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I am destroying my legs this week end ;)
the pain I’m going to feel tomorrow is gonna be so worth it !
2024-11-09T20:42:19+01:00
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2024-11-09T18:01:06+01:00
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What NOT to do after a break up.
- Watch sad movies or sad post on social media. Actually I would suggest doing a social media cleanse, unfollow the person on all platforms. Don’t post sad quotes, the relationship is over but your life is not. Believe me you will move on and you will fall in love with someone else again if not harder. Don’t stalk their page on social media if you struggle with that then simply block them while you’re moving on. You can unblock them later if you’d like but you don’t have to.
- Don’t propose to stay friends. If someone breaks up you or break your heart we can all agree there’s no way you can be friends with that person again if you truly loved them, it’s like hurting yourself each time you talk to them. You will always wonder if they moved on, do they still love you? Are they seeing someone else? All of which is none of your business. Just focus on you! That’s your priority. Don’t try to contact them either, leave them alone. Cry in your privacy do not seek sympathy from them the relationship ended for a reason and always remember what that reason is and accept it, even if it’s hard at first but I promise with time it’ll be okay.
- Don’t contact their friends to see what they are up to. So you don’t think their friends will tell them you’re trying to know what’s going on with them!? It’s drama and you’re giving the person power over you. Just leave them alone and like I said before FOCUS ON YOU!
- Do not write them letters or send them things in the mail. Ugh embarrassing, just leave it alone. You’re begging and nothing is more unattractive than someone begging for love. Remember that they had you and they let you go if that’s not insulting enough for you then I don’t know what is. They’re basically telling you they can find better somewhere else so let them go.
- Do not cry for more than a month. Dwelling in your pain will not help the moving on process. I personally give myself 3 days or 1 week at most. I am not a very emotional person and I can shut myself off the world easily, but maybe because I’m traumatized by love so nothing phase me anymore but I am well aware that there are people who fall in love deeply and letting go of someone they love feels like the end of the world well I’m here to tell you it’s not! You can cry but at some point you will need to stop and keep going with your life. You haven’t meet all the people you are going to meet yet.
- Do not keep their pictures on your phone or in your house. Just throw it all out, do not hold on to memories that will only hurt you even more. Just let it go.
- Do not stalk them. I don’t know what’s more embarrassing sending someone who broke up with you a love letter or stalking them. I am not judging lol but when you moved on even yourself will admit that what you did was stupid! We live in a day and age where you can reach anyone from anywhere in the world in seconds, you don’t think if that person wanted you they would have found a way to get in contact with you?. If the person you still love and you’re still fighting to let go of doesn’t contact you it simply means they don’t want you as much you want them or not at all.
2024-11-08T20:43:25+01:00
Publié depuis Eklablog
One thing I want to share about fitness with anyone who's interested is that, if you are looking to lose weight but you are lifting weights a lot you might not see any change on the scale because you may be losing body fat, but you are also gaining muscle weight which is why your clothes may fit better or even looser yet you weigh the same. You may lose 3 pounds of body fat but if you gain 3 pounds of muscle the scale will remain the same, with that being said I don't even weigh myself anymore because every time I do I am disappointed that I am not losing that much weight yet my clothes feel different and I am gaining muscles... it takes a while to see a drastic change but that doesn't mean that you are not making progress. If you work out consistently, I can assure you that your body is changing for the better.
if you want to reach your goals:
- you have to eat the same meal and cut out fast food.
- do the same exercises for months because people think you need to change your exercises, but truth is you don't you just have to increase the weight because the more you do the same exercises the better you will get at doing them meaning you will have proper form so now you can gradually add more weight as you go.
- go to sleep early so that you can get a full 8 hours or more of sleep because after an intensive work out you will need to rest, and sleep is the best way to do that!
- if you want to gain muscles you have to stop eating fried food (you can eat that once in a while for a cheat day) eat good protein for example: salmon, quinoa, eggs, protein shakes, steak is ok too, but I try to avoid it because it takes longer to digest and it makes me bloated so not too much of that for me.
- less alcohol because that slows down the body and you may retain a lot of fat in your gut, that doesn't apply to me the last time I had a drink was in July and before that I had a drink back in January. I only drink 2 months a year December and January that's it unless I am out with someone but at my house, I only buy alcohol for 2 months out of the year.
- drink lots of water to replenish the muscle and the body.
2024-11-08T14:04:35+01:00
Publié depuis Eklablog
You don’t have to say a word,
Baby I know what you want.
I promise to take my time,
you’ll never have to beg.
I’ll be the best you ever had.
You won’t feel the same again.
You know what you came for.
I want it just as bad.
Stroke it roughly,
Kiss me softly.
I’ll take care of you,
Take you to another universe.
Baby you can fall,
I’ll catch you.
2024-11-08T13:54:51+01:00
Publié depuis Eklablog
When I see you my mind goes blank, suddenly I can’t form a sentence.
