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2024-07-12T01:25:40+02:00
Publié depuis Eklablog
Don’t be delusional.
One of the best thing you can do for yourself is to stop being delusional in your dating life. I never limit myself in any other aspect of my life meaning I could be broke today and totally expect myself to be flying first class tomorrow, I am not opposed to that idea. But in my dating life I restrain myself a lot, let me tell you why.
My beliefs may shock you but I believe no one was made for you, the same way you found love yesterday and it went away is the same way you can find another love next month. People are made because God wanted to create them, I don’t believe anyone was made for me. I believe I can find love multiple times in a lifetime with different people( I may not always say this especially when I write poetry but aside from being a poet I am very realistic). My first rule is to Never get too attached to anyone! While dating that person may be telling you how much he loves you today but next month he might be breaking up with you and on his way to date someone else. Always expect someone’s departure because that’s life. No one is yours! Humans aren’t property we are free to choose who we want and where we want to be. I am with you today because I want to be here but tomorrow I can change my mind and you can change your mind too. Nothing was made to last forever, we live and then we die. Sure we were originally made to live forever but sadly the first humans ever created mess that up for the rest of us so we are stuck in this repeating cycle where we are born and then we die.
I am never too attached to any man, where I may be attached to my girl friends never any man! My mom made me that way. I never saw her with any man, she was with my dad today and when he leaves it was only the two of us she never seek attention from anyone else. She raised me to feel complete in my solitude. She taught me a lot and I will forever be grateful. If I don’t find a good man I will totally be fine but I know I want to be a mother! I will make that happen trust me. I am an hopeless romantic but at the same it is so easy for me to detach. I am not made for any man, and no man was made for me. I was made to serve my purpose not to only be someone’s lover and that’s how I see it.
2024-07-11T15:37:17+02:00
Jude Bellingham
I see a lot of girls having a crush on Jude Bellingham but honestly, I don't find him that attractive to me but he is handsome. I just don't have a crush on him maybe it's because I am super loyal to Kylian Mbappe lol I think Mbappe is just soooo dreamy! handsome! confident! and soooo charismatic omg.
2024-07-10T15:28:31+02:00
football edition
- France getting eliminated at the Euros yesterday by Spain does not surprise me! the players are tired! they only scored 3 goals in the euro! Mbappe was injured and had to wear a mask in order to play which caused his vision to be limited.
- Kolomuani sucks at PSG but always manage to strive in equipe de France, I feel bad for him you can see how disappointed he is for not being good at PSG, I want to give him a hug :( I hope next season is better for him if not I can totally see him in the premier league not la Liga because it might be too much for him.
- Lamine Yamal is only 16 years old and already playing for Spain! I guess he's not going back to school because he said if he reached the final, he will not be going back to school :) lol I can't believe this! lol he's not even done hitting puberty.
- people need to stop comparing Ethan Mbappe to his older brother Kylian because they are not the same! Kylian is rare but Ethan has the potential to be good if he keeps working hard, I cannot wait to see them play together at the next world cup maybe?
2024-07-10T12:52:05+02:00
2024-07-10T03:20:40+02:00
Publié depuis Eklablog
Comparison is the thief of joy.
If you’re just starting your fitness journey like me then you might compare your progress with someone else’s and I am here to tell you to never do that. I did that before, I have been trying to get my fitness journey started since 2021! I even got myself a personal trainer but after a few sessions I gave up because I was in it for the wrong reason. I wanted to look good right away not knowing before I even get to that point there are various steps that I needed to take.
For starters abs aren’t made only in the gym, it’s made in the kitchen as well. You have to eat right to get better results, you can work out every single day but if you’re not eating right and eating enough proteins you will not see any progress! I was not ready to be patient, I wanted results right away. When you’re starting your fitness journey you have to be in it to feel good! Stop looking in the mirror daily or checking the scale every day. You have to keep working out even on the days you feel like giving up, the days you want to stay home and not go out. You have to push yourself even if you don’t see the results you want because it takes time! Never compare your 1 month journey with someone’s 2 years journey because it will never be the same and you will not look the same.
The thing is we all have certain genes that we were born with. Some of us were born to have a big booty and others didn’t but that doesn’t mean you won’t be able to achieve it in the gym. You can create a big booty from scratch in the gym. You have to be patient, you have to eat enough and you have to push yourself past your limit. Be gentle with yourself always, motivate yourself daily because no one else will.
2024-07-08T23:24:55+02:00
Publié depuis Eklablog
Dermatologist.
I’ve seen a lot of people using homemade soap by complete strangers on their face and it’s dangerous! Those soaps might do you dirty!
