but I was hoping for a miracle? 

 

Maybe next year they will win the champions league again, they do have 15 trophies but I just want one more for my baby Mbappé because he has none 😩 that’s why I wanted them to win! Just so Mbappé can have a champions league trophy because that’s all he doesn’t have. 

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2025-04-23T23:52:51+02:00

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Publié par Gaelle.R

 

Luteal phase is kicking my butt this month! I’m just soooo exhausted but thank God I am able to work out but I feel nauseous. All this and men just get to live? I am in fact pissed that I have to go through all this while men just live their lives in peace. 

 

This afternoon I feel like 2 months pregnant because I am soooo bloated I feel like passing out. Everything disgust me! I hate everyone and everything. I want space. Ugh I can’t stand this 

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2025-04-21T16:14:23+02:00

months update

Publié par Gaelle.R

People born those months and what I think about them:

* This is not about astrology or zodiac signs (I don't believe in that) this is about people's personalities affiliated by the months they were born in or what they have in common with other people born that month... I know a good amount of people and even if they were born on the same month they have different personalities or way of doing things

January: They are outgoing, a little pushover when it comes to their romantic relationships. They love to have fun, a little crazy but fun to be around. we get along just fine.

February: they are very attractive but something about them doesn't feel right. They're sneaky, a little judgmental, maybe a little fake? but they're nice for the most part.

march: they are very creative, they are both extroverted and introverted, they are kinda weird and that's why we get along lol.

may: I love people born in may, they're homebodies, very chill, very smart, we always get along, but their anger usually comes out of nowhere. They can be a little lazy, but they are hard-working people weird lol, I guess they work hard when they want to

June: I get along well with those people because they are very outgoing, but I never know what they're thinking. they're 2 faced sometimes

July: I get along with them, but we argue a lot, these people always find me interesting (not sure if it's in a positive way) they're a little selfish when they don't like you, super outgoing, very beautiful people and they are very confident, they can be disrespectful because their ego is so big, they are very dramatic! but they can be sweet. I've never experienced their good sides because they don't like me. Surprisingly We have a lot in common but they always think they're better than me lol some things we have in common: we're obsessed about our appearance (mine is not as pronounce as theirs but I like looking good) we have no patience, no BS, get annoyed quickly, playful (they're more playful than me), confident, selfish with our time (we only give our time to people who value it), we love the finer things in life. 

August: They're very chill, dry sense of humor, very organized... a little boring but we do get along.

September: they're very chill, perfectionist, usually love to read books... I get along with them but they're a little boring at times.

October: ___ not sure lol

November: I love people born that month, we get along well, we have the same sense of humour. They're fun but at times I don't understand them... we have good debates. They are unique.

December: I get along with my fellow born December people, they are outgoing, can be shy but it's all an act lol. They're easy going, doesn't care as much but they can be empathetic when they want to be. Super sensitive, love to laugh and joke. Never want to go out at first but when they do, they normally have lots of fun, they love hanging out with only selected few people, not trusting they are always on their guard. Not easily influence, hate commitments, love their freedom... Business like even when in love because it is an investment and we do not play when it comes to love (people get shocked about how serious we are when it comes to love because we're usually fun and going with the flow when it's just a hook up or not that important) we can be rude and judgmental but not to everyone just a selected few lol we don't play when our heart or money is on the line

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2025-04-19T19:00:43+02:00

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Relationship and where I’m at. 

 

I will do it for the right person but he needs to be patient with me.

 

I am currently on my healing journey and finding joy by just existing. I don’t like it when people expect a lot from me because I am not always available or able to give what they are asking.First and foremost I just cannot be in a relationship with someone I just met I need time. some people believe in love at first sight! Well I don’t I believe in love at first signs of being comfortable with each other and that usually happens after a while of knowing someone.