Oh boy what you do to me.
When you talk to me I say the wrong thing, I’ m so nervous.
Oh just kiss me.
When you look at me my heart stops.
Oh baby you take my breath away.
When you take me in your arms, I want to live again.
Oh baby I’m yours.
2024-11-05T15:00:26+01:00
2024-11-05T13:43:56+01:00
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Signs you’re ready to get married (part 2) Christian edition
- You are not afraid of commitment and you know soon enough that the person you are dating is the person you want to spend the rest of your life with.
- You both have similar spiritual goals or at least you’re willing to support the other person and you want them to accomplish those spiritual goals
- You are not afraid to talk about hard topics like finances, trauma, your spiritual habits whether bad or good, your mistakes, your failures.
- You are transparent with your lover, you let them know everything that is going on and you always make them feel included in anything that you are doing.
- You respect their boundaries and you understand them. You don’t try to change them or to make them act the way you want them to. You let them be themselves because that’s what you like about them.
- You have shared interest, you can talk about everything. you can hang out the whole day and still want to see them again as soon as you are apart from each other.
- You love how they look ( that’s important because love also has to do with physical attraction if you don’t find the person you’re dating attractive then how are you supposed to be in love ?) you can’t keep your hands off of them and I don’t mean that in a sexual way. It can be just simply as holding their hands, resting your hand on their waistline, kissing them on the forehead (that’s the most romantic kiss)
- You can’t think of anyone else, you know they are the only one for you. Your eyes and your thoughts don’t wander.
- You talk to them daily! You love their voice and how they communicate.
- You love their laughs, you can’t think about anything you hate about them! There are some things you might not like but they aren’t deal breakers. Nothing that are character flaws at least.
- You can afford the ring! If you can’t afford the ring well think about the wedding ! lol
2024-11-04T05:34:09+01:00
Publié depuis Eklablog
Weird thins I like in men
- I like when they wear black collared shirts and black fitted pants
- Has a cute nose
- Has a soft voice, big voice scares me.
- Does some things weird, example: he puts the milk before the cereal, or only wears certain clothing brand or certain colors I find stuff like that cute. Like the way I write all my Y backwards lol I can’t help it
- Clean cuts, I hate messy hair in men
- When they wear rings and bracelets but manly bracelet
- Has a pet, ugh you’re literally daddy
- Cooks ! That is so cute to me, like you can feed me wow!
- Drive with one hand and turn with one hand, ugh so manly
- Does yard work ugh if he knew what he’s doing to me gosh
- Wears an apron while cooking ugh so hot
- Gets excited while talking about something they’re interested in
- Read books ugh so freaking hot. Love that you stimulate your mind :)
- Work out, I love it because we can do it together and we can motivate each other
2024-11-04T04:37:32+01:00
2024-11-04T02:45:32+01:00
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Signs you’re ready or not ready to get married Christian edition
First let’s start with the signs you’re not ready (based on my opinion by the way)
- You don’t have a strong relationship with God, if you don’t have a good relationship with your creator how do you expect to date someone the right way? You will make mistakes and it may not work because the relationship will not be centered around God? If the other person is also a Christian they might not want to continue to date you because your priorities do not match theirs or you could cause the other person to fall! Also have a strong relationship with God will not only save your romantic relationship but it will make it last longer. If you are a man, how are you supposed to lead her if you’re not right with God?
- You can’t submit to a man, if you are a woman and you often struggle to submit to a man then marriage may not be for you if you cannot accept that the man is the head of the household. I get it, because I was once a feminist and it was hard for me to hear words like “you can’t, don’t__, you need to, you have to” coming from a man because those words used to trigger me but I had a reason because I went through something traumatic and I hated men for the longest time, so I couldn’t take any orders from any men that wasn’t my father (or a father figure because I grew up with my uncle who’s like a second father to me). I hated when a man would tell me what to do, that part of me is gone but it took me a long time to let go of the feeling that I need to be seen as equal to a man because truth is no woman is equal to a man and they will never be the sooner most woman accept that a good man can lead them is the better. As women we are emotional beings and a man is more hands on, more practical and he will be quicker to make a decision. Men are stronger than us, they are providers and we need to let them lead. I have no problem being submissive to my husband especially if he’s living a life that God will approve of. I will stand by him and support him
- Not financially stable. If you struggle to save money or you don’t have enough money then how can you take care of a family? You’re just asking for more problems and more stress. Get your finance in order first.
- Can’t afford an apartment or house, if you can’t do those things then where are you and your spouse going to live I hope you don’t plan to stay at the parents house!
Sign you are ready
- You are emotionally mature. Meaning you can communicate your needs well and you know what you want.
- You have a great relationship with God your life is not centered around material things but your mind is set on making God happy.
- You have your priorities straight. You can handle your money, you have a good paying job, you have a car, you can afford a place to stay.
Wait I have more but I have a headache I’ll write a part 2 later