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2020-01-29T15:44:23+01:00

find your passion

Publié par Gaelle.R 29 Janvier 2020 à 03:44 PM

You can also ask yourself these questions to find out more about yourself or what you're passionate about.

1. what was your favorite thing to do growing up?

I used to love dancing, playing pretend and hang out with my friends...later on in the beginning stage of my teenage years I started to enjoy writing.

2.when you were a child, what did you dream of doing when you grew up?

I dreamed of being a doctor. I dreamed of having everything want.

3. what is your favorite to talk about?

At the moment I love to talk about ways to be happy or how to overcome some issues in life could be anything financial, love and health issues.

4. what do you like doing so much that you lose tract of time?

I like reading but I haven't been doing it much TV has taken all my time and I lose tract of time when I watch TV.

5. whose life do you envy the most and why?

to be honest I don't envy anyone's life right now I would rather live my own, I wish things could be better but I am happy with my life.

6. what would you do differently with your education if you got a chance to start over?

well I would have wasted my time finding out what want I should've went straight to a technical school after high school to get a career I could start working withing a year or 9 months.

7. If you had 5 minutes and the whole world was forced to listen, what would you say?

I would say how much I've always wanted to let myself be free and I would say exactly what I always wanted to do.

8. what would do with your life if you had no fear?

I would faced love with my whole heart without being afraid of being hurt until I find the one worth the pain.

9. what would you do with your life if you had a guarantee of success?

I would publish my book.

10. what would you do with your life if money wasn't an issue?

I would travel the whole world and get my hair done every week or 2.

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2020-01-27T02:47:59+01:00

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Publié par Gaelle.R 27 Janvier 2020 à 02:47 AM

hey there,

It's so sad that Kobe Bryant passed away with his daughter that is sooooo tragic. I feel bad for the family, he was a great player. I love basket ball and he used to be my favorite player I don't think any player can ever replace him. Life is really not promised, cherished each day and do good around you as much as you can. Be grateful for everything and thank God everyday for everything you have even the most smallest thing as your toes just be glad you have them. I have been watching old interviews of him for the past week, I was not watching it because he was famous but I was watching because I wanted to see the type of life he lived. He did a lot of things, he followed his dreams, had a family, wrote a book and had real problems but he came out on top and he learned.

I realize that's what life is all about following your dreams, surround yourself with amazing people, create a family, find love, leave some things behind...have problems and not giving up. ALWAYS KEEP FIGHTING.

DO NOT HOLD BACK. There are some moments that you are going to want to give up you are going to want to go back but you have to give up anything that is holding you back it could be a past failure, an ex, someone you loved what about now? why can't you love someone today? what's keeping you from loving someone ? let it go. Love is amazing and we all need love,it is as simple as that. If you feel like giving up and you feel like you want to sit out of the game do this.

Pour your whole energy in what you love,
take risk and face your fears.
find your why.
work as hard as you can no matter what you're doing work hard at it because that will teach you to always work hard.
always be on time. This one is for me.
show up even if you don't feel like it.
read books.
listen to tapes and inspirational videos.
keep your word. When you say you're going to do something DO IT.
remember nothing great is ever accomplished without inspiration.
let go of what once were and live for today.
take time for yourself.
always pray and ask God to guide you.

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2020-01-22T23:34:34+01:00

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Publié par Gaelle.R 22 Janvier 2020 à 11:34 PM

question answered

Asked by viewers.

1. are you a morning or afternoon person?

To be honest I know for sure I am not a night person I get really drowsy and all I want to do is sleep. I know that In the morning I am either 100%loaded with energy or nothing at all. But I think I am a morning person most of the time. I am that one person that will wake you up just because I'm up and I will fall asleep way before you because my energy is already spent as soon as I got up.

2. Tea or coffee ?

I like both but I actually drink tea more, I only get coffee when I'm doing something that I have to stay awake for. Tea is better in general...caffeine is not really a good thing for your body.