I am not here to say that we shouldn’t support small businesses but we need to be be careful of what we use on our skin. My skincare routine is very simple, I just use a sunscreen daily and at night I use a vegan serum that is soooo gentle on my skin that it’s more like a moisturizer. I can’t use harsh ingredients on my face because my face is sooo sensitive and soooo soft too lol ;)
But I’ve seen people use Kojic acid soap to get rid of hyperpigmentation and I bought one a couple years ago when I was struggling with my skin and it made my skin worse! Also tumeric is bad for my skin. Kojic acid get rid of the melanin in your skin and creates even more hyperpigmentation, it also breaks the skin barrier! Is that what you want?! Trust me you should use trusted products that dermatologist recommend sure it will take a while before you see results but all good things take times but soon enough your skin will be glowing. You should be scared of anything that is quick and easy because what’s the catch?
2024-07-08T13:28:05+02:00
Publié depuis Eklablog
Dating tips #1
This is the number one rule in the book for anyone especially for girls since I am a girl and I am more familiar with us.
If you’re dating a guy and he’s telling you “ I don’t normally go for girls with short hair but you look amazing with yours” run! Let me explain. He will start with your physical appearance first, he might say “ i wish you were taller but you’re cute” girl listen he will start there first and then he will start taking jab at your personality I’ve had a man who I wanted to date tells me “all my exes were more outgoing than you” when he said that I knew it wouldn’t work because what do you mean by that?! You knew I was introverted when you met me even if at times I do show signs of extroversion but you knew what I like to do for fun. It was my mistakes because I always pick guys who are more extroverted than me only because I love their fun sides and I can’t stand pure introverts they’re boring ugh! but sometimes it might be hard for me to keep up with the extroverted people if they want to make plans everyday because baby I need a break, you can’t be in my face everyday. Anyways back to the story, although I really liked the guy but I knew it was my cue to go because being part introverted is my personality ! So I told him let’s not continue, he was shocked because he knew I liked him and he told me he liked me too. You know why I did that? It’s because men are delusional just like us girls but in a more superficial way they believe they will find the girl of their dreams with all the physical appearance they want in a girl one day, and if he keeps pointing out things about you that you cannot change then you’re not his dream girl! Which is fine because when you’re someone’s dream girl he will not want to change anything about you even if he had the chance to do it because he will loves you just the way you are. If he had to pick you again he will do it again and again. When you’re not his dream girl, he will walk around still hoping to find what he’s looking for. Save your tears and just walk away baby girl. You will find love someday but this guy who has a problem with your style, looks or personality is not it.
2024-07-08T02:24:38+02:00
Publié depuis Eklablog
Fit.
For weight management here’s a few recommendations but before I give you the 411 I must tell you I am not a fitness guru nor am I a nutritionist; I am struggling just like you even if I don’t look like it! I just have a positive attitude that’s all.
- I recommend meal prepping for the week that will help you to figure out what you’re going to eat for lunch and breakfast because the first meal of the day is extremely important. I am not a big breakfast eater but I realize I must eat in the morning so that I am not too hungry by lunchtime!
- Have a nutritious breakfast and lunch; try to eat more proteins than unhealthy carbs.
- After a work out have a smoothie to replenish your muscles, especially after an intense work out, you’re going to need a good protein shake for muscle growth because remember we are losing weight but we still want muscles to look tone and beautiful.
- Work out 4-5 days a week and really focus each day on different muscle groups for example: for me everyday I do cardio on the treadmill for 30 minutes and 1 hour on the stair master ( this one is not for the weak! I usually watch something I enjoy like Mbappé highlights or Haaland highlights or I watch the stromae live concert he did in Montreal years ago it was soooo amazing but anyway back to the stair master I worked my way up to do 1 hour on it but I started out by doing just 5-20 minutes and now it’s easier for me to stay, this machine tones out your whole body and help you lose excess fat) but on Mondays, Tuesdays or Wednesdays I do core work outs, ab work outs, and back work outs, also work out my quads. Fridays and Saturdays I do leg day and glutes work out. Actually I do little glute work outs some of the other days but without weights because you need to let your muscle rest for them to grow if you’re constantly work out a muscle daily it will not grow as you want it to, it might even shrink!
- Sleep for 8 hours daily! You need sleep to work out and feel energized.
- Make sure you’re not hungry before a work out, eat something 1 or 2 hours before because if you don’t have enough energy you won’t perform well.
2024-07-07T16:52:57+02:00
Publié depuis Eklablog
I don’t mean to brag well actually I am not bragging because this really happened this week! And I was smiling from ear to ear.
I helped someone write a professional letter for a job this week and that person told me “wow you’re really good at this!” When that person told me that I was moved! I was soooo happy to hear that it was the best compliment I’ve ever gotten this year! I love it when people compliment my writing! I have been writing since I was a little girl. I had my first diary at 5 years old, I don’t have it my mother has it. Now. When I read it again in my teenage years it was the cutest thing! I always loved to read and write; if I could do one thing in life it would be writing! I’ve always wanted a writing job. I do document a lot in my job but I want to write stories :) that’s all I want to do in life make people happy with my stories.