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"I am sending a lot of love to anyone trying to heal from things they don't discuss and moving on from people they did not date." Me
2020-11-02T02:59:53+01:00
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2020-11-01T23:01:37+01:00
Publié depuis Eklablog
During this pandemic, a lot of things have changed including our relationships with some people. Since we had to quarantine and stay away from big groups, family members, friends, and lovers we tend to feel alone at times. Without realizing our mental health can be at stake, we tend to keep busy or at least try since our ways of having fun has been decreasing. All of us have to acknowledge that our lives aren't the same anymore, some of us have been spending a lot of time alone (including me) that can lead to depression, anxiety, and other mental health issues. This is not my way of admitting that I have a mental health issue but I cannot deny that I am not the same and some of us aren't either.
Some days I wake up full of energy and I want to go out but other days it is so hard for me to get out of bed or even try to start my day. Honestly, we all feel like this but I try not to make it seems unimportant. It is extremely important that we feel good because when we feel good we look good. One way to keep our mental health in a good place is, to be honest with ourselves meaning if you're feeling sad then admit that you are and if it lasts more than a month or a few weeks then accept that you may have depression. I know it is easier said than done but for someone who has been there the sooner you admit that you have a problem the sooner it is to find a solution. This year has been tough on everyone which is why it is always good to find a way to detox by expressing how you feel to someone that you trust. Keeping things in is not going to solve any problems that you have at the moment.
2020-11-01T03:26:46+01:00
Publié depuis Eklablog
"I don't need to know how many people you've dated and who you've been out with, all that matters is that I'm here now."Me
2020-11-01T02:57:52+01:00
Publié depuis Eklablog
"Sometimes when bad stuff is getting out of your life, your skin breaks out because the toxicity has been there for too long. Not to worry because when good things are entering your life the glow is inevitable. Perhaps some water can draw out the toxicity fast enough." Me
2020-10-30T22:05:35+01:00
words that I hate. I will add some everyday.
- SIS. ugh, it sounds so shady.
- SWEETY. to me that is not a sweet title it feels like a pet name.
- tagging alone. I mean was I even invited?!
- FAT, FATTY. That is an insult and you will never hear those words coming out of my mouth.
- UGLY. I hate that word and I never felt like I had the gut to call someone that.
2020-10-30T21:49:28+01:00
perfect day
A snowy day or a rainy day while I am home writing with a nice cup of tea that would fill my taste buds, while the TV is on I am not sure what I would be watching but I am sure it would be about fashion or something funny. My perfect day isn't perfect until I feel completely relaxed and stuffed with delicious food.
2020-10-30T20:42:29+01:00
currently.
we live in a very vast world, where the people you know may not be who you think they are. Not to sound bitter I admit some people do surprise me, sometimes they turn out to be great after I judge them with one glance. There are some people that I gave my trust without a second thought only to find myself in a hole of disappointments and lies. we live in a world where the same people who smile at you and give you compliments are planning to sabotage you and put you in a special place in their hearts called "hatred files". I really did not want to sound bitter but when I started to write this I intended to speak the truth. There are some people who truly have your best interest at heart and personally, I give everyone the benefit of the doubt and that is until they prove me wrong.
some people aren't really listening to your problems they are just happy to listen to you rant about your struggles while they feel better about themselves. I want someone to prove me wrong, prove to me that there are some good people out there. I truly want to see the best in people but after so many failed attempts at trying to prove myself wrong I am slowly giving up. I used to feel like I always have to be someone's friend, someone's listener, someone's late-night talker but lately, I just want to be my own friend. I want to be my biggest supporter even if that means being alone in the fight but I realize that I am more powerful alone.
2020-10-29T02:56:17+01:00
fun fact
- If you're my friend or a family member chances are I have already send you a picture of a cat that I am obsessed with either on Instagram or Pinterest and sadly all you find that annoying but guess what I can't help it.
- I ask a lot of questions. Sometimes I ask questions that I already know the answer to sorry I probably hate the silence.
- I say "it's okay" a lot and 9 out of 10 times I do not mean it.
- I do not like small talk but I can endure it.
- I don't like watching regular tv with channels, give me Netflix, amazon prime, hulu, disney +,youtube and HBO.
- I love SNL skits
- I still do pinky promises
- I am not an anime fan sorry it's just not for me.
- I don't watch scary movies because they are disturbing in so many ways
- I am obsessed with skincare routine.
- I love rom-coms
- I look younger than I look and I sound younger too.
- I love red just as much as I like pink.
2020-10-25T23:53:06+01:00
Publié depuis Eklablog
Be heavy on self-love,
Be heavy on walking away when respect is not being served.
Make yourself unavailable to drama.
Don't be afraid to say no when you want to say no.
Keep your distance when you're presence is not needed.
2020-10-25T03:07:48+01:00
love?
I don't know who needs to hear this but love doesn't hurt,
love doesn't manipulate.
It does not make you want to hurt someone.
Love is not pain.
Love is not playing games until the game is over.
Love is not pretending we have something special.
Love does not lie,
it is clear and simple.
Love doesn't drive you crazy,
It surely does not make you want to run someone over with a car.
Love is everything but chaos.
Love always makes sense, don't believe it when it's confusing.
Love is like a breath of fresh air,
it is not polluted air.
love doesn't make you cry
unless it is tears of joy.
love doesn't make you scream
unless it is for pleasure.