 I can’t be with someone who wants communication every hour of the day! I will talk to you daily but what do you mean I always  have to call you on my way to work or on my way home ! I need space to be happy alone. I do believe too much communication and attention takes away the mystery and the excitement in the relationship. I will talk to you at the end of the day and I will update you throughout the day with a text if you want to know but I’m not going to stay on the phone with you the whole day! Dude I have a life. I use my phone a lot more during the week days but during the week end I am always super busy. You would think that I’ll be more available during the week end because I’m home and I’ll be busier during the week because I am working but not really! My screen time is higher during the week days. On the weekends I have to buy all the things I will need for the week, work out, go out in field service, meal prep, do my laundry, clean, watch my shows or movies, play video games, watch football matches, nap and if my cats have vet appointments I need to get them ready for it and that’s a whole process. I barely look at my phone during the weekend because I am busy! Imagine me with a clingy man, it just simply won’t work. I need someone who doesn’t need me every second of the day, who has a life because I have one. Who’s busy just like me because if he’s free all the time he will want to keep talking to me and I am not free all the time!  He needs to respect my boundaries and listen to me when I say stop or when I say I don’t want to do something. If you don’t like my boundaries then find someone else, I’m not clingy. I’m always ready to say goodbye, I am not attached to anyone because that’s my way of living. 

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2025-04-19T16:00:42+02:00

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Freestyle 

 

Let’s talk about the danger of simply working out to get a summer body because it’s 2 months away or however months is that:  what are you going to do when you get the body you want for the summer and then summer is over ? Yes you’ve accomplished your goal but does that mean you can go back to eating all the wrong foods and gain all the weight back? It shouldn’t mean that but some people only work out when they have an event or when summer is close. To get a nice body it takes months and years of hard work. You won’t get everything in one month, when you work out say you are doing it for your future self don’t just do it for an occasion. What if you don’t get the body you want by summer? Then you will hate working out and you might even give up because in your mind you’re thinking what’s the point? But you just needed to work out a bit more and with a little more dedication. The food that you eat outside of  the gym matters! You have to meal prep and stop eating out depending on what your goal is. When you cook your own meals and you follow through with your meal prep you will be healthier and you will lose a ton of weight.

Look up recipes for healthy foods to lose fat and gain muscles. 

 

  • I hate it when I just meet a guy and we bond over something it can be the gym or football or anything  and then boom you’re asking me if I see a future with us in less then a week?! I’m sorry am I a prophetess? I can’t see the future my dude. I am really slow when it comes to love, it may take me 1 year to fall in love or it may even take me 6 months. I don’t fall in love with looks or anything superficial it’s a little deeper than that. I look at your personality, the way you live your life… among other things. And please leave me alone when I’m trying to cut you off, we just met it shouldn’t be that hard for you to let me go. Leave me alone, I gave you 1 week free trial and you blew it. On to the next…

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2025-04-18T02:37:50+02:00

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Sometimes I sit through the disrespect but I am not weak for staying, if that person meant a lot to me I would listen and let their words cut me like knives in order for me to cut them out of my life for good without feeling bad. I always need a good reason to cut someone I love out of my life it makes the process easier. I won’t take any revenge, or beg anyone to treat me right I will simply leave. 

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2025-04-17T17:28:04+02:00

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A while ago someone told me I am too focus on myself, that person wasn't wrong but who else was I supposed to focus on? I am not clueless about other people's need, I help others when they need it, but I am also aware that I cannot help anyone if my cup is empty. Who am I supposed to pour all of my resources on? last time I checked I don't have a kid nor am I married; therefore, I need to invest in myself and in my future. yes, I am my priority, I have to make sure that I am healthy and well taken care of.

Being focus on yourself is not a problem but being obsessed with your appearance and being overly self-absorbed is a problem. As long as you can be empathetic and help others then you should also practice self-care. when I focus on other people I get really depressed because that's when I start comparing my progress to other people's progress and truly comparison is the thief of joy. when I focus on me, I can see my strength and where I am lacking. I get even happier when I take care of myself and you can see the difference between when I really pay attention to my wellbeing and when I don't take care of myself mentally, spiritually and physically I feel lost, unmotivated, not grounded and prone to repeating the same mistakes over and over again. Working out for me is a form of self-care and I absolutely need it for my mental health. I don't think I can date someone who doesn't work out because it will interfere with my gym schedule and I hate it when people don't take that in consideration, going to the gym is not a hobby it's a must for me! and someone who also work out will understand how important that is. He doesn't have to be a gym Bro and he doesn't even have to work out as much as I do but at least he needs to work out weekly not just once a month. someone who doesn't align with you will never make a great partner.