3. Nap or sleep ?

uhm is that even a question? lol I will answer... I like taking naps during the day because it feels like a power source for my lack of energy during the afternoon. I am one of those people that absolutely need 8 hours of sleep fight me but I need it because I will not be a nice person when I don't get enough sleep.

4. what is something I always say?

uhm ... "whatever"? "lol" even tho I am not really laughing... among other things but it's secret lol. (again I am not laughing)

5.what did you do today ?

what I'm doing right now...which is being here haha.

6. favorite pet?

Ok who email me to ask about this question !!?? really lol I mention it before again and again. I love CATS like a lot and some people find it annoying but I'm not living for people so who cares?

7. thoughts on social media ? pro or against?

I am not fully pro and I am not against it either. I just don't want to be part of it at the moment but there was a time I was on every single social media account you could possibly think of but I choose to delete most of them because I want to refocus my vision...

8.fighter or quitter?

I am a fighter all the way, I fight for what I want and I don't give up that easily. You could say I always keep trying when I should've gave up but I didn't because I believe that I can make it happen one way or another. FYI when I give up it means I tried so hard and believe me there’s nothing else to do and I will no longer try.

9.If my pet could talk what would they say ?

I don’t have a pet but honestly if I had a pet cat she or he would say I’m annoying and I like to cuddle way too much haha and I say a lot of things that is hard to comprehend. I would get a female pet I don’t know why but that’s just me lol (again not really laughing) but anyway she would say I talk a lot when I’m home.

One thing that I wish to unsee ?

Woah ok ? Uhm well I saw a snake and I had nightmares after that. I wish I didn’t have to see it.

do I like to cuddle?

Hell yes ! Omg who doesn’t?

What I notice first about a guy ?

Ok these questions are becoming a little too personal.but I notice the eyes because it’s the” window to the soul”

Blue or white?

Uhm neither.

14 straight or curly hair ?

Curly hair; straight hair is dull in my opinion. I like big hair.

15.dream car?

Ferrariiiiiiiiiii

Ok bye I’m done answering the questions get too personal. I don’t do this often but if you know me and you want question answered ask me personally I will answer I won’t bite. If you only know my blog I guess you can keep emailing me questions to answer. I don’t like talking about myself by the way.

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2020-01-21T17:13:02+01:00

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Publié par Gaelle.R 21 Janvier 2020 à 05:13 PM

Why the greatest love story is the one you never see coming ?

honestly I was just going to type the question and post it without answering because I am probably the wrong person to start talking about love. I dropped the bomb in 2019 already if you don't know what it is go to the 3 or 4th page I am not sure which page it was. I have been posting a lot lately, which is a good thing because I need to keep writing if I want to ever publish a book.

Enough about my pathetic single life oops I did it again lol...Honestly I'm not here to bash singleness I embrace it to the core because that is one of the stages required in life to get to know yourself. At some point in your life no matter the person or how many relationships they've had in the past they did spend some time alone. Some people like being single and some don't and I can see why for both.

To answer in my own opinion why the greatest love story is the one you never see coming...

well let me start by saying if you know what desert you're going to have after you finish eating although you might like the desert and you might be excited to get it but imagine that you didn't even know you were going to eat that day and suddenly someone give you a big plate of food which makes you excited ! but then you thought you were done but suddenly the person gives you your most favorite desert wouldn't you be even more excited !!?I think you would be because you were not expecting any of that. It is the same thing for love, when you're not looking for it I believe that's when you fall the hardest and it could be your greatest love story.

when you're not expecting anyone and suddenly someone comes not only are they great but you didn't even know someone like that even existed, until you meet them. I don't know much about love but I know that it is very powerful it doesn't matter how hard you try to fight it off it will always come back.

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2020-01-19T06:38:18+01:00

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Publié par Gaelle.R 19 Janvier 2020 à 06:38 AM

Ce qu’il faut arrêter de dire.

