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2020-12-23T03:03:09+01:00
You can't be disappointed if you're not expecting anything from anyone.
You can't lose if you're not in the game.
You can't be jealous if you're not in love.
You can't be looking if your eyes are closed.
You can't hate when your heart is filled with love.
2020-12-23T00:59:11+01:00
I am making taco Tuesday right at home and I cannot wait to devour those tacos. I am currently in the kitchen and my shrimp aren't done yet! Today was a great day I managed to remain positive and grateful for everything even the smallest things such as finding an available parking space, getting chocolate at work even if I am not going to eat them. I don't remember a time RECENTLY that I was bitter about anything.
I realize the secrets to a stress-free life is to let things be, let things go, and be grateful for everything. I don't worry that I was not invited at anything anymore (with this pandemic I could care less). I don't get upset when someone tries to make me mad I just smile and move on in my head I just say " not today you're not going to ruin my day" I don't worry about who likes who, who hates me, who this or that I'm just doing me and getting bigger lol.
2020-12-22T01:49:07+01:00
2020-12-21T04:41:47+01:00
we live in a world where there are a lot of trends and some people tend to keep a persona just so they can be liked or accepted by others. Having morals is becoming really rare and if you speak about your morals people will classify you as a "prude". I have my own morals from when I was little that I still keep and some of them I will never cross until I get married. I do not care if anyone has a problem with what I believe in and what I accept because I am only doing what works for me. It may not work for some people and everyone doesn't have to do what I do.
The most important thing In my opinion is to believe in something because if you don't believe in anything you will fall for everything. Set your boundaries and keep them, put a price on yourself because if you don't set a price someone else will do it for you. Ladies value yourself, love yourself first before you let any man in your life. Don't let any man force you into doing anything that you are not comfortable doing. As a woman, we tend to be easily persuaded by a man we love forgetting that he could be our downfall. Don't ever be ashamed of who you are or how you look because you were made by a God who loves and values you more than any man.
To be honest, I don't need a man to survive I can be successful without a man. I am never too attached to any guy which is why I always say don't ever get too comfortable because if you cross me at any given moment you can become a stranger. I value myself too much to accept disrespect from family or friends.
2020-12-20T23:53:55+01:00
hey,
How is everyone doing? I'm doing okay, I was going through some things but I took a 4 hours nap and I'm good now. I am very interested in mental health, the way the human mind works, and behavioral disorders which is the reason why I wanted to study psychology right out of high school but my mom literally threw a fit because quoting "I'm already quiet, hard to comprehend and hold everything in it will be hard for me to cope with all the things I'm going to hear and learn" I know she cares about me but I am sure if I really wanted to study psychology I would just do it. I can still help someone even if I cannot treat mental health but I can touch someone's heart with my words, I can help someone get out of the darkness that they are in. I've had my fair share of issues with mental health, staying positive, and trying to stay alive... when I write about how strong I am none of you know half of it.
Mental health is extremely important, your mind is one of the things that is keeping you alive and in good spirit. When your mind is not working properly your whole body suffers which is why you cannot concentrate, cannot sleep properly, cannot eat when your mind is not well. some days I have to talk to myself and be my own coach/ some days I literally have to fight my demons to make myself believe that I need to keep going and that my best is enough. You have to believe that you're enough even when you don't feel it.
2020-12-20T18:43:33+01:00
Have you ever fall in love with someone you haven't even talk to? only the daydreamers will understand.
Have you ever look at someone and think if this person were to disappear from my life nothing will ever make sense?.
Have you ever been hugged so tight that you can feel all the bones in your body being put back into place?
2020-12-20T01:37:02+01:00
Always wonder why I was never invited,
even If I knew that I wasn't going.
Always wonder why I was never in the group chat,
even if I would mute the chat and never say anything.
2020-12-14T04:37:08+01:00
When I tell someone that I am busy the person might think that I am being fancy but no I am extremely busy. Every hour of the week and weekends counts. I have work, family, spiritual things, self-care (barely), sleeping time because one thing that I do differently now is that I leave time for me to sleep. I love being busy, I was only free during quarantine but now most things have gone back to normal.
I don't have time to just do nothing, I keep a busy schedule because there's so much that I need to do.
2020-12-12T05:08:21+01:00
Hey there? how is everyone doing? I know you all probably debating if you should take the covid vaccine right now, I don't have much to say except that I'll wait and see.
The fact that all of this going on can make some of us spend a lot of time in our heads, I do it a lot which is why I am trying to make it a nice place to be in. The truth is we have all been hard on ourselves but some of us do it constantly until it's becoming impossible to believe that we can be better. Personally, I've always been really hard on myself even when I say to someone else "it will be okay, you will get over this" I never believe those words at first when I say them to myself. One thing I will say, it does nothing to speak badly about yourself, to say "if I was this way maybe things would be different" one thing that I can say you are exactly where you're supposed to be just make the best out of it and take time to learn whatever you can.
I often see my weakness as an obstacle forgetting that I can use them for the greater good. I can use whatever I have inside of me to create something great. I can change who I am anytime I am not tied up to my past or my circumstances. I am always trying to be better, to do better, to get better because all of the good things are out there I just need to believe that I can find them.
2020-12-09T05:13:02+01:00
extra: I am also classy I cannot forget that one. I am soft-spoken and my style is always classy never trashy!
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