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2024-12-14T03:57:09+01:00

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Publié par Gaelle.R

 

Story time.

 

A guy approached me at the gym recently while I was doing my work out well actually I was in the middle of switching exercises and getting some stuff to work out with. He bumped into me and the first thing he says was “hey can we be friends” I pull my headphones aside because I am always wearing my noise canceling headphones and they’re big so I was like “what” then he repeated  what he said. Someone asking me can we be friends sounds so innocent but I knew that’s not what he meant. But when I look at his face I could tell he seems nice so that’s why I did what I did next.

 

He looked very young so I asked him how old he was and he said 25 ( I don’t talk to anyone younger than me, I just see you like my little brother I’m sorry) I knew he didn’t have a chance to start with because I don’t date anyone outside of my religious beliefs ( so there’s nothing there because we’re not equally yoke) he kept asking questions then the final big one ( can I have your number ) oh boy ugh so yes I gave it to him because I didn’t know what else to do plus I was dizzy after my sets lol I could barely seen him. I knew I wasn’t going to talk to him, then he came next to me while I was doing my cardio he was a little annoying because he kept talking my ears off. Ugh I already don’t like talking at the gym, we can just work out in silence we don’t need to talk. So that bothered me. Immediately after I left and I mean right in the parking lot I just blocked him. Sorry it’s a no for me. I saw him again today and guessed what I looked right past him because baby I’m not the one for you and you’re not the one for me. 

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2024-12-13T19:16:10+01:00

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Publié par Gaelle.R

 

I saw a quote that says “ once you are married your spouse become more important than your parents” I don’t agree at all!

 

Your parents are the ones who brought you into this world and if the person you love truly loves you they will be very grateful that your parents made someone like you. I wouldn’t let my husband talk to his mother any which way or my mother either! You need to respect your parents! You need to love them, you need to be there for them. Ignoring them for your spouse is disgusting! Your spouse is important and so is your parents. 

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2024-12-13T16:42:43+01:00

take this with a grain of salt.

Publié par Gaelle.R

This is solely my opinion from my observation, I am not being conceited at all if anything I have many insecurities and that's okay because we all do.

From what I see some girls are either very jealous of me or they go out of their way to ignore me like girl I saw you looking at me with your dirty looks which I literally thrive on, I love it I will make you even more sick with my dramatics.  perhaps it's because I don't look friendly at first, so they think I'm a B*** but that's just my face, I am actually really nice when you speak to me. I am not the one to start being friendly if you gave me no reason to be, I am very standoff-ish, reserved, out of the mix. I do my own thing, I have my own style, my own interest overall I am just who I am, and some people have a problem with that. You know what's funny? half of the times when I stay by myself and not engage, I am just anxious, but some people think that I think that I am better than them! well, I blame my shyness and my anxiety in public. some people take my confidence as arrogance but baby I work out 5 days a week to look like that do you know how tiring that is!? it's through tears and sweat I achieved this, and I just started they really gonna be sick in a year lol. I wasn't born with my body I had to work hard in the gym for it and I am a girl's girl I can give you my work out routine and teach you if you want. I am really sweet and nice when I feel welcome. I don't care who hate me, I'm always going to be who I am and that's someone: who speaks her mind, love Jehovah, love cats, love football and does her own thing. I don't mind being alone.

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2024-12-13T03:03:31+01:00

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Publié par Gaelle.R

I’m the worse person to ask to give you space, I’m barely alive and trust me when I say “you’ll never hear from me again.”Talking to me is a privilege in itself, cherish every moment because  you can wake up blocked tomorrow. I say goodbye to anyone, no one is special.

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2024-12-12T15:46:45+01:00

you

Publié par Gaelle.R

wish I could stop time when we're together,

wish you wouldn't have to leave.

wish you could stay.

for you baby 💗💖

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2024-12-11T15:11:21+01:00

the honeymoon phase

Publié par Gaelle.R

Imagine this you just started dating someone you really like, and everything is going great for the first 2 weeks, you both communicate well and express how much you love each other then suddenly the arguments start... let me give you, my opinion (not that you asked)

the number one reason couples fight at first is mainly for attention, or for miscommunications. The only way to resolve this is to be honest to each other and to be completely transparent. Let them know when you are unavailable (don't just assume they know because they might take that as a sign that you are ignoring them) at the beginning of a relationship the bound is fragile and they don't fully trust you yet, trust comes with time so you will need to give them a reason to trust you by being honest.

If you are fighting for every little thing or have frequent fall outs in the first 6 months or 1 year into the relationship, then it's probably not the right person for you. No matter how in love you are, you deserve someone who understands you or who's willing to put in the effort to understand you and to learn your own language (meaning your way of talking, your sarcasm, your love language) If you are already fighting imagine what it will be like 5 years into a marriage?! for me I can't deal with any fights, I need peace. if you are toxic then that's when I will give you your money's worth and I hate being toxic. I want a soft love where we are both honest with one another and tell each other everything. 

 

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2024-12-11T03:39:51+01:00

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Publié par Gaelle.R

 

Today has been a weird day for me! 

Everything was out of order, my phone broke and stopped working. I had to purchase a new phone when I didn’t plan on doing that. I didn’t eat my lunch on time well eventually I ate but still ! 

 

I didn’t even work out today because I am just so exhausted from all the stress today. I’m just going to rest because tomorrow is leg day and best believe it I will give it my all.

 

Anyways I have to sleep early tonight :)

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2024-12-10T16:35:21+01:00

OCD

Publié par Gaelle.R

Hey you guys,

I am choosing to talk about this topic because it means a lot to me, and I want to express my thoughts. I do suffer from mild OCD, it's not bad to the point where I have to wash my hands 100 times a day. My symptoms are with order and routine.  for example:

  1. I park in the same spot and if I have to park somewhere else, I will feel so uneasy. especially at my apartment complex. I'll get over it eventually but at first it will bother me.
  2. if I forget to bring an item with me, my day is ruined! I need it ugh I need it I won't be able to function
  3. if someone takes my spot at the gym on Mondays when I do my dumbbells work out, I feel lost! mad and even upset but that's a good thing because when I am mad, I take it out on myself what better way to do it by lifting heavier? so in a way that works out.
  4. I am a creature of habits, if you're close to me you will know what I am doing all hours of the day without you asking because I always do it the same way every time. Each day is already planned out: I watch certain shows on some days, I eat a certain things on some days... If I do it differently, I won't be able to function properly. I need order in all of my things. I need a clean space otherwise I will go insane! 
  5. if I am doing a set at the gym and miscounted, I have to start over otherwise I did nothing lol! 

The moment I realize what works for me is the moment I truly became free; I know I can't rest until things are perfect. I can't relax unless I do certain things around the house or things that need to get done. 

I was misdiagnosed before because when I am really depressed, I do certain things over and over again but it's more of a soothing mechanism than it is attributed to OCD. 

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