Avant que je commence à partager cette idée génial qui m’est venu par la tête tout coup, je tiens à vous dire que ce j’écris sur mon blog est valable pour moi aussi. Je ne suis pas parfaite, je fais des erreurs aussi et parfois j’agis comme une folle mais je nuis pas folle. Si vous lisez mon blog vous verrez que j’ai un cerveau et je l’utilise beaucoup pour que je puisse vous enseigner d’un sujet quelconque.

Alors laisse moi vous dire 3 choses qu’il faut arrêter de dire cette année.

Il faut arrêter de dire « je ne vais pas y arriver mieux vaut que j’abandonne maintenant » je sais que la vie est dure et je sais que la vie n’est pas tout à fait en rose comme dit Edith Piaf. On veule tous avoir du succès mais parfois la route qui mène au succès est souvent difficile. On doit travailler très dure pour avoir du succès, par exemple si vous voulez être médecin tu dois passer des nuits blanches à étudier et tu dois te levez tôt le matin pour allez en cours. Alors vas-tu me dire que je ne veux pas aller en cours je vais rester au lit à dormir ? Non tu te débrouille et tu vas en classe! C’est la même chose si tu veux avoir quelque chose il faut que tu te bats pour l’avoir même si c’est difficile, il faut que tu continue à travailler très dure.
Il faut que tu arrête de te traiter comme « idiot» “idiote””et il faut que tu arrête de dire que tu es stupide. Je sais que j’ai dis que j’agis souvent comme une folle mais je n’ai jamais dis que j’étais une folle. Si tu te donnes les pires mauvais noms qu’il y a au monde petit à petit tu vas penser que tu est bête à la fin et tu vas commencer à te détester à force de te dévaliser. Il faut que tu te donne l’importance que tu mérite et quand tu fais quelque chose dingue tu te dis « ça va allez tu vas y arriver il faut tomber pour mieux apprendre » il faut que tu crois que tu vas y arriver même si tu fait des choses dingue.
Arrête de dire « les gens vont me critiquer donc vaut mieux que je ne fais rien. » c’est qui les gens ? Il faut que tu sache « les gens » que tu dis qui vont te critiquer ces gens là auront toujours quelque choses à dire même si tu reste la sans rien faire. Vaut mieux que tu fasses ce que t’as envie de faire parce que les gens sont partout et ils parleront toujours.

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2020-01-16T01:47:40+01:00

Someone need to hear.

Publié par Gaelle.R 16 Janvier 2020 à 01:47 AM

This a touchy subject for many and it used to be a very touchy subject for me too but not anymore. But It’s coming up a lot lately and I wish that I didn’t have to notice it but it’s there. I’ve already talked about it before it was probably 1 or 2 years ago but I know I have.

For the readers who have not seen me in person let me tell you that I am a small person lol, to me it really doesn’t matter what size or height someone is it’s what inside of them that counts for me. Sadly, some people who doesn’t think the same way as I do, love to point out my height, my weight and among some other things. At the beginning of this blog I can say I was 16 years old and I was not fully comfortable with my body. I was in high school and many girls were curvy with long hair, at the time I was not only skinny but I used to view my hair as something that is not manageable, something that I should hide from everyone and maybe I didn’t think my hair was pretty. I used to wear braids a lot and if I leave my hair out it would be blow dry or texturized I would never leave it in its natural state. I didn’t know the beauty of it or the beauty of anything on my body.

There are some girls out here who are struggling just like me to find themselves, to find the beauty that exist in them but it’s difficult because people around them are telling them something different. People are telling them they are too short or too tall, too skinny or too big, too light or too dark ... if only they could silence those voices and look at themselves in the mirror and see for themselves who they truly are without all the noise that is surrounding them.

For many years I’ve heard people say I’m too small, I’m too skinny or one day I’m going to gain weight... one day I will look more grown... one day I’m going to have a body that will make me look like a woman and not a girl. All I hear is “one day” what about today ? What am I suppose to do with the body that I’m in ? What am I suppose to do with myself in the meantime? I have decided a while ago to love me for me even if it took me a long time to get here.

