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2025-09-15T00:18:36+02:00

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Publié par Gaelle.R

 

I hope the person I date is not too clingy because that would really bother me. I would hate if he is asking me way too many questions about my tight routine like why I am spending 2 hours at the gym or why do I sleep so much? 

When I am talking to a guy I always tell him about my tight schedule because if that doesn’t work for you then leave me alone because I will not change it because you simply want me to do something that would benefit you. There are a ton of girls out here actually a lot more than man, so pick the girl that suits you best and leave me out of the equation trust me I will not be mad. 

I hope that guy will let me live my life and supports me but still knows that I love him. I love feeling free because the moment I feel suffocated I might put a little distance. 

I hope we have our time together and our alone time as well. I just want to feel loved and supported not smothered and kept on a leash. 

I want him to be happy doing what he likes to do, I will cheer him on and I hope he does the same for me. 

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2025-09-13T19:23:28+02:00

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Publié par Gaelle.R

 

Charlie Kirk 

 

I don’t condone any violence against anyone whether you have a reason to commit such crime or not. What happened to Charlie is extremely sad, you can agree with me and you can also disagree. Killing anyone is the worse sin there is, no one has the right to kill anyone. However, Everyone has a right to their own opinion, the same way a gay couple feel they should have the right to get married and walk down the street holding hands and everyone should be okay with it is the same way Charlie could sit down and talk about his views on abortion, same sex marriage … except he didn’t force anyone to agree with what he had to say. He always stated that he is expressi his views because he has the freedom to speak freely. One could disagree with some of his views but it was never a reason  to shoot him in front of his family. I agree with a lot of the things he said, one could argue but you’re a black woman, so? There are some things he said I didn’t agree with but everyone has the right to speak about their opinions. He simply did not deserve to die like that. He was 31 years old with 2 kids and a wife. He was a human being before anything, he was a father before anything else he did. His political views shouldn’t matter because he’s a human. God told us to love everyone even the neighbor you can’t stand yeah you have to tolerate  him, I didn’t make that up it’s one of the commandments.

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2025-09-12T16:23:13+02:00

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Publié par Gaelle.R

why I am scary: 

I'll simply leave

I won't yell, or even tell you anything. I'll just disappear, you will wonder what you did wrong? actually it was never one thing, it was multiple things you did and I have a folder for everyone. You did one final thing recently that solidify my reasons for leaving, I never leave for something light. I leave when I feel disrespected, undervalued, taken for granted, ignored...

I won't seek closure because I knew what happened, and I have been paying attention to who you are as a person so trust me I won't expect more from anyone who's not capable of giving me more than they have already given me. I don't expect anyone to change suddenly when they see me leaving. My leave has nothing to do with the person but more to do with my self respect. whether or not you've change is on you but as for me I am gone.

It doesn't matter how much I love someone, I will leave. I stopped talking to my own mother for 1 week for something she did. I said my own MOTHER! I don't love anyone more than her, she's my whole life. I talk to her daily, if I do anything I call her. I tell my mom everything even the things you wouldn't think someone would tell their mother, I tell her. She knows everyone I talk to by name and by face (I sent pictures) she's my confidant.  we talk 10 times a day! imagine this I stopped talking to her. she was shocked! I told her "unless you're willing to change that we don't have to talk daily, I will always love you but this is a big problem for me". I will never love anyone more than I love my mother, I will love my child just as much but my mother is my whole life. If I am willing to walk away from HER imagine little you? or anyone else?

If you ignore me, I'll leave. I won't ask why. if you stop talking to me then I won't talk to you either...good riddance. I never beg, seek closure, or plead anyone to stay. If you want to go then go. No matter how much it hurts or How much I love you I will walk away. No one is safe.

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2025-09-12T14:54:01+02:00

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Publié par Gaelle.R

I am very straight forward person, my interest are very on the dot. The basic things anyone need to know about me (well if you care)

  • I like football and I am obsessed with Mbappe but not in a romantic way, I see him as the most enticing human being. I find him extremely attractive, talented, best football player, funny, kind, confident ok maybe I do have a crush on him! ugh so what? also yes the screen savers on all of  my devices is always a picture of Mbappe lol
  • I like working out. My whole personality is kinda based around the gym, I will mention that I was working out or about to work out in any conversation doesn't matter who's speaking to me lol. I want to have a gym bestie who's just as obsessed as me so that we can talk about work outs, macros and our diet, how to make food with the highest proteins, discussing gym fits and best athletic brand, protein powder... ugh Jehovah please send me a gym obsessed bestie, I already have a spiritual bestie.
  • I am a writer. I am always writing in my phone, in my diary, on a napkin, a random piece of paper, my hands...I love to write about anything that's how I process my emotions.
  • I love reading. Right now I am obsessed with dark romance and psychology so any genre of book about those topics I am down like the economy to read them.
  • cats. If you see me then picture a cat. I love big cats, domesticated cats, wild cats... any cats I am obsessed. Basically cats, cats, cats that's all me. If you have a cat send me pics whenever I will lose it and tell you how pretty you cat is. I will stop on the street to pet a random cat, I'll wash my hands later.
  • sleeping. I am always taking a nap or pl;aning to take a nap when I have free time. I love sleeping, I am excited just thinking about taking a nap later lol.
  • eating. I love food, I am always thinking about what I am going to cook for my meal prep for the week because it has to be yummy and high in protein.
  • Matcha. I am obsessed with matcha, I cannot drink coffee so I can only drink matcha, or chai tea or refreshers. My body hates caffeine that's why I can't take pre work outs.
  • love F1 and obsessed with Charles Leclerc I think he's really cute can't wait for him to win another Monaco grand prize again with Ferrari :)))

all you need to know: basically football, Mbappe, Matcha, gym, food, sleep, CATS, books, F1...