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2025-04-17T17:05:31+02:00

fitness tips

Publié par Gaelle.R

First thing first always remember that what works for you may not work for everyone else but that doesn't mean your way of doing things is not effective. If you are getting results meaning that your muscles are growing, then stick with your routine and just add more reps and more weight.

some tips I can give you:

  1. stop snacking in between meals: no chips, no cookies, no chocolate, no ice cream, no donuts (you can have those once in a while but not daily)
  2. drink green tea after your meals.
  3. always eat breakfast (I need this)
  4. stop eating when you're bored, eat with purpose (also need to practice this)
  5. drink lots of water to replenish the muscles and overall body.
  6. always eat after you train.
  7. don't fast before lifting weights (especially if your goal is to gain more muscles)
  8. sleep well (7-8 hours recommended)
  9. stay away from toxic people who have you stressed, you need to focus on your overall health.

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2025-04-16T14:05:00+02:00

UCL night

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PSG vs Aston villa was crazy last night because PSG scored two goals in the first half to only be beaten 3-2 by Aston villa by the end of the match but it was okay because PSG already scored 3 goals on the first leg, so they still qualify because it was 5-4 on aggregate. Aston Villa put up a great fight! and I was scared for PSG! what funny is at the beginning of the match Aston villa played the wrong song! they played a Europa league song instead of a champion's league game song!! somebody is getting fired because that's a really big mistake.

Barcelona also qualified yesterday so it's either they play again PSG or Madrid next? we'll see if Madrid qualify today!

Madrid vs Aston Villa: It's hard! the score was 3-0 last week with real Madrid losing ughhhh I don't know if they will qualify but I want them to. It will be a miracle if they qualify, we need Mbappe from 2022 world cup and Jude Bellingham from last season and a Vini from last season as well. Do they have a chance at qualifying? not really but do I have complete faith in them? yes :) because what else am I supposed to do? My boys will deliver.

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2025-04-15T18:30:08+02:00

some things

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My fitness journey is going well but the only thing I am worried about is my gut health and y'all know how much I really want abs or a flat belly but it's tough because I have really bad indigestive issues. On a good day my belly is flat but when my issues start that's when my belly swell up a little. recently I have been drinking a lot of green tea, ginger tea... to help with my gut health and I am so glad that I started doing that because it does help me lose more visceral fat which is fat surrounding the belly. My lower body work out is A1 I have nothing to change because I am seeing great results, but my upper body work out could use some help because I really want a nice muscular back with a nice stomach. I will get there don't worry because I am very determined :) my husband is going to have a hot wife with a nice body. (he will be a lucky man for sure) the fact that next month will make it 1 year of me working out consistently is impressive! my body has changed a lot! especially my glutes! they were wide but now they have a nice, plumped shape :) and they are sticking out!!! thank you to RDL'S

Relationships, well I am just having fun, but I hate it when men move too fast like woah I just met you why are you talking about us being together? and I will not kiss you on the first date either just get your paws off of me! I hate being touched, let me come to you because I will if I want you to touch or kiss me (I will tell you; I am not shy especially if I know you want the same thing) but don't automatically start touching me! that's weird. If I am having fun with you, why are you telling me we will never be together? that shit really pissed me off because you think I don't know that? Did I ask you to be with me? I just want to have a little fun and move on to the next. Just enjoy me while I am there because I will leave and you might never get to see me or talk to me again. some men think every girl want them! I don't want a man who all the girls want because I am super possessive! what's mine is mine and I will not share.

personality, I am kind but not nice. I will always stand up for myself, tell you exactly when you pissed me off and treat you accordingly. I don't let nothing fly without acknowledging it unless it's not that deep then I won't even speak on it. People get Suprise when they see how rude I can be, but I am never rude unless I need to be and even then, I still wish I didn't have to react like that. Believe me when I tell you I can be really mean and act like you don't exist at all especially if you are rude to me. I love myself too much to let anyone mistreat me I'd rather save myself. I am kind not nice and there's a huge difference.

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