I have silenced the voices around me. I have accepted my body and I decided to love every flaw, every scar, every hair, every part that doesn’t fit the norm or what’s trending at the moment. I have accepted that I am small. Even when people used to tell me that I was, I didn’t believe it because simply I didn’t want to accept it. I wanted to look different at some point and I wanted to have a different hair.

In 2017 I cut off the textured part of my hair and wore it natural it was very short something I never imagine myself doing. Ever since I did it I can say that I have found myself way more than I ever did when I was hiding behind those braids. I have accepted my hair, I have learn it’s language, I have learn to listen to it when its telling me to moisturize it, to wash it, to curl it or to simply leave it alone as it is, to give it a break. Even if I wear braids or weave I am not hiding. Now when I wear braids I cannot wait to take them out to wear my natural hair. I love it so much and it’s been growing. Because I love it a lot of people started to compliment me for it and even tell me how much they love it too, but there was a time I hated it and I could’ve sworn that everyone else hated it too. Anyone who has a problem with it can just leave me alone because it’s none of my problem anymore, I have come to love it and nothing can make me hate it. One that I learn form this is that when you start loving who you are or your appearance people start to love it too but when you hate it all you will see is the hate that “you think” people feel when they see you.

As for my body I have learn to love it each day. I have learn to see the beauty of what God created each time I take care of it when I feed it on time, take showers, dress it properly and use it to give glory to God. I have learn to accept and to believe that I am beautiful inside and out. Someone else telling you that you’re handsome or beautiful is just words but when you believe it for yourself it feels more than just a few words but simply a feeling of self acceptance. For anyone who’s struggling to accept who they are, you’re not alone although I’ve come this far I have yet to learn to love more things about myself. We are learning each day... don’t forget that you are here and that is everything you need to remember...

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2020-01-12T04:18:40+01:00

Self love

Publié par Gaelle.R 12 Janvier 2020 à 04:18 AM

I remember that I said I was going to come back to talk about self love, this year I am keeping my word. There’s a lot of things I am going to do differently. Ok so let’s get into it.

To me self love is important because sadly on those bad days you will feel like the biggest failure but on those good days remember to feel like you’re a real winner, like you’re a great catch. If you don’t feel good you will not look good and you won’t have enough confidence to let yourself be free.

Self love can come a long way, when you love yourself you can remain strong and you will be able to fight things that are trying to break you. By loving who you are you can accept that you are enough. If you don’t love yourself you won’t be able to accept who you are or even embrace your flaws because really if you don’t love those flaws who will?

I know some of us want to find (...) wait no all of us want to find that great love where the other person accept who we are and love our flaws but it all starts with you. If you don’t believe that you’re enough then when someone say it to you it will simply sounds like gibberish you won’t believe it. If you’re not able to love who you are not only can you not love anyone else but you won’t be able to accept love from anyone else that are trying to give it to you because you don’t believe in it.

God loved all of us first which why we are here and we should love him first for creating us and for still loving us while we are sinners. Self love is not taking a hundred selfies a day and caption it “loving myself” “feeling myself” you can take however many pictures you want to take and still not love yourself. Loving yourself is (...) wait let me use bullet points so you can read it better.