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2025-09-11T17:24:45+02:00

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Publié par Gaelle.R

sentences that trigger me:

  • anything that starts with " you need to" I am not listening because first of all I don't need to do anything. I will do what I want.  If I feel like you're giving me an order I won't listen, just politely suggest something to me and I'll listen. I don't feeling as if I am being controlled by other people. Give me the freedom to chose what I want and I'll appreciate you more.
  • "calm down" first of all no one has ever calmed down in the history of telling someone to calm down. If we are joking and you tell me to calm down then that's fine. If there's already tension in the room just be quiet and let me be because if you keep talking in my ear I will snap. 

I'll add more later

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2025-09-09T16:29:32+02:00

natural hair struggles

Publié par Gaelle.R

At times I do get tired of doing my hair even if I do it once a week, but sometimes I want to change it or style it differently. Do I want to get braids? not necessarily, I think that I am desensitize to added hair. I love my afro but at times I want to put more effort in, especially it shrinks a lot at the moment because of the humidity and because I work out a lot. I still don't want to wear wigs, braids or any added hair. what you see is what you get, I won't make anyone else feel bad about how they choose to do their hair. If it looks good trust me I will tell them. 

But I am looking for more hairstyle to rotate because I am getting bored...

Back to the drawing board or pinterest lol there I will find tons of hairstyle to try...it will be fun :)

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2025-09-08T21:16:41+02:00

immigration issues

Publié par Gaelle.R

Life is uncertain for many people in the US currently, and my heart goes out to those people who are going through immigration issues. I have some of my closest friends going through this, I wish we could all live in a safe place. But the prophecies in the bible are accomplishing, in the last days there will be violence, discrimination, war... and as I was saying a lot of the things that were written in the bible a long time ago are happening right now.

It is sad to think the people who were once welcomed here by the government are now forced to go back to their home countries, well it's not a done decision, we have to wait and see what will happen but it's not looking too good. I don't want my friends to be unsafe, I want them to be happy and to be in a world where they can just wake up and walk down the street without the fear of being shot

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2025-09-08T16:37:22+02:00

girl code?

Publié par Gaelle.R

I am not extreme when it comes to my crushes and my friends; I understand that you don't always chose who you love, if both me and my friend likes the same guy which happened twice already when I was a kid. Both times I told the girl if he likes you and he picks you I won't be mad, you can have him I will back off! I must've been 8 or 9! I've always been mature for my age. That girl was my best friend and I had no problem leaving the guy when he picked her, that guy was also my best friend lol. when they would talk on the phone in front of me it would hurt but I would just walk away and find something else to do to get my mind off things. I stopped talking to the guy until I moved on and we became best friends again after. That guy was my first love and yes I dated him for 1 week lol, it felt weird because we were destined to be best friends not romantically involved.

It did cross my mind that if she was truly my friend she would have left him alone but even at that age I understood love was complicated so I let them be together even if it did hurt me. I thought what if he picked me? I would have gladly dated him so I understood where she was coming from. 

The only time girl code is enforced for me is if the guy is already my boyfriend then he is off limits, no touching him, no calling him on the phone, no texting him if you need something ask me lol. But if I am not dating the guy then he can do whatever he wants but if he knows I like him and still pick my friend ... I would be upset but what can I do? love is love and if he was the love of my life he would have never done that. I always move on. Forcing something that's not good for me is never something I will allow myself to do.

I am not one of those girls If I like a guy my friends can't talk to him, I don't care. If he's my guy he will not entertain my friends and if they're my friends they would not entertain him or cross the boundaries. I will find out even when they think I won't. I will see the signs and if I don't see it I will have a dream that they aren't being honest with me and I am always right. I may not say anything but I always know. The guy I like is the one I look at, how does he treat me and my friends? does he pay more attention to them? Liking someone doesn't have to mean that they are your person. The same way I can like a guy today is the same way I can like another guy tomorrow.

Girl code: if I like a guy and my friend is touching him inappropriately and they know I like the guy, I'll know who my frenemies are but I won't even tell her anything I'll just distance myself.

My friend can date my ex if I moved on, I don't care you can have him. 

I am talking to this guy currently well rather he's talking to me because I am not interested, my friend think he's cute so I told her listen I don't like him if you like him you can talk to him. she was shocked! she was like no he likes you and I said and? I don't care I don't like him. You can talk to him if you want. 

If someone is no use to me and my friend likes him then babe go ahead shoot your shot... don't let me be in the way of you finding love.

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