It is eating on time and giving yourself the nutrition that your body needs. You know what food you like so eat it, you know what diet will do you good and will give you strength then don’t deprave yourself from it. Food is one of the most important things. You need food to stay alive so make sure you eat and make time for it.
It is sleeping enough hours so you don’t spend the whole day grumpy and tired (that’s for me )
It is saying no when you know you can’t do something. Saying no is not a bad thing and it will not make you a bad person for declining someone’s offer, you know what’s good for you and if you don’t know what you want then start by finding out what you want.
Take alone time to reflect on yourself. Realizing your mistake and take full responsibility for them while also apologizing when you need to.
Meditating on the word of God and also by praying while telling God what your feelings are, what your fears are and by also asking him to strengthens you where you are weak. You can also ask him to guide you because having God in your life will seriously make you feel like a totally different person but in a good way.
Helping others, not so you can take the glory but so you can make someone’s life better. When you help someone you also help yourself.
Give freely and don’t ask for it in return. When you give with your whole heart there’s a pleasure that comes with it and it is way better than receiving.
Being honest. Loving yourself goes hand and hand with honesty. By Being honest with yourself and to other people you feel more like yourself and you will be free from trying to be someone else or even lying which is like a prison the more you lie the deeper you get in the hole of being a dishonest, unworthy person. When you do become dishonest you may even begin to hate yourself and other people will hate you for not being honest too.
Know your limit, it will be great to know what you are capable of so you can avoid being in difficult situation. None of us are perfect and by accepting that you’re not perfect you can be your true self and by knowing what you can and cannot do.
Surround yourself with positivity and with people that love and care about you. You can feel when someone cares and when you do feel it keep that person around. Keep those who want you to succeed, those who help you to stay positive, those who are going in the same direction that you’re going. Don’t get involve with negative people, people who gossip constantly, people who only cares about themselves, people who take pleasure in other people’s misery. Stay away from them because soon enough you will be just like them if you stick around.
Walk away when you need to. Someone doesn’t want you, great now is your chance to leave and don’t look back. It will hurt if you actually cared about the person and you starting to realize that the person don’t even care about you(...) cry if you need to but don’t let that break who you are. You are a loving and caring person but sadly you pick the wrong person to give it to. Get back up and believe that this is not the end, it will make you love who you are even more when you walk away from something that was trying to break you.
Take time to pamper yourself. Dress yourself the right way, comb your hair and take care of yourself mentally and physically.
Smile more and be positive that is a sign that you love yourself truly.

Actually loving yourself is accepting who you are and not being afraid to be that person.

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2020-01-12T01:01:23+01:00

If

Publié par Gaelle.R 12 Janvier 2020 à 01:01 AM

If you say you love me and you don’t think about me every single day, then I don’t want it.

If the thought of me in pain doesn’t make you want to absorb it because you hate to see me hurting, I don’t want it.

If my smile doesn’t make your whole body shivers and bring tears to your eyes each time because you’re so happy to be witnessing such a beautiful thing, then I don’t want it.

If you don’t always want to see me even if I am next to you, then I don’t want it.

If the thought of me leaving doesn’t make your whole life seems pointless, then I don’t want you near me.

If when I cry you don’t feel like protecting me and wanting to fight anything that is making me cry, then I don’t want you in my life.

If you see me failing at something and you don’t automatically feel the urge to help me get better at it, then I don’t want you.

If when you see me your heart doesn’t skip a beat as if it’s about to fall out of your chest, then I don’t want it.

If when you see me with my makeup off and my hair undone you don’t think I’m the most beautiful girl in the whole universe, then I am not for you.

If you’re not always happy to see me even if you were sad, then I don’t want you.

If you don’t automatically pay attention to me without me telling you that I need it, then I don’t want it.

If when you see me you don’t always feel like taking me in your arms as if you want to keep me away from danger, then I don’t want it.

If you can’t see or think about any other girl besides me, then I don’t want you.

If the thought of losing me doesn’t make you want to jump off a cliff, I don’t want it.

If when I am next to you it doesn’t feel like it’s me and you against the world, I don’t want you.

If you can’t stop telling everyone about me because suddenly I am your whole world, then I don’t want you.

If I don’t make you stutter and not being able to take your eyes off of me when you see me dressed up, the I don’t want it.

If you don’t always feel like cancelling plans with other people just to be with me, then I don’t want you.

If the thought of me talking to another guy doesn’t drive you crazy, then I would rather be alone.

If when everything goes wrong in your life and my presence doesn’t make it all disappear, then I don’t want it.

If you can’t pray with me in times of distress then you’re not the one for me.

If you don’t try to console me when things are bad then you don’t deserve me.

If you can go on with your life without me as if you never knew me, then I don’t want you.

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2020-01-11T07:23:52+01:00

Self worth

Publié par Gaelle.R 11 Janvier 2020 à 07:23 AM

Throughout life I had to learn every day what self worth is truly about. Some days I forget what it means and on those days I feel stupid for allowing myself to feel the way I feel.

Sometimes we may accept a bad treatment from someone we love and care about not because we don’t value ourselves but because we value that person so much that we are willing to accept it. Well look at it this way if the person you’re willing to accept bad treatment from valued you do you think they would want to treat you badly? The ugly truth is that we give very little attention or we give no care at all to things (people) we don’t care or value enough. It’s bad that some of us don’t care about some people but that’s the truth. Accepting that if they cared about you the same way you care about them they wouldn’t treat you badly is the first thing in having self worth.

Disregarding anything that is beneath our standard is a representation of our own self worth. If you believe that you deserve to be treated badly, ignored, abused, walked on, dismiss then you have no sense of self worth. No one should feel like they need to be treated badly. You deserve the best things in the whole universe. God created us to be happy, to take pleasure in the things that he gave us so why should you allow yourself to be treated poorly?

I am big on self love but I came to the conclusion that we should love God first before everything else it is because he loved us first that we can begin to love in return. Secondly we should learn to love ourselves so that we can love our neighbor. We cannot love someone else if we don’t love ourselves (to a certain extinct) I will come back to talk about my new view on self love. For now let me talk about self worth.

You shouldn’t be in a relationship with someone who abuse you or manipulate you in anyway. If you find yourself unhappy in a relationship the first thing you should do is leave that person, you’re not stuck or married to the person so you have the choice to leave. God want us to be happy, anyone who is adding stress to your life, making you cry, making you feel unworthy you should let them go. It’s easier said than done I know, but pray. I am not trying to shove God in anyone’s throat but if you visit my page you must know that I am a Christian and I believe in God. If you don’t you don’t have to keep reading... a prayer can save you from getting Into more complicated situation.

I believe that I deserve good things. Anyone who is not willing to uplift me or motivate me at the moment can exit. If I tell you something that I don’t like and you continue to do then it is really up to me to accept and I am learning to dismiss it (I don’t have to accept it) I am no longer yelling, fighting with anyone to be the way I want them to be (I can’t change anyone and nor can you) I can’t make someone love me if they don’t want to (you shouldn’t try either) the ugly truth is that they either love you or they don’t. Someone is out there waiting for you it’s a matter of time before you meet the person. Be patient let God do the work

. You and I deserve the best of the best.

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2020-01-10T18:37:32+01:00

feeling.

Publié par Gaelle.R 10 Janvier 2020 à 06:37 PM

I think the more we think the more we feel...Feelings can drive someone crazy or over the edge. You may start imagining things that aren't even there and that's when you start to feel bad. About two weeks ago I had a feeling of throwing my phone against the wall, dramatic yeah? well I can be. The reason behind that feeling was that I was using my phone way too much I was posting too much stuff and I felt like a prisoner to my phone like It was constantly in my hands checking the very little social media apps I have on my phone.

I don't like being out there I like a little bit of privacy, I hate posting what I am doing and sadly I have found myself in that box. I wanted to get out of it and the first thought that came to mind was throw your phone against the wall and destroy it lol. As soon as I started putting my focus away from those apps and focusing more on the people around me, on things around me, I also reconnected with my spiritual routine which makes me feel a lot better. I am good now I don't want to run away or throw my phone against the wall anymore. I am quite dramatic at times.

How do you feel at times? do you feel like running away from your problems?

one thing that I have learn is that running away from your problems will not solve the problem you need to be faced head on with it even if you're sacred, you need to try to solve it one way or